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Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal & External Pleasure

July 20 @ 6:00 pm 7:30 pm PDT

$15 – $25
Stella Harris

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — please check your order confirmation email for access information. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 3 hours prior to class PST. No day-of cancellations.

No one in our society has it easy when it comes to sex. Harmful ideas about the way sex and bodies should work can build shame and embarrassment for anyone who thinks they operate outside the mainstream porn example. For men/masculine identified people, the emphasis on performance and “doing” can create a great deal of stress and anxiety.

In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don’t require an erection along with ways to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. Whether exploring on your own body or with a partner, this class will show external and internal touch techniques and ways to make anal play accessible.

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. As a speaker, Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, as well as at numerous universities and across various broadcast media. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more on her website or follow her on Instagram.

We are excited to announce our new partnership with Bloom Community, a queer + sex-positive social and dating app coming to Portland this month! Check out Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal & External Pleasure on the Bloom Community app: https://bl.ooo/m/penis-to-prostate-a-guide-to-internal-and-external and follow She Bop on Bloom to see our upcoming events and connect with the community: https://bl.ooo/m/org/sheboptheshop.

We’re offering 2 free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Two people will be chosen randomly and contacted at least 2 weeks prior to class to confirm.