Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Stella Harris
Roughhousing For Adults
From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you can use to spice up your own bedroom play as well as teach you to do them safely.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal & External Pleasure
In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection along with ways to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. Whether exploring on your own body or with a partner, this class will show external and internal touch techniques and ways to make anal play accessible.
Dating in 2020: A Safe, Fun, and Practical Approach
Maybe you're getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in! By the end of this class there will be nothing stopping you from creating an awesome profile and feeling ready to meet new people!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Kink 101
Kink and BDSM are all the rage these days — maybe you've seen something that caught your attention but you don't know where to start in real life. With a little bit of information and know-how from Stella Harris, you can start introducing kink into your own play right now!
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
BOOK RELEASE PARTY: The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes!
From sexuality and relationships expert Stella Harris comes her second contribution to Cleis Press, The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes! Join She Bop in virtually celebrating the release of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes with a book reading, threesome Q&A, and meet and greet with the author!
Give ‘Em A Hand: Fisting, Fingering, & Sensual Touch
Hands can offer diverse and unique sensations unlike any other sex toy or body part, yet we often hear about manual stimulation being rushed through or skipped over completely to get to other sex acts. In this class, sex educators and hand sex pros Stella Harris and Gretchen Leigh invite you to slow down and discover the many wonders of your hands!
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Exploring Fantasy!
Curious about role play, sex games, kink, threesomes, and more? Or maybe you're curious about what's out there, but you don't know where to start? In this 45-minute QUICKIE with Stella Harris, she'll talk about some of the most common fantasies you might want to try as well as working your way through exploration exercises to find ideas you didn't even know you had.
Three (or More) Is Company
Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties. This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you're confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences.
Modern Dating: A Safe, Practical, and Fun Approach
Maybe you're getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in! Stella Harris will talk about how to write a compelling profile and present yourself in a flattering (and honest!) way, as well as ways to stay safe when meeting someone and how to assess your risk tolerance in regards to COVID-19.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Does the idea of restraint turn you on? In this class with Stella Harris, you'll learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You'll walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal & External Pleasure
In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection along with ways to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. Whether exploring on your own body or with a partner, this class will show external and internal touch techniques and ways to make anal play accessible.
Wet & Wild: G-spot and Squirting Orgasms
In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex. She'll talk about everything from sex toys to touch techniques you can try alone or with a partner to experience an internal orgasm, and ways you can increase your chances of squirting.
Three (or More) Is Company: Navigating Threesomes, Group Sex, and Play Parties
Studies show that multi-partner sex is the number one fantasy among American adults. But how do you make it happen? Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Do you want to learn the building blocks of rope bondage? And can you really do that through a computer screen? Welcome to this hybrid class, combining some of the most popular content in Stella Harris' bondage arsenal. In this class, you will learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Queer Safer Sex
Sex education rarely addresses queer sex, and that leaves people trying to figure it out on their own. In this class, Stella Harris will break down sexual risks based on body parts and acts, rather than gender or identity, covering everything you need to know to have a comprehensive safer sex negotiation.
Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal and External Pleasure
In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection, as well as how to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. This class is for anyone with a penis or prostate, or who likes playing with them!
Tied Up, Now What: Intro to Rope Bondage and Beyond
Does the idea of restraint turn you on? Want to learn the building blocks of rope bondage? This comprehensive 3-hour class combines some of the most popular content in Stella Harris' bondage arsenal! You'll learn how to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner and beyond.
Wet & Wild: G-spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Three (or More) Is Company: Navigating Threesomes, Group Sex, and Play Parties
Studies show that multi-partner sex is the number one fantasy among American adults. But how do you make it happen? If your communication and negotiation skills are on point, you can have safe and fun play with as many people as your heart desires. This class with Stella Harris will teach you how to facilitate happy and safe group experiences
Dating Today: Finding Joy in a Sea of Apps
Ready for a spring fling? A summer romance? Lasting love? Whether you're back to dating after a long break, or it has always seemed tricky, Stella Harris' class will give you practical knowledge and tools to enjoying looking for someone.