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Dating Today: Finding Joy in a Sea of Apps

May 9 @ 6:00 pm 7:30 pm PDT

$15 – $25
Stella Harris

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to start time. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific. No day-of cancellations.

Ready for a spring fling? A summer romance? Lasting love? Whether you’re back to dating after a long break, or it has always seemed tricky, Stella Harris’ class will give you practical knowledge and tools to enjoying looking for someone.

Meeting online is a part of dating today, so we will talk about creating a profile that is flattering, honest, and will connect you with someone right for you, and as well as staying safe when meeting for the first (or second, or third) time. Staying safe also requires handling STIs and COVID, so we will talk about the latest information about risks and ways to protect yourself, plus how to have that awkward conversation with potential partners without spoiling the fun.

We will also have a quick word about different relationship styles and interests — like kink, open relationships, polyamory, and swinging — so you can name what you’re looking for, and will know what other people mean when they talk about what they’re into. After this class, there will be nothing stopping you from meeting new people!

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. As a speaker, Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, as well as at numerous universities and across various broadcast media. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more on her website or follow her on Instagram.

We partner with Bloom Community, a queer + sex-positive social and dating app! Follow She Bop on Bloom to see our upcoming events and connect with the community.

We’re offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm.