Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Stella Harris
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work through, from messages implying that wanting sex or pleasure is slutty (and that that's a bad thing) to ubiquitous sex tips that make it sound like we're supposed to read our partners' minds.
Kink 101
Kink and BDSM are all the rage these days — maybe you've seen something that caught your attention but you don't know where to start in real life. With a little bit of information and know-how from Stella Harris, you can start introducing kink into your own play right now!
Mapping the Vulva: Anatomy, Communication, Touch, & Pleasure
With vulvas being a place of mystery (and worse, a source of shame), our ability to receive pleasure from this area of the body can be extremely diminished. This class from Stella Harris will dispel misinformation and teach you all about the vulva — from anatomy to styles of touch.
Masturbation as Self-Love & Self-Care
What would it look like if we treated ourselves like our most cherished partner? Stella Harris will discuss touch techniques and the ways our bodies can experience pleasure. We will consider making pleasure a ritual, learn genital massage techniques, and embrace masturbation as a healthy, loving practice.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Roughhousing For Adults
From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you can use to spice up your own bedroom play as well as teach you to do them safely.