Aug
24

BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop

Amory JaneWednesday, November 1st — 7:30 pm — $20

HEADS UP! Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover’s mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!

Amory Jane will talk about anatomy, blowjob positions, teasing, mouth and tongue techniques, what to do with your hands, and how to ask for what you want. She will cover sloppy BJs, deep throating, gagging, and playing with power dynamics. She will also share ideas on making oral sex more stimulating and pleasurable for the giver and dealing with issues such as TMJ or neck pain.

This workshop includes a live demo on a strap-on dildo. Bring a pen and paper if you like to take notes, and a dildo from home if you like to practice as you learn!

Limited space available — sign up online!

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Aug
20

Even More Pleasure, Power, and Pain: Expanding Your BDSM Experiences

AnnamarieThursday, October 26th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

Do you have a basic understanding of BDSM play? Perhaps you’ve read some of the how-to manuals, own some kinky toys, took a class or two, or have explored some sexy role play in the bedroom. Where do you go from here?

In this class, you’ll learn skills to help you build hot, intense scenes no matter what you’re into. We’ll cover how to take some of the BDSM basics a bit farther, plus learn some edgier types of play such as CBT, nipple/breast torment, and orgasm control. There will also be a discussion of public play — how to get invited to a party, what to expect, good etiquette, and more!

Be ready to try things out (optional, but so much fun!), ask questions, and share your experiences!

Annamarie is a passionate sex educator with a knowledge fetish. Sexuality has been a life-long interest, with a focus on embracing our entire sexual selves, growing as erotic beings, and creating community. She has been presenting and teaching workshops on sexuality, polyamory, and BDSM in the Portland area and around the west coast since 2006. You can learn more at her websites, Fierce Grace and PDX Kink Events.

Limited space available — sign up online!

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Jul
30

Win tickets to CineKink PDX 2017!

Want to snag tickets to the one-night-only CineKink PDX, taking place Tuesday, August 8th, at the Clinton Street Theater? Of course you do!

We’re giving away one pair of tickets to each screening that night. Choose which screening you’d like to attend, then enter using the widget below.

Best of CineKink 2017 — 7 p.m. — A collection of sexy shorts deemed the best during CineKink’s most recent festival run. This year’s assortment, with works ranging from mildly spicy to quite explicit, includes an animated trip to the erotic book section, a swinger hook-up gone slightly awry, and a surreal, kink-filled journey set in New York’s infamous Chelsea Hotel.

Kink & Community — 9 p.m. — A short film sampling of the many predilections that make up the world of kink — and a CineKink award-winning look at the museum that strives to document them all. 

Winners must be over 18. Giveaway ends at 11:59 pm PST on Thursday, August 3rd.
We will notify winners via email by the evening of Friday, August 4th.

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Jul
30

10% Tuesdays in August for Bitch Media

Bitch: the Blue Issue10% Tuesdays for Bitch are back! Throughout the month of August, 10% of our sales on Tuesdays will go to the non-profit organization Bitch Media. Bitch’s mission is to encourage an engaged, thoughtful feminist response to mainstream media and popular culture.

Check out Bitch’s toy, lube, and book recommendations for some ideas on what to snag!

We are big fans of Bitch. They’re an invaluable voice in the feminist discourse. We constantly find ourselves wanting to signal boost the stuff they publish — like their account of dildo innovation, their history of American sex ed films, their interview with the author of Big Big Love, their sex worker series “The H-Word,” their interview with sex diary purveyor Arianne Cohen, and their BDSM series “Thinking Kink.”

But it’s not just their blog that’s amazing; their print magazine, which has been in circulation since 1996, is still going strong. Bitch also hosts awesome events, fosters a community lending library at their headquarters in NE Portland, and publishes an array of fun podcasts for your listening pleasure. Follow them on Facebook and Twitter for up-to-the-minute tidbits!

Whether you are a long-time devotee or a newbie to this awesome magazine and non-profit organization, you can now be a supporter and get some fabulous sex toys to boot. Drop by She Bop or shop online on any Tuesday in August to support Bitch!

Jul
23

DIY Porn with Madison Young

Madison YoungThursday, October 19th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

Make your own porn or D-I-Y trying! Join feminist porn icon and award-winning erotic filmmaker Madison Young for this highly entertaining workshop that gives fascinating insights into the world of adult filmmaking and how creating radical sexy DIY porn can change the world one authentic orgasm at a time. Madison will guide the class through the process of developing a vision and concept, then how to manifest a powerful erotic film. This quick-and-dirty class will present to students the basics of script writing, casting, financing your film, marketing, and distribution.

Madison Young is an author, feminist pornographer, and sexual revolutionary. Young is the founder and facilitator of Erotic Film School, the only erotic film training program in the United States. She has directed 43 feminist erotic films over the past decade and is a seven time Feminist Porn Award winner. Young speaks frequently on the topic of feminism, sexuality and pornography at colleges and universities. Her writings have been published in books such as The Ultimate Guide to Kink, Coming Out Like a Porn Star, and The Ultimate Guide to Sex through Pregnancy and Motherhood. Young is currently working on her one woman show “Reveal All Fear Nothing: A Journey in Sex, Love, Porn and Feminism.”

Limited space available — sign up online!

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Jul
17

Mapping the Vulva: Licking, Touching, Teasing, & Talking

Sunday, October 15th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

Stella HarrisThere is so much confusion surrounding vulvas that it’s become a pop-culture joke. Unfortunately, the joke is on us. With vulvas being a place of mystery (and worse, a source of shame), our ability to receive pleasure from this area of the body can be extremely diminished. This class will dispel misinformation and teach you all about the vulva — from anatomy to styles of touch. In addition to the external genitalia, we’ll also discuss the vagina, the G-spot, and the underlying anatomical structures.

With a focus on intimacy and connection, this class will cover styles of communication that will set both the giver and the receiver of touch at ease and give you tools to communicate your desires. There is a whole world of pleasure available if giver and receiver are willing to learn how to relax, open up, to touch and receive touch.

Using visual aids, sex toys, and vulva models, we’ll discuss everything from hand sex to oral sex as well as the use of toys — and ways to combine all three.

Stella Harris is an author, educator, and coach who focuses on intimacy and connection. As a certified Intimacy Educator, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. She has presented classes for a variety of organizations including the Portland Leather Alliance, the Portland Academy of Sex Ed, Sex Positive Portland, and more, and has spoken at Portland State University, Reed College, and Pacific University. Stella is widely published in print and online, from erotic fiction to educational and lifestyle pieces on sex and kink.

Stella hopes to build a world where everyone has the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame.

Limited space available — sign up online!

Jul
17

Modern Dating: A Safe, Practical, and Fun Approach

Sunday, September 24th — 7:30 pm — $15

Stella HarrisMaybe you’re getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — either way, this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in!

These days, everyone has heard of online dating, even if they’ve never tried it. For a variety of reasons, online dating sites are increasingly the way people meet each other. With everyone working more and more, meeting people the old fashioned way, through friends or social gatherings, isn’t always practical.

So what are the considerations when meeting someone online? We’ll talk about how to write a compelling profile and present yourself in a flattering (and honest!) way, as well as ways to stay safe when meeting someone for the first (or second, or third) time. You’ll also learn current information about STIs, ways to protect yourself, and communication skills for bringing up the conversation with potential partners.

This class will also include a brief overview of different relationship styles, such as open relationships, polyamory, and swinging, so that you can have the information you need to decide what you’re looking for, and you’ll know what other people mean if they say that’s what they’re into. By the end of this class there will be nothing stopping you from creating an awesome profile and going out to meet new people!

Stella Harris is an author, educator, and coach who focuses on intimacy and connection. As a certified Intimacy Educator, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. She has presented classes for a variety of organizations including the Portland Leather Alliance, the Portland Academy of Sex Ed, Sex Positive Portland, and more, and has spoken at Portland State University, Reed College, and Pacific University. Stella is widely published in print and online, from erotic fiction to educational and lifestyle pieces on sex and kink.

Stella hopes to build a world where everyone has the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame.

Limited space available — sign up online!

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Jun
25

Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101

Thursday, September 28th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

AJ (aka Amory Jane)Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!

In this educational and humorous workshop, AJ will confront taboos, go over anal anatomy, prostate, and the G-spot, discuss anal penetration for beginners, and show great positions for anal sex. She’ll also cover safety and hygiene and give you the inside scoop on all the best lubes and anal toys! This class is open to all genders and sexual appetites.

AJ (aka Amory Jane)  graduated with a master’s degree from Lewis & Clark College, where she studied Sex Therapy and Marriage, Couple, & Family Counseling. AJ is the host of the podcast Sex on the Brain with Amory Jane, has spoken on various panels about sex and sexuality, frequently emcees sex-positive events (such as Whoopee! A Sex-Positive Variety Show) and regularly presents workshops at She Bop and around the country.

Limited space available — sign up online!

Jun
25

Pleasure, Power, and Pain: An Introduction to BDSM

Wednesday, September 20th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

BDSM — whips, chains, and lots of black leather, right? Well… sometimes! But the world of kink and BDSM covers so much more, from a little rough sex to the opportunity to explore your personal boundaries, both emotional and physical.

If you’ve been curious about something you’ve read, or turned on by a scene in a movie that’s a little rougher than the usual fare, this class is for you! You’ll learn how to use those amazing toys and have the chance to see what they feel like. We’ll also be discussing role play, power dynamics, and resources for finding the local BDSM community.

Bring your fantasies, your questions, and your curiosity and get ready for a hot evening!

Annamarie is a passionate sex educator with a knowledge fetish. Sexuality has been a life-long interest, with a focus on embracing our entire sexual selves, growing as erotic beings, and creating community. She has been presenting and teaching workshops on sexuality, polyamory, and BDSM in the Portland area and around the west coast since 2006.

Limited space available — sign up online!

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Jun
19

Sex-Positive Variety Show Ticket Giveaway!

Whoopee! A Sex-Positive Variety Show is moving to the Bossanova Ballroom this month and we are giving away a pair of tickets! In addition to celebrating their Bossanova debut, this month’s Whoopee! will also be a gigantic birthday celebration for the show’s host (and our Education Coordinator), Amory Jane.

June’s show will be the biggest Whoopee! yet – with over 10 sex-positive and body-positive acts, including burlesque, aerial, sex-centric comedy, drag, fire dancing, sex-themed storytelling and more. It will also be followed by a Kinky Karaoke afterparty! There will be free prizes from She Bop, Clone-A-Willy, Good Clean Love, and Uberlube, a giant sexy raffle with tickets for the whole audience, dildo ringtoss, tarot readings, and appearances by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.

About Whoopee! A Sex-Positive Variety Show

Whoopee! A Sex-Positive Variety Show is a once a month live stage show unlike anything else, and the theme is that all acts are sex-positive, body-positive, and/or about human sexuality. To learn more about Whoopee!, read our interview with Amory Jane or visit whoopee.live or facebook.com/sexvarietypdx

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This giveaway ends on Thursday, June 22nd at 11:59 p.m.

 Giveaway is only open to people 21 and older.

Winner will be chosen by random draw and will receive notification that they won on Friday, June 23rd. Winner will be placed on the guest list for free entry for themselves plus a friend.

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