• Community

    Our pledge to do better

    Empowerment, education, and community are three of She Bop’s main values. We have stood by those values for ten years, but until recently, had neglected to look at the ways we have failed our community. We could have done better. We should do better. We pledge to do better. We did not question…

  • Community

    10% Tuesdays in June for the Q Center

    On each Tuesday in June, 10% of our sales will go to the Q Center, the wonderful LGBTQ community center just around the corner from us in North Portland. The Q Center is an absolute gem of an organization; here’s their description of what they do: Q Center serves as Portland’s LGBTQ2SIA+ (Lesbian,…

  • Keeping the Spark Alive for Long-Lasting Relationships

    Learn techniques and strategies that help keep the “spark'' alive in long-term relationships. While bringing your partner flowers or cooking them a special dinner from time to time can be a wonderful treat or surprise, there is much more we can learn to do to truly fan the flames of our relationship!

  • Dismantling STIgma: the Reassuring Truths About Herpes

    Join Rae as she dismantles the herpes stigma through education and storytelling. She will be discussing transmission and testing, dating and disclosure, safer sex practices and protecting sexual partners. This will be a safe space to ask questions, share resources, and connect with others looking to learn more about life after herpes.

  • Fellatio 2.0: An Oral Sex Upgrade!

    You know the basics: your hand-mouth coordination is on point, you've timed your breathing to a T, and you have an A+ in anatomy. Now's your chance to take things up a notch! Join She Bop educator Gretchen Leigh as she takes you through the ins and outs and ups and downs of…

  • Chronic Pain and Intimacy: How to Love Your Sex Life Again

    If you or someone you love lives with endometriosis, pelvic myalgia, vaginismus, or regular pain during/after sex, this class is for you. We'll explore how to confidently communicate your needs, how to expand your sexual horizons, and we'll dive into the best tips, toys, and tricks for building the vibrant sex life you…

  • Bottoms Up: Mind-Melting Erotic Spanking!

    Since the dawn of time, spanking has brought pleasure and pain to all kinds of booties. What’s your favorite kind of spanking? Firm yet gentle? Over the knee? Have you ever tried rhythmic spanking or been spanked into a trance-like state? This workshop with Sexual Empowerment Coach Jessie Fresh will help you explore…

  • Roughhousing For Adults

    Stella Harris

    From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you…

  • Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101

    Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!

  • Erotic Hypnosis

    Want to learn how to use erotic hypnosis to enhance your sex life? In this class, educator Simone Justice will explain what hypnosis actually is and is not, and how to do it. Find out how to begin experimenting with the power of consensual erotic hypnosis to enhance your intimacy, explore your wildest…

  • Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want

    Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.

  • The Ultimate Orgasm: Building Sexual Energy with Edging

    Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, where you feel the full power of your passion? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy that will create a powerful wave of pleasure. In this class, Jessie Fresh will teach you how to decode the best orgasm you've ever had so you…