• She Bop's Picks

    She Bop’s Picks: Halloween

    From costume parties to sharing ghost stories by candlelight, there are so many different ways to celebrate Halloween. Though we are a bit limited this year with how we choose to celebrate, there are plenty of ways to keep things sweet, shocking, and sexy from the comfort of your own home! The best…

  • News

    We’re hiring for Education Coordinator!

    She Bop is seeking an enthusiastic, reliable, and sex-positive local (Portland) individual to fill a part-time position (10-20 hrs/wk) as our Education Coordinator. Previous experience in sex education and public speaking required. This position includes, but is not limited to, communicating with current instructors and recruiting new instructors, coordinating and hosting She Bop…

  • Community

    We Give Back Wednesdays: Bradley Angle

    October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and we will be donating 10% of all sales on Wednesdays this month to Bradley Angle, an organization whose mission is to offer survivors of domestic and sexual violence options for safety, empowerment, healing and hope, while collaborating with local communities to create social change. In 1975, Bradley…

  • Guides

    How to choose your first vibrator

    PicoBong Ako

    So you want to buy your first vibrator — or replace a crappy old one. It seems like a daunting task, we know! There are certainly a ton of options out there. But it’s not as difficult as it seems, and believe us, it can be fun and exciting once you’ve been pointed…

  • Community

    Our pledge to do better

    Empowerment, education, and community are three of She Bop’s main values. We have stood by those values for ten years, but until recently, had neglected to look at the ways we have failed our community. We could have done better. We should do better. We pledge to do better. We did not question…

  • Relationship Design & Relationship Anarchy!

    Caress and Andy Fitch

    Tired of following everyone else's rules? Tired of new partners making assumptions? Unsure of when and how to tell your partner about your sexuality profile, kinks, and relationship preferences? Join Andy and Caress as they help you to take hold of your autonomy and individuality and build your own unique, joyous relationship.

  • The Art of Erotic Dance: Lapdancing 101

    Andre Shakti

    Do you wish you could gracefully navigate and elongate those moments between being fully dressed and completely nude? Has a partner suggested you "dance" for them, and you were confused by what they meant? Join Andrew Shakti, stripper and professional slut, for this intro to erotic dance.

  • Wet and Messy Erotic Fluid Play!

    Tina Horn

    Come get wet and messy with kinky podcaster Tina Horn as we explore playing with all kinds of body fluids. From golden showers to saliva, from milk to blood, from squirting to underarm sweating, we'll explore the taboos nature of human secretions and some inventive ways to make them even filthier. We'll also…

  • Getting It: How to Have Healthy Hookups

    Allison Moon

    Casual sex can be fun, freeing, and hot. But to make the most of a no-strings-attached romp, it helps to have some skills in place. Learn from Allison Moon, proudly promiscuous sex educator & author of Girl Sex 101, as she guides you through the communication tools, self-assessments, and negotiation skills necessary to…

  • Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™

    Jessie Fresh

    Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and…

  • Exploring Gender Identity

    Tuck Malloy

    How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.

  • Autism & Sexuality: Embracing Difference

    Kate McNulty and Morrigan Hunter

    Navigating intimacy can be challenging but can make for interesting and enjoyable experiences too! Morrigan and Kate, both Autistic Social Workers, will invite you to have a conversation on the myths and realities of sex for Autistic people and imagine ways in which we can create a more accessible world.

  • Erotica Writing 101

    Rachel Kramer Bussel

    In this two hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives.