She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

It’s the most wonderful time of the year for all the romantics out there, and an even better time to introduce some fun new goodies — be it with partners, with friends, or with yourself! We’ve got a brand new gift guide to help you navigate all those big decisions for your 2019 Valentine’s Day.

Be sure to check out last year’s list and our Valentine’s gift guides from 2017, 2016, 2015, and 2014 for more inspiration!

Sweet Cream and Sweet Rush Vibes

Have you ever seen such cute vibrators before?! These vibes from Blush Novelties “The Collection” are adorned with sweet treats and cute critters that are bound to make you smile with each use. The Sweet Cream vibe is covered in bright smiley ice cream treats, and the Sweet Rush vibe displays a collection of donuts, coffee, candy, and cats! What more could you ask for?

These vibes are made of non-porous phthalate-free ABS plastic and have a smooth matte finish, making them sleek and smooth to the touch and easy to clean. The turn dial at the base gets these friends going, and with a smooth rumbly vibration they are powerful as they are sweet! All you need is 2 AA batteries and they’re off! Use it vaginally, use it clitorally, use it solo or with a partner — these cuties are here for it all!

Stockroom Heart Lock Collar

And while we’re talking cute and sexy — nothing says “be mine” like one of these collars, made by Stockroom in LA! To adorn a sweetie in this piece, all you have to do is unlock the nickel-plated heart lock with one of the included keys, wrap the lightweight latigo leather choker around their neck, and lock your lover in. Sleek, subtle, and sexy in appearance, and sure to send a message to all who may see it. It comes in jet black and baby pink, to fit anyone’s style, and two different sizes! Who WOULDN’T want to sport one of these darling collars?

Tease and Please Set

Who says you can’t have it all? The Tease and Please set, a collaboration by We-Vibe and Womanizer, certainly says otherwise. It includes the We-Vibe Sync, a rechargeable, wearable dual vibe that stimulates both the G-spot and the clitoris and can be worn while receiving vaginal penetration, and the Womanizer Premium, a rechargeable clitoral stimulator with 12 levels of intensity that uses pleasure flow technology to simulate a suction stimulation on the clitoris! Both come with two year warranties and incredible added features.

The We-Vibe Sync can connect to the We-Connect App, a free application that lets you pair your device to your lover’s We-Vibe. Once connected, you can control the We-Vibe from ANY distance (seriously, from different countries even), and set your own vibration patterns in fun creative ways, like setting your own vibration playlists! The Womanizer Premium comes with a smart silence feature, meaning it will only turn on when it’s in close contact with skin, so no loud, excess noise. And with a price point that saves you $100 off their retail prices, you are in for a sweet deal all around!

Fun Factory Manta

We haven’t forgotten about you, folks with penises! The Manta is one of the newest products from German company Fun Factory and is designed with everyone’s pleasure in mind. The Manta is a vibrating ergonomic penis stroker that has opened a whole world of possibilities. Its wand like handle makes it easy to hold and makes it so the vibration stays in the vibe and doesn’t numb your hand. Its manta-ray shape isn’t just meant to be aesthetically pleasing, it also enhances the power of the motor and adds motion to the vibration. Not to mention its convenient ridges on the inside of the toy’s wings, meant to help evenly distribute lubricant.

Use the Manta as a solo stroker, either moving it up and down the shaft or holding it in place at the base or head of the penis, or as a couples’ toy, using it to essentially turn the penis into a vibrator or as an assistant for oral, simulating a deep-throat sensation. The Manta is fully waterproof and comes with 6 modes of intensity and 6 patterns, as well as a 2 year warranty. What’s not to love?

Foulmouth Greetings “Lovers” Collection

Say how you REALLY feel with the newest “lovers” collection from Foulmouth Greetings! With 4 new additions to our selection, you are bound to find just the right card to send to a partner or lover. Send the “Mask”  card to a sweetie you’ve caught all the feels for and watch them blush when they read “I may have caught a feeling”. “You been puttin spells on me?” reads the “Crystal” card, perfect for a new date, a longtime lover, or the witchy babe in your life. The adorably designed “Top” card sends a direct message for those typically top-inclined folks who are changing their tune, reading “I’ve always considered myself a top. With you though, I’m basically down for whatever.” Do you ever feel like even when you are right next to someone you care for, you still aren’t close enough? The “Nesting Doll” card gets you, reading “I wish I could fit my whole body inside your whole body.”

Check out Foulmouth’s entire selection for even more sweet and sexy options, and for only $5 a card, what’s stopping you from sending everyone you love a special little love letter this Valentine’s day?

Shi/Shi

The day has finally come — the toy we never thought would be is finally here! The Shi/Shi is a double-ended, highly flexible dildo with TWO motors! There is a motor for each end, making it possible for each partner to set their desired levels of vibration without interfering with a lover’s preferred vibration settings. NS Novelties has outdone themselves with this premium silicone, rechargeable masterpiece. The flexibility of this toy makes it easy to fit and move between two bodies, and the silky smooth silicone makes it soft to the touch and comfortable for those experiencing it. With a myriad of vibration settings at your fingertips, the fun may just never end!

Clone-A-Pussy Plus+ Sleeve

The newest and most complex design yet from local company Empire Labs! The Clone-A-Pussy Plus+ sleeve is a masturbation sleeve unlike any before, because it is completely personalized! A spin on their classic Clone-A-Pussy set, the Plus+ Sleeve makes it so you can mold your favorite vulva (or orifice of your choice!) and, in the words of Empire Labs themselves, Clone it and Bone it! The directions are incredibly user friendly and easy to use. The kit includes everything you need — body-safe molding materials, medical-grade silicone, water-based lube, masturbation sleeve and stir sticks are all there to make your molding journey as easy as possible. The sleeve is removable and easy to clean.

This kit is a great gift for the penis-havers in your life, giving them the gift of your vulva to use at their leisure! And if you mess up your molding process, don’t worry! Empire Labs will hook you up with more molding powder, so you can get the perfect mold for your perfect gift.

Trustex Non-Lubricated Mint Condom

Trustex non-lubricated mint flavored condoms are the perfect treat for those who love a minty fresh blowjob or a sweet subtle tingly sensation while hooking up with a lover. These FDA-approved condoms are green, to match their minty flavor, and non-lubricated for the chance to use your desired lubricant or none at all! Whether you’re looking to try something new or are a flavored-condom veteran, these condoms make a great addition for anyone who loves a fresh flavor and a fun time!

Mint & Amaretto Aphrodisiac Chocolate

Whether you’re looking to get in the mood, for a nice energy boost, or just for a sweet treat, these Aphrodisiac Chocolates are for you! These herb-infused chocolates come in two delectable flavors — milk chocolate amaretto, for the chocolate covered cherry fans, and dark chocolate mint, for those looking for a richer full flavor. Boost your libido with herbs like Ginko Biloba, Siberian Ginseng, Guarana, Horny Goat Weed, Damiana, Muira Puama, Avena Sativa, Passion Flower, and Dong Quai.

Manufactured by a women-owned company in Washington, these sweet treats use no artificial coloring or ingredients, careful though: they may contain nuts! Surprise your lover with the gift of a delicious treat and a sexy libido booster all wrapped in one small package. And for only $1 a chocolate, what more could you want?

“Don’t Overthink What Feels Good” Zine

This lovely zine by Archie Bongiovanni, author of “A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns” and the zine “Queer Flagging 101!” has put together a sweet collection of poetry covering all the things we most often find ourselves overthinking — crushes, orgasms, dating, you name it! Woo your lover with the gift of poetry and let them know how much you care with beautiful words. As this zine says perfectly “Don’t overthink what feels good. Your body is so much deeper than you can imagine.” We all deserve to enjoy what feels good, and this zine is here to remind you and your loved ones to enjoy the finer and sometimes intimidating things in life.

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

Have you been struck by one of Cupid’s arrows and are looking for the perfect present for your beloved? Perhaps you want to impress a new partner, treat yourself to something sexy, or give the gift of pleasure to a favorite friend? Any time of year is great for sex toys, but with Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we thought we would put together a special guide with some of our top picks for this February.

Check out last year’s list, and our picks from 2016, 2015, 2014, and 2013 for even more ideas!

Stronic G

She Bop’s staff, Team Bop, has been excitedly waiting for the arrival of the Stronic G for quite some time. After experiencing the original Stronic Eins, it is safe to say that many of us began to “Trust the Thrust,” as was encouraged by Fun Factory on the promo material for their Stronic line. The Stronic pulsators don’t vibrate like traditional toys — they thrust back and forth — and can often be used for hands-free stimulation. Their patented technology means there literally is nothing else like them on the planet. So, if you are looking for a unique toy and something that offers the kind of movement and pressure that could previously only be provided by capable fingers, look no further!

Just like with every new Smartphone on the market, Stronic G has taken a thoroughly modern step in that it is lighter and slimmer than its predecessors. This sleeker design makes it more accessible and easier to hold, but that doesn’t mean it lacks in any power. It still has 10 movement settings that range from a slow trot to a quick rhythmic thrust that is enthusiastic yet completely consistent. Based on many positive reviews, you may even find that the Stronic G becomes your go-to toy for squirting adventures!

Peacemaker

Vixen Creations has done it again — designing another innovative toy based on customer requests and feedback! People asked for a real-feel double-ended dildo, and Vixen delivered with the Peacemaker! This beauty was modeled after their original Nexus dildo, but handcrafted into something more by adding circumference and their legendary dual-density VixSkin. The realistic side of the toy has 6.5 inches of insertable length and is 1.9 inches in girth. It comes in three different skin colors and includes lifelike details that help it feel like an extension of the body (especially since VixSkin is known for warming and retaining body heat). The curved purple part of the toy is smoother in texture, good for fans of G-Spot stimulation, and measures at 5.25 inches insertable length by 1.5 girth.

The Peacemaker is a wonderful toy for couples, and works best when paired with a harness. Any harness with a double-ended dildo compatible design should do, but our recommendations are for the ultra comfortable and adjustable Joque, the sleek and minimalist Switch Leather Camryn, or the sturdy and lightweight Vegan Jaguar harness by Aslan.

Make Me Melt Wax Play Candles

If you want to do something extra HOT with your partner this Valentine’s Day, why not try wax play? The paraffin Make Me Melt Wax Play Candles are classic and inexpensive tools to add to any BDSM toy bag.  They are created to drip sensually on the body and provide just a touch of heat and sting upon contact. Once on the skin, the wax quickly cools and hardens, turning your lover’s body into an original Jackson Pollock-esque work of art.

If this kind of sensation play is new to you, pair the candles with The Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play for an adventurous and thoughtful gift all for under $25.

Element MS

The palm-sized Sir Richard’s Element MS may look like a stingray, but its supple silicone wings are smooth, comfortable, and accommodating. This toy enthusiastically proves that vibrators are not just for vulvas. It is made to stimulate the frenulum, a sensitive erogenous zone along the underside of the penis (or can be flipped around for extra base and shaft stimulation). Its flexibility and versatility also means it can be used with or without an erection.

The Element MS has five intensity levels and four vibration modes, and may be used solo or with a lover. Lube it up with a slick water-based gel for an incredible vibrating hand job. Enhancement ribs add extra stimulation with each stroke! It may also be worn around the penis during partner play, providing a curved and thrumming surface to ride on or rub against for waves of vibrating pleasure. The Element MS is waterproof and washable for easy cleanup, made from platinum medical-grade silicone, and is powered by a USB rechargeable high performance lithium battery.

XConfessions Volume 10

If you think the days of watching adult movies on DVD are over, you are truly missing out on some gorgeous and revolutionary porn! Famous erotic film director Erika Lust continues her award-winning XConfessions series, and XConfessions Vol. 10 is one of the most artistic and diverse volumes yet. While XConfessions originally started as a project on Erika Lust’s website, it has now grown into a global feminist porn movement, featuring guest directors and stars from all over the world.

Like Lust’s other volumes, XConfessions Vol. 10 includes ten explicit, beautiful, and imaginative short films. There is a dystopian science-fiction porn, a film featuring a bisexual foursome, scenes of stripping and voyeurism, and even a Wes Anderson style fantasy that was filmed in Barcelona and Berlin. If it wasn’t for all of the nudity and hot sex, you might forget you aren’t watching a highly nominated indie film. These are not your grainy online amateur videos (not that there is anything wrong with those). However, you can watch without the distraction of ads and poor lighting, and while knowing this porn was ethically made, directed by women, and inspired by fans.

Migliori Lubricant

Still searching for a lube that feels amazing, moisturizes, is long-lasting, and can help increase pleasure and decrease discomfort? How about one of She Bop’s newest additions to our selection of lubricants? Migliori!

Migliori is a unique lubricant unlike anything else on the market. It looks mostly like a water-based gel, but is in fact a premium silicone-based formula with vitamins A, B6, D3, and E. Whereas most silicone lubes have a thin and slippery dry oil feel, Migliori is a thick and more full-bodied silicone lubricant that provides extraordinary glide and longevity. That means less drying and less reapplying. As an added bonus, it comes in a pretty teardrop-shaped glass bottle (with included velour travel bag). Note: Since this product is silicone-based, it is not compatible with silicone toys.

We-Vibe Ditto

Most of us have heard about the fantasy/scenario where a couple uses a remote-operated vibrator in public for a memorable Valentine’s date night. Well, now this kinky option is available for everyone, and is able to be more discreet than ever!

We-Vibe is known for luxury app-compatible toys that are geared toward couples, and the Ditto is their first remote-controlled vibrating butt plug! It is rechargeable, 100% waterproof, and comes with a 2-years manufacturer’s warranty. A lovely size for beginner to intermediate bottoms, the Ditto is made from smooth silicone and has a flexible neck for comfort. Its deep and rumbly vibrations mix with gentle pressure for amazing hands-free stimulation. Ideal for wearing out, wearing during sex, or for masturbation.

Choose from 10 preset vibration settings or create your own with the free We-Connect app. That means you or your partner can use either the slim pocket-sized remote or a smartphone to send sensations to one of your most sensitive spots — whether you’re sitting across the table from each other or you’re across the country!

Charged Remote Control Panty Vibe

Excited by the idea of a remote-operated vibrator but not into anal stimulation? We still have you covered — with the Charged Remote Control Panty Vibe! This vibrating bullet + underwear set goes above and beyond the panty vibes of yesteryear. For starters, the waterproof, 10-function Vooom bullet is USB rechargeable. It is also operated by a remote control that is disguised as a silicone finger ring. Tuck the bullet into the hidden pocket of the included side-tie lace panties (fits up to 60-inch waists) or use your own favorite pair of pocket undies to put vibrations exactly where you want them.

Do you like versatility and having options for your toys? The small standard size and shape of the Vooom vibrating bullet means that it can also fit in harnesses and into the bases of compatible dildos and finger vibe sleeves. It may be operated without the ring for simplicity, or with the ring up to 50 feet away. Connect more with your lover or with your own pleasure with the Charged Remote Control Panty Vibe!

Shibari Pleasure Cherry Kegel Balls

This sweet and playful set of pink and purple kegel balls looks like it was made for Valentine’s Day! The five weighted cherries are all the same convenient size at 5.9 inches long (with 4.7 inch “stems”) and 1.38 inches in diameter, but have variable weights from 1.06 to 3.88 ounces. That sets these Cherry Kegel Balls apart from other kegel ball collections, because the user can progress through the weights without a change in size. Another feature that makes them special? These cleverly shaped vaginal weights are made from silky premium silicone with a stainless steel center, meaning they are non-porous and very easy to clean —  including the retrieval string.

Kegel weights can be a practical and fun way to tone and exercise pelvic floor muscles, increase erotic awareness and heighten sexual sensitivity, prevent incontinence, help the PC muscles prepare for and heal from childbirth, and they can contribute to stronger orgasms and a more responsive G-Spot. For more info on kegel exercises and vaginal weights, check out this helpful post on our blog!

Sutil Rich

Just when we thought Hathor Aphrodisia had outdone themselves with their Sutil Luxe Body Glide, they came out with the incredible Sutil Rich! This brand new formulation is just as luxurious and long-lasting as the original light formulation, but with enhanced viscosity and an addition of aphrodisiac herbs. Horny Goat Weed, Ginseng Root, and Zizyphus Jujuba Fruit Extract are Chinese herbal aphrodisiac tonics traditionally used to increase stamina and vitality and boost immune functions. When used topically, they can have a mild vasodilating effect, which enhances blood flow for increased arousal and healing. Therefore, Sutil Rich could be a lovely lubricant to help ease anal and vaginal penetration and to soothe dryness and discomfort.

Sutil Rich is a thicker gel that stays put on toys and body without becoming sticky or drying. It performs much like a silicone lube, but is conveniently water-based and compatible with silicone toys. Like all of our lubricants, it is paraben-free and glycerin-free, but it is also Eco-Certified. That means it is free of synthetic perfumes or dyes, contains no GMO or animal-derived ingredients, and is manufactured by environmentally friendly processes.

Je Joue Rabbit and G-Spot Bullets

These two adorable silicone bullet vibes from Je Joue are new to the shop and have pretty much everything you could ask for in a mini vibrator. Body-safe materials that feel smooth and sensuous? Check! USB rechargeable and easy to operate? Check! Waterproof, versatile with multiple settings, and under $75? Check! Both the Rabbit and G-Spot bullets take Je Joue’s well-known pleasantly rumbly motors and pack them into compact vibes that are small but mighty.

The G-Spot Bullet, with its curved and slightly bulbous head, works well for internal or external stimulation. At a height of just over 4 inches, it may be used for shallow penetration that targets the G-Spot or as a slim and wieldy clitoral vibrator. The cute and seamless 5 inch Rabbit Bullet is a clit-hugging dream! With its two soft and semi-flexible ears that can surround a clitoris or massage the labia, it offers deep rumbling sensations that satisfy. These are not zippy little high-pitched toys you only keep around for their convenient travel size – they are luxury vibrators that prove that size doesn’t always matter.

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

Is it any surprise we’re big fans of Valentine’s Day? Of course, we believe in love and pleasure all year round, but it’s nice to have a day set aside for celebrating in style. Sometimes, though, it can be hard to find just the right gift to woo someone, or the perfect thing to splurge on for yourself. So, we’ve rounded up our top recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable)!

Check out last year’s picks, and our picks from 2015, 2014, 2013, and 2012 for even more ideas.

We-Vibe Nova

We-Vibe calls Nova the “new dual stimulation superstar,” and we have to agree! While at first glance this toy looks like just any other rabbit style dual vibe, the difference is in its ultra flexible smaller arm. Instead of reaching up and pressing down on top of the clitoris, the Nova’s springy arm curves in toward the handle as the toy is inserted vaginally, allowing you to control the exact placement and pressure. This unique design flexes with your movement to always stay in contact with the clitoris, even during thrusting, for true simultaneous stimulation. Between the deep, rumbly vibrations of the wave-like outer arm and the G-spot-pleasing shape of the insertable portion, it’s no wonder this innovative toy has received so many positive reviews!

Waterproof, rechargeable, and with 10 preset vibration modes, the We-Vibe Nova offers everything sex toy connoisseurs have come to expect in a luxury toy, but it also goes one step further — it has an app! The free We-Connect app can be downloaded to your smartphone or tablet to get extra features (like touch screen control) and to create custom vibes. You can even connect and play with a partner from anywhere in the world!

OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH

Love the idea of a vibrator that can be controlled by a partner, but want something a little more discreet or portable? You’ll definitely want to check out the Club Vibe 3.OH! This vibrator is designed to be worn in a pair of panties, so it can be used at home for hands-free vibration or taken out in public for some risqué fun. Its built in microphone and ambient noise setting make it great for clubs or concerts, where it can vibrate to the beat of the music!

Lightweight and quiet, this slim little toy has three different modes, a rechargeable, wireless remote control, and comes with a one year warranty. Added bonus: the Club Vibe 3.OH comes with black lace panties and a travel/storage pouch.

Creative Kisses

If you’re wanting to be close to your partner in a way that is playful, but not gadget or tech-focused, why not try a sweet game filled with smooches? Creative Kisses includes 101 mini cards that are full of hot and silly ideas for locking lips with your lover. The cards are small enough to pack in a purse or suitcase, and include kissing tips and sexy suggestions written in English, Spanish, French, and German.

Pro tip: look through the deck to find something you’ve never tried but would love to do with your partner, OR have your lover choose a card at random and surprise you with whichever creative kiss is written on it!

Vondage Buckling Restraint

Searching for an inexpensive and simple gift that still rates high on versatility? Stockroom’s Vondage Buckling Restraint is a nice option for both lovers of c-rings and of BDSM. Originally designed as a vegan alternative to adjustable leather cock rings, this restraint can also function as a wrist or ankle cuff for intro or light bondage. The silver D-ring serves as a point of attachment for a leash or other such device and the adjustability of the ring allows it to fit many different bodies and body parts.

At only $12, this handy little convertible product really gives you a lot of bang for your buck. You could even buy multiples to customize your play or to wear like bracelets as a subtle way to show off your kinky side in public!

XConfessions Volumes 6 and 7

Acclaimed porn director Erika Lust is at it again — this time with two brand new volumes of her highly-rated and magnificently filmed XConfessions series! XConfessions originally started as a project on Erika Lust’s website, where users anonymously shared their sex fantasies and stories and Lust handpicked her favorite confessions to turn into erotic short films. The idea was so popular that XConfessions has grown into seven DVD compilations.

XConfessions Vol. 6 showcases Lust’s bold creativity and shatters stereotypes, all in 99 steamy minutes. Some of our favorites scenes from this volume include stripteases, assless chaps, a sexy BDSM femdom story, and an unforgettable threesome. XConfessions Vol. 7 also includes many memorable scenes, and is Lust’s most cinematic collection to date. Vol. 7 even includes three short films from guest directors (Paulita Pappel, Olympe de G., and Adriana Eskenazi). You can check out the trailers for both volumes on their product pages, but good luck deciding between the two!

Janie’s Rose Lubricant & Moisturizer

A lovely product from Washington state, Janie’s Rose is one of our favorite oil-based lubricants. It also doubles as a vaginal moisturizer and works well as a massage oil!

Ideal for people experiencing dryness that may be brought on by aging, medication, hormone changes, and/or medical treatments, Janie’s Rose is a super moisturizing and nourishing blend of all-natural oils that warms up quickly and provides a long-lasting glide. It is odorless, tasteless, and great for people with sensitive skin. What’s more, Janie’s Rose is cruelty-free and vegan and the 2 oz. bottle is the perfect size for traveling! Just remember, since this product is oil-based, it is not compatible with latex condoms.

Unusual Occasion Love Bug and Heart Throb cards

Dinner reservations? Check. Sex toy and lube from She Bop? Check. Now all you need is the perfect card! Unusual Occasion greeting cards are a great choice for their nostalgic and whimsical visuals, plus they don’t contain any cliché messages or generic sayings. Instead, these cards flip open vertically and are blank on the inside with tableture handwriting lines. That means you have plenty of space to compose a poem, attach a photo, or write a love letter for your sweetie that truly comes from the heart. After all, that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about!

Vibratex Mystic Wand Rechargeable

One of our most-loved vibrators of all time is the original battery-powered Vibratex Mystic Wand. So, when Team Bop heard there was going to be a rechargeable version, we were very excited. Fortunately, the new Mystic Wand Rechargeable not only met our expectations, but exceeded them by improving upon an already great toy! With three steady vibration intensities and three pulse patterns like its battery-operated predecessor, the new rechargeable version is now ergonomically curved for better reach and easier grip.

The Mystic Wand Rechargeable is made from smooth body-safe materials, with a silicone head and silky polyurethane-coated handle. However, the best feature of all may be that you can use it with or without the cord plugged in to the base! If you or your partner enjoy powerful classic vibrators like the Magic Wand or Doxy Massager but don’t want to hold such a large or heavy toy or be tethered to a cord, the Mystic Wand Rechargeable could make a wonderful addition to your toy bag!

Indoor Bound Slip Tie Cuffs

Thinking of getting your honey something silky and beautiful to slip into this Valentine’s Day? Why not skip lingerie that might not be the right size or style, and go for something a little kinkier?!

The Indoor Bound Slip Tie Cuffs are sleek, soft, and colorful restraints that are handmade in Washington state with top quality nylon webbing, custom coated steel hardware, and full-strength carabiners. They are comfortable, strong, and very easy to use, making them perfect for those who are new to bondage or who may not want to use rope. Simply slip your hands through the loops, pull tight, and clip! You can even combine two sets together for a quick and elegant hog-tie!

Clone-a-Willy Hot Pink Pussy and Dildo

Nothing says “I love you and think your parts are the best” like the gift of a Clone-a-Willy or Clone-a-Pussy! These amusing kits from Portland company Empire Labs allow you to make exact replicas of your genitals from the comfort of your own home. Immortalize you or your lover’s vaginal lips in 100% platinum-cure, body safe silicone! Have a date night where you create a vibrating lifelike dildo that captures all the details of your favorite penis!

With nothing to send away and no 3D printing required, Clone-a-Willy and Clone-a-Pussy kits are the easiest, most entertaining way of making personalized cock and vulva castings. They come in multiple colors and even edible chocolate versions, but for Valentine’s Day, we especially love the hot pink Clone-a-Pussy and hot pink glow in the dark Clone-a-Willy.

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

The annual day of love is right around the corner — and you know we have the goods to help you celebrate in style! Sometimes, though, it can be hard to find just the right gift to woo someone with, or the perfect thing to splurge on for yourself. So we’ve rounded up our top recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!).

Check out last year’s picks, and our picks from 2014, 2013, 2012, and 2011 for even more ideas.

Naughty Candy Heart Butt Plug

Ever heard the expression “say it with a butt plug”? Us either, but now you can with the Naughty Candy Heart Butt Plug! Available in three pastel shades reminiscent of classic candy hearts, this plug has a comfortable, tapered shape and a heart-shaped base with a message molded right into the silicone. Messages range from romantic to kinky — the pink plug reads Be Mine, the yellow one implores Spank Me, and the purple version gets straight to the point: Do Me Now.

Womanizer Pro W500

It vibrates, but it’s not a vibrator; it suctions, but it’s not a clit pump… the Womanizer is truly its own category of toy! Stimulation comes from the tip, which is designed to lightly suck on the clitoris. The Womanizer made an immediate impression when it hit the scene last year, and this new upgraded version features re-positioned buttons, several higher modes, and two interchangeable tips in different sizes. In its festive, red rose design, the Womanizer Pro W500 is an extravagant Valentine’s gift for the discerning clitoris in your life.

Seagrape Edible Massage Candle

Massage candles make great gifts because they are essentially two products in one: a delicious-smelling candle and a luscious massage oil. With these Edible Massage Candles from local company Seagrape, you can add one more thing to that list: a lickable treat! Made with nourishing soy wax, shea butter, coconut oil, vitamin E, and various essential oils, this candle melts into a warm massage oil as it burns. Pour the oil directly onto the skin for a massage, then kiss or lick it off. This candle comes in two mouth-watering flavors: raspberry and chocolate.

Twisted Monk Starter Kit

Want to try rope bondage for V-Day? This kit from Seattle-based Twisted Monk has everything you need: one 30-foot piece of rope, two lengths of 10-foot rope, a pair of safety shears, a getting started DVD, and a quick reference safety card. The sturdy hemp rope is vegan and ethically-sourced, appreciated among aficionados for its rugged texture, natural scent, and ability to both hold knots and be swiftly untied.

Hot Octopuss Pulse II Duo

There’s no doubt the Hot Octopuss Pulse II Duo is one of the most innovative toys for penises in years. Designed to encircle the penis and deliver powerful vibrations to the shaft and frenulum, it works its magic at any stage of arousal, from flaccid to erect. We love how the Pulse II Duo’s cupped shape encourages experimentation — try it hands-free and in a static position, or add lube and add movement. Enjoy it solo, or have a partner climb atop and control the vibration with the included remote!

Laid D.1 and D.2 stone dildos

Elegant and ergonomic, these gorgeous hand-sculpted dildos from Norweigan company Laid are as impressive to see as they are to use. Made of polished stone, they are firm, smooth, double-ended, and perfectly weighted for exquisite sensations. Choose D.2 (made of Absolute Black Granite) for intense G-spot play, or go with D.1 (made of Black Norwegian Moonstone) for a gentle and sensual experience. Ideal for anyone who appreciates uncommon and natural materials.

Bodywand Mini Massager (Fashion Edition)

The original Bodywand Mini is a popular choice for folks wanting a small but powerful vibrator, and now it comes in fancy special edition patterns and color combinations! Measuring a mere 4″ long, the Bodywand Mini is compact and travel-friendly, with a range of vibration intensities adjusted via the control dial on its base. The soft, flexible head provides cushioning and pinpoint stimulation. Also, in case you forgot, rhinestones.

Bedroom Bucks + Les Petits Bon Bon Rose Petal Explosion

Need a little something to ignite sparks in the bedroom? Consider this bundle of Bedroom Bucks, each fancifully printed with a finance-themed sex act such as a “morning merger” and “complete lick-quidation.” Then, set the scene with Les Petits Bon Bon Rose Petal Explosion, a package of scented faux rose petals. Sprinkle them over the bed, bath tub, make a trail down the hall and toward the bedroom… go wild, they’re reusable!

Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion

German manufacturer Fun Factory started a revolution with their “pulsator” line — sex toys that mimic a back-and-forth thrusting motion. Now, in the Bi Stronic Fusion, they’ve combined the pulsating movement with traditional vibration! Sit back and let the Bi Stronic Fusion do all the work, as the shaft thrusts and the vibrating clitoral arm flutters against the clitoris and labia. Each portion of the toy is controlled separately, with 64 possible combinations of movement and vibration.

Cunt Coloring Book + Vulva Earrings

Celebrate the fabulous vulva with these two exceptional gifts! The Cunt Coloring Book has been in circulation since 1973, packed with over three dozen unique vulvas (drawn from life models) for you to color in. The beautiful vulva earrings are handmade by a local glass artist. Intricate and one-of-a-kind, they are made of Italian glass, with Swarovski Crystals and sterling silver wires.

Bnear Classic

What’s better than one vibrating bullet? Two, of course! The Bnear Classic is an inexpensive battery-operated toy that offers two times the stimulation. The silky bullets feel marvelous against the body, and the control pack offers five vibration modes to explore. Who will position the bullets, and who will man the control pack? So many possibilities for creative collaboration!

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

The annual day of love is right around the corner — and you know we have the goods to help you celebrate in style! Sometimes, though, it can be hard to find just the right gift to woo someone with, or the perfect thing to splurge on for yourself. So we’ve rounded up our top recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!).

Check out last year’s picks, and our picks from 2013, 2012, and 2011 for even more ideas.

Crave Vesper necklace

A lot of folks like to receive beautiful jewelry as a gift, but this is no ordinary necklace — the Vesper is also a fully functional vibrator. Made with sparkling stainless steel, this vibrator from Crave can compliment someone’s look and give them an orgasm at the end of the night. Awesomely, it has three speeds, one pulsation pattern, and it’s USB rechargeable.

Fun Factory ShareVibe

Double-ended dildos are perfect for couples, and Fun Factory’s new ShareVibe ups the ante on what a double-ended dildo can be. Modeled after their popular Share dildo, the ShareVibe is designed so that one partner can wear the bulb end vaginally in order to penetrate someone else with the shaft — with or without a harness. True to its name, the ShareVibe comes with a multi-function rechargeable bullet vibrator that fits snugly in its base. Since the bullet is removable, it can even be used sans dildo.

Kissing: A Field Guide

What’s more romantic than a good, old-fashioned kiss? In this pint-sized guide by sexpert Violet Blue, there are tips for all kinds of kissing scenarios. Learn how to give and receive a first kiss, time your kisses perfectly, read body language, and cultivate your own kissing style. Kissing: A Field Guide is a cute, back-to-basics book that will remind you to pause and appreciate the power of a kiss.

Minna Limon

From photos, you can’t tell what the Limon‘s true superpower is, but this toy actually has squishy sides that react to touch. The harder you squeeze, the stronger the vibration it produces, and there’s even a mode in which you can “record” your own custom vibration pattern and play it back. This interactive functionality makes the Limon a wonderful toy for couples to explore and use together.

Fun Factory B Balls

Just another butt plug? Nope! The Fun Factory B Balls have two inner balls that roll around with movement, adding unique stimulation to your anal play, while the silicone body and flared base make this toy safe and comfortable to wear. Whether you wear the B Balls as a prelude to anal sex or simply for fun during everyday activities, they are sure to put some pep in you or your partner’s step!

OhMiBod blueMotion

The OhMiBod blueMotion is one of only a few sex toys on the market that can be controlled remotely. And we don’t just mean from across the room — we mean from across the country. The slim, ABS plastic vibrator is meant to slide effortlessly into underwear for hands-free clitoral stimulation. Meanwhile, a partner can create vibration patterns by tapping their phone’s screen in a rhythm, recording their voice, physically tilting their phone, and more. Excellent for long-distance relationships!

Bettie Page Buzzin’ Bullet & Balm Set

Good, solid vibrators don’t have to cost a ton, the Bettie Page Buzzin’ Bullet is a great example. This shiny, smooth vibe takes 2 AAAs and features three vibration intensities and three modes. Controlled by a simple push button on its base, the Bettie Page Buzzin’ Bullet performs admirably whether it’s used clitorally or vaginally. Plus, it comes with a tin of minty arousal balm and some Bettie Page themed trinkets!

Filthy Farmgirl Filthy Valentine soap

Filthy Farmgirl’s soaps are basically irresistible. Not only do they smell amazing, but they have amusing names accompanied by adorable labels. This seasonal soap smells like cardamom rose, but there are other options if your valentine is more of a ylang ylang type of person, for instance.

OhMiBod Lovelife Cuddle

At first blush, it may seem like we’ve included the Cuddle simply because it’s pink and comes in heart-printed packaging. All of this is true, but the glory of Cuddle is in its functionality. This vibrator is jam-packed with vibration intensities and scalable patterns, and its petite curved shape makes it ideal for clitoral or G-spot stimulation. As an added bonus, it is one of the most inexpensive rechargeable vibrators on our shelves, because it’s splashproof rather than fully waterproof.

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

The annual day of love is right around the corner — and you know we have the goods to help you celebrate in style! Sometimes, though, it can be hard to find just the right gift to woo someone with, or the perfect thing to splurge on for yourself. So we’ve rounded up our top recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!).

Check out last year’s picks, and our picks from 2012 and our 2011 for even more ideas.

BS Atelier dildo

Spanish dildo-makers BS Atelier make some of the most fun and colorful silicone dildos we’ve ever seen. Which one best fits the personality of your gift recipient (or yourself) — Rainbow, Vaca, Custom Lines, or perhaps one of the new ones with hearts on them that we’ll be getting in time for Valentine’s Day? Harness compatible and topped with curved and pronounced heads, these dildos can be excellent G-spot stimulators or prostate stimulators — whatever you want them to be!

Liberator Jaz Motion

Once you try the Jaz Motion, you’ll never go back to using pillows to prop yourself up during sex. This half-circle-shaped positioning pillow is made of furniture-grade polyurethane foam, which enables it to strike the perfect balance between comfort and support. Used with the flat side down, it can open up and enhance a variety of positions; used with the curved side down, it will gently rock back and forth with your motions. The Jaz Motion’s microsuede cover is removable and machine washable, and it even features a moisture-proof liner.

Wonderland C-Ring: The Heavenly Heart

Cock rings can help a penis stay erect, add vibration for a partner, and even enhance orgasm. One of our latest cock rings is this adorable one from the Wonderland series. Not only is it made of silky 100% silicone, but the included bullet vibe has 10 (count ’em! 10!) functions.

An array of small things

Here’s an idea! What about combining several smaller gifts into a night of fun?

First, start with a card from Unusual Occasion — we love their straightforward format of a single word plus an illustration (such as “sex kitten” and “sweetie pie”). Then, pick out something for the sweet tooth: X-Rated Valentine Hearts or Risque Valentine Hearts come with phrases you won’t find on typical candy hearts. Follow that up with a Feather Tickler, then top the night off with the a massage, using the melted oil from a candle in the Seasonal Massage Candle Trio, which contains special edition romantic scents.

We-Vibe 4

Now in its fourth generation, the remote-controlled We-Vibe remains a top choice for wearable couples’ vibrators. Meant to be worn vaginally during penetrative play, the We-Vibe 4 also makes an excellent discreet underwear vibe. Either way, it hugs the vulva, sending vibrations to the clitoris and the G-spot — and anything else that joins the penetration party. New in this edition of the toy? A re-imagined tighter and smaller shape, more power, and a more adjustable remote control equipped with 6 vibration modes.

njoy Pure Plug

Whether you already enjoy anal play or are simply interested in trying it out, we love these solid stainless steel butt plugs made by njoy. Stainless steel is both weighty and very receptive to temperature, and the Pure Plug comes in three sizes to suit every taste. Each has a tapered neck and a looped base that sits between the cheeks for comfortable wear. Want something more prostate-focused? Try the Pfun. Want something bigger? Check out the Pure Plug 2.0.

Fun Factory Stronic Drei

Need a toy for someone who loves new gadgets? The Stronic Drei is part of Fun Factory’s Pulsator line, arguably one of the most innovative sex toy lines to be released in recent years. Rather than vibrating like other toys, Pulsators thrust, in a motion that is both incredibly unique and highly stimulating for those who like the sensation of movement. The rechargeable Stronic Drei is the latest shape in the line, featuring a ribbed shaft and curved tip for added sensation.

An erotic DVD

It’s hard to pick just one DVD, since tastes vary so much from person to person. But we can tell you what’s new an exciting in the world of hot videos!

After taking anonymous sex fantasy submissions on her site X Confessions, erotic filmmaker Erika Lust turned them into explicit short films. X Confessions, which just came out, showcases the first 10 short films, with tantalizing titles such as “Hold Me So Tight it Hurts,” “I Pegged My Boyfriend,” and “A Blowjob is Always a Great Last Minute Gift Idea,” and themes including group sex, roleplay, erotic games, and bondage.

There have also been some great releases in the queer porn world recently, such as Come Find Me (which features a “bike-powered scavenger hunt”) and Trans Grrrls.

Hammerhead Wand Attachment

Finally! An attachment that harnesses the power of a wand-style vibrator and concentrates it on the penis! This stretchy TPR sleeve will fit over the head of any large wand vibrator, such as the Magic Wand or Bodywand Original, transmitting intense vibration as well as texture to the penis that slides into it. Bonus: the transparent material gives you a peek at the action!

Fun Factory Sonic

Need a hefty double-ended dildo? Look no further than the Fun Factory Sonic. Made of silky 100% silicone and super easy to clean, it is incredibly flexible, long enough to reach all the good spots, and best of all — meant to be shared. Now the question is, who gets the smaller end and who wants the bigger more bulbous end?

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

Is it any surprise we’re big fans of Valentine’s Day? Of course, we believe in love and pleasure all year round, but it’s nice to have a day set aside for celebrating in style. In fact, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to scout out something new for your bedroom adventures.

Here are our top recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!). Check out last year’s picks and our 2011 picks for even more ideas.

Cupcake

Up until now, there was a cupcake-shaped hole in the sex toy industry. Now it has been filled with a vibrator that really looks good enough to eat! The silicone and ABS plastic Cupcake is true to the size of your average cupcake, but equipped with a discreet button on the bottom that takes you through two speeds and three pulsation patterns. It even comes in an adorable retro tin, perfect for gift-giving and future storage!

Jimmyjane Hello Touch

The future is here — our hands and sex toys are colliding! There have been various finger vibes before, but the Hello Touch takes things to a new level with two silicone pods that attach to your fingertips and blend seamlessly into your play. Try them on the nipples, clitoris, penis — anywhere that you’d normally stroke or squeeze. Great for folks who want to add that extra buzz to manual stimulation. Plus, the whole thing is waterproof!

Tenga Lover’s Egg

The ridiculously cute Tenga Lover’s Egg is a special edition version of the very popular Tenga Egg. Tenga Eggs are self-contained, stretchy pleasure sleeves that each come with a pouch of lube. This sleeve has a special heart inner texture unlike any other egg before it, and a heart-patterned casing to match. There’s a sense of playfulness and spontaneity about Tenga Eggs, making them perfect for solo or partner play.

Spareparts Hardwear Sasha harness

An underwear-style harness with some added flair, Sasha comes in black or red and is decorated with several bows, ruching on the backside, and removable garters. Made of nylon and spandex, this harness is as comfortable as it is sexy — and it’s machine-washable. The stretchy O-ring can accommodate a variety of dildos, and two little pockets on the inside of the undies can hold bullet vibes for added stimulation to the wearer. Ooh la la!

Rocks Off Luv Your Body Massager

Aside from its cute heart-shaped tip, the Luv Your Body Massager is a wonderfully ergonomic vibe with many talents. It’s great for adding some extra reach during sex or masturbation, or it can be used to massage tense muscles throughout your body (without twisting yourself into a pretzel to do so!). It’s even waterproof, so a relaxing bath is another option for fun. The Luv Your Body Massager has five speeds and… did we mention it’s heart-shaped?

2013 erotica collection

Whatever type of erotica strikes your (or your partner’s) fancy, these are the best that of the year: Best Erotic Romance 2013, Best Lesbian Erotica 2013, and Best Women’s Erotica 2013. The caliber of the authors in these volumes is so high, you’ll be sure to find stories that are both impeccably-written and incredibly steamy. Of course, we have tons of other erotica collections if you want, for instance, oral sex stories or stories of female submission.

Incoqnito Leather Handcuffs

Known for making discreet toys that masquerade as innocuous items, Incoqnito has struck once again with their Leather Handcuffs. Wear these cuffs on one wrist and they’ll appear to be nothing more than a stylish set of leather bracelets; but they convert easily when you’d rather use them for a more scandalous purpose. Wherever you wear them out, you’re bound to spend your time anticipating what will come later.

Aneros Evi

There’s nothing else quite like the recently-released Evi. It’s a kegel toy, but that’s not all — it also stimulates the G-spot and clitoris during use. As the wearer clenches their PC muscles around Evi, the toy rocks forward and back, pressing into the clitoris and stroking the G-spot. Kegel exercises are beneficial in several ways, since toned PC muscles can lead to stronger orgasms, enhanced bladder control, and improved pregnancy. It’s the gift that keeps on giving, really.

Sliquid Organics Massage Oil

We were pretty excited when one of our favorite lube companies, Sliquid, came out with a massage oil. These oils come in four varieties — including an unscented version! — each meant to impart certain characteristics when used (such as vitality, tranquility, and sensuality). They’re made with a handful of naturally occurring nut and seed oils and organic botanicals. Pair the oil with a massage stone, massage deck (see below!), or massage DVD to jumpstart your massage skills.

Sexy card decks!

Sex-themed card decks are a quick and easy way to turn up the heat and get some new ideas. We carry several different types: Light My Fire: Sexy Requests is a pack of multiple-choice invitations; The Gay Sex Deck has tips, tricks, and positions for gay men; The Fantasy Sex Deck features erotic roleplaying ideas; and the Erotic Massage Deck is chock full of massage techniques, both ancient and modern.

Je Joue Mio

Cock rings are an excellent addition to penetrative sex of any sort, and the Mio is a luxurious choice. Only a few cock rings on the market are rechargeable, and Mio is one of them. It is also made of 100% silicone and features 7 vibration patterns with 5 power levels each. Stretch it onto a penis or dildo to provide clitoral, scrotal, or perineum stimulation, depending on positioning and the parties involved!

Fun Factory New Wave

We bet you’ve never seen a sex toy quite like this one! But that’s precisely what makes the New Wave such a versatile double-ended dildo. Made of 100% silicone and super easy to clean, it is made to be shared. The “middle wave” adds extra external stimulation for each partner. Now the question is, who gets the textured end and who wants the smoother end?

X-Rated Candies

Do you or your partner have a sweet tooth — and a somewhat profane sense of humor? Then you’ll definitely like X-Rated Valentine Hearts and the I Fucking Love You Candy Heart Box. Both contain candy hearts that look exactly like regular conversation hearts from afar, but once you read their messages, you’ll notice the difference. We love them!

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

Is it any surprise we’re big fans of Valentine’s Day? Of course, we believe in love and pleasure all year round, but it’s nice to have a day set aside for celebrating in style. In fact, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to scout out something new for your bedroom adventures. Here are our recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!). Check out last year’s picks for even more ideas.

Tenga Lover’s Egg

The ridiculously cute Tenga Lover’s Egg is a limited edition version of the very popular Tenga Egg. Tenga Eggs are self-contained, stretchy pleasure sleeves that each come with a pouch of lube. This sleeve has a special heart inner texture unlike any other egg before it, and a heart-patterned casing to match. There’s a sense of playfulness and spontaneity about Tenga Eggs, making them perfect for solo or partner play.

We-Vibe Touch

The We-Vibe Touch clitoral vibe is many things: made of 100% silicone, rechargeable, waterproof, magenta-colored (although it also comes in teal)… but above all, it delivers deep, rumbly vibrations that will surprise and delight whoever uses it. It also has a unique shape — a lightly-pointed tip and an indented scoop on the underside — that will satisfy those who enjoy pinpoint stimulation and those who prefer wider pressure.

I Dare You: 30 Sealed Seductions

This seductive product, created by sex guru Susie Bright, urges you to have some mischievous fun with your partner. Open the elegant box, select a sealed envelope at random, and open it. The card inside will reveal your next course of action — a sexy dare or prompt — that can bring you and your partner even closer.

Gossip Ring

A finger vibe that looks like a rose — how much cuter can you get? Well, how about a finger vibe that also doubles as a cock ring, and still looks like a rose? The Gossip Ring is all of that and more! Made of phthalate-free TPR, the Gossip Ring is also waterproof.

Pink and White Silicone Ball Gag

If you like to get rough with your lover, we haven’t forgotten you! This impeccably-constructed, candy-colored ball gag from Aslan Leather may look sweet and innocent, but it’s really a heavy-duty bondage implement. The leather strap features a snap-out safety design with a sturdy buckle closure, and the ball is 100% silicone, ensuring that it is entirely flavorless.

Love is Art

Everyone hopes to to have a memorable Valentine’s Day, but with the Love is Art kit, you’ll definitely never forget — because the proof will be on your wall! That’s right: this kit includes everything you need to create a permanent piece of artwork from you and your partners’ body movements. Pour the non-toxic, washable black paint on the large white cotton canvas, then let your bodies do the painting. This kit leaves no stone unturned: it also comes with a big plastic sheet, two pairs of disposable slippers, and a body scrubber for the shower.

Kissing: A Field Guide

An entire book on kissing? Oh yes! There is much to be learned about the art of kissing, and Violet Blue tackles the subject with honesty and sass, not to mention tons and tons of tips, from the overarching (how to hint at a kiss with your body language) to the smallest of details (how to keep lipstick from smudging). No matter how much kissing you’ve done, you’ll learn something new and be inspired to put your knowledge into practice.

Double Heart Slapper

Making a lasting impression on your lover with this heart-patterned paddle. This sturdy, double-layered slapper is split down the center, creating a magnificent slapping sound and feel. Perfect for a light bit of fun — or to ensure that your playmate will feel the aftermath of Valentine’s Day on February 15th.

Double Decker Love Ring

There is probably no cock ring in existence that has more Valentine’s Day spirit than the Double Decker Love Ring. Bright red and adorned with raised hearts, the Double Decker has two powerful bullets for stimulation of both partners at once. The bullets each have three speeds and can be controlled independently. The ring is stretchy and comfortable for maximum satisfaction.

ON Clitoral Arousal Balm

Need to jump-start the sexy times, or give yourself or your partner something to squirm about during dinner? With its lipstick-like presentation, ON Clitoral Arousal Balm is easy to apply, and you’ll start to feel the effects immediately. This balm creates a warming and tingling sensation that you won’t be able to ignore. ON is a natural product, with ingredients such as cinnamon bark extract and white beeswax. It is glycerin-, paraben-, and menthol-free.

Gothfox pasties

Keep the Valentine’s Day spirit going year-round with these incredible handmade pasties from Gothfox. The Couture Valentine Rhinestone Pasties are literally covered in rhinestones — approximately 140 rhinestones per pastie, depending on size! — and feature bright red tassels for epic twirling. The Couture Rose Pasties resemble a beautiful bouquet of red satin roses. Gothfox pasties are made with a soft rayon and cotton backing, and cupped to contour with the breast’s natural curve. They’re made to last a lifetime.

Simply Blown G-Glass

There’s just something alluring about glass sex toys, and Simply Blown’s G-Glass is a stunning example of that, with its contrast of clear and colored glass. This piece has a gentle curve and a rounded handle, so both ends can be used for sensual G-spot stimulation, and the frictionless feeling of glass only adds to the pleasure. Of course, we recommend red for Valentine’s Day, but purple is nice too.

Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight!

This book is described as “hip” and “contemporary,” so we’re pretty sure that it’s perfect for Portlanders! Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight! is an in-depth guide to having awesome sex. It’s fresh, comprehensive, and bursting with ideas for igniting passion and having fun.

X-Rated Candies

Do you or your partner have a sweet tooth — and a somewhat profane sense of humor? Then you’ll definitely like X-Rated Valentine Hearts and the I Fucking Love You Candy Heart Box. Both contain candy hearts that look exactly like regular conversation hearts from afar, but once you read their messages, you’ll notice the difference.

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

Ah, Valentine’s Day. How can you argue with a day meant to celebrate love and pleasure in all their various forms? We sure can’t! In fact, we think Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to scout out something new for your bedroom adventures. Here are our recommendations for sexy items to make this Valentine’s Day memorable (and pleasurable!), whether you’re in a partnered relationship or flying solo.

Cleo

Sure, this adorable vibrating apparatus can be used for regular massages (the bulbs do feel quite nice…), but its sexy use is far more interesting. With its suction cup base, it can be attached to a smooth surface, keeping it immobile while you hump away. The suction cup is also detachable. Cleo has eight different vibration modes and is made of silky 100% silicone. It is fully waterproof, ’cause you know you want to take this one in the bath or shower!

Duet

Cock rings are great for enhancing erections and boosting sensitivity in the penis, but this one is truly made to please everyone involved. Made of stretchy elastomer, the Duet features two vibrating attachments to stimulate the clitoris on one partner and perineum on the other. It can also be used solo for some buzzing masturbation fun, or strapped onto a dildo or vibrator to create a dual-action toy!

Comstock Films

You’ll likely never find any porn film as romantic and deeply personal as those made by Tony Comstock. These films feature interviews with the couples, supplying a backstory about their relationship that makes the subsesquent sex even hotter. From the charm of Damon and Hunter, to the sweet sensuality of Bill and Desiree, to the fiery passion of Xana and Dax, there is a Comstock Film for everyone.

Pure Wand

The Pure Wand has been known to change lives, with its heavy G- and P-spotting capabilities. This beautiful, shiny dildo is made of solid stainless steel, and its 1.5 pounds definitely contributes to how masterful it is at massaging G-spots and prostates. It’s also very easy to wield, either alone or with a partner, due to its ergonomic shape. The Pure Wand comes in a satin-lined gift box, where you can store it during the rare hours of the day when you are not using it!

Earthly Body Edible Massage Candles

Of course! Candles are essential for setting the mood. But these aren’t just any candles — these heart-shaped, 100% vegan massage candles are edible! Light the candle, let the warm wax pool, then slowly drizzle it over skin. The wax will turn into a silky massage oil which can be licked up or worked into the skin. Choose from five sexy flavors: strawberry, watermelon, cherry, grape, and dreamsicle. Add an elegant Contour M massage stone to the mix for an even more luxurious massage experience.

Spring

How can you resist this adorable little thing? The Fun Factory Spring is covered in a cushy reddish pink silicone and adorned with raised flowers that can be subtly felt during use. This rechargeable, waterproof vibe is the perfect size for clitoral stimulation or light penetration. It has a wide range of vibration strengths, and three pulsation settings, to suit every taste. Great for an on-the-go quickie, or a slow and sensual romp.

My Erotic Adventure

This sexy and playful erotica book, written by local author Makael Newby, is modeled after Choose Your Own Adventure novels. What kind of sex do you want to have? With whom? How about a threesome? Do you want it filmed? The choice is yours. Get lost in the story by yourself, or read aloud to a partner and navigate the story together. With 48 different endings, My Erotic Adventure is a book you can return to again and again.

Share

It may look funky, but it has a purpose: the Fun Factory Share is a strapless strap-on! A person inserts the bulb vaginally, then uses the shaft to penetrate a partner. Crafted of super smooth and luscious silicone, the Share is comfortable and pleasurable, with curves that conform to the body. For a smaller shaft, try the Share XS. If you’re daring or love texture, check out the Share XL.

Sliquid Swirl

Many flavored lubricants taste strange or gummy, but not Sliquid Swirl. This fantastic flavored lube tastes amazing, and it’s glycerin and paraben free, so it’s entirely body-safe. Sliquid Swirl is water-based and comes in several flavors, but cherry vanilla seems the most apt for Valentine’s Day (perhaps a cheesy line about a “cherry on top” is in the works?).

Bootie

Loved by beginners and experienced players alike, the Fun Factory Bootie is a fabulous unisex butt plug that simply begs to be worn discreetly. The long, thin base nestles perfectly between the cheeks, never becoming uncomfortable, even after extended wear. So Bootie can be worn any time: during sex, during a romantic dinner date, out to the movies, the list is endless. Whatever your Valentine’s Day plans, Bootie can make them even more — ahem — stimulating.

Appetite toy storage bags

Give your favorite sex toy a comfy place to live with an Appetite storage bag. These beautiful locally made, hand-printed fabric bags are available only at She Bop, and come in two varieties: travel bag and padded bag. The travel bags have square bottoms and built-in elastic straps, while the zipper bags are flat and padded. (Bonus: if the Hitachi Magic Wand is the favorite toy that came to your mind, the large bags can accommodate even that beast!)

Form 3

The Jimmyjane Form 3 is a revolutionary new sex toy that turns your finger into a vibrator. The “touchpad” is soft and pliable, so a fingertip can easily manipulate it. Bend it, flex it, flick it back and forth — make it do your finger’s bidding, with added vibration! Form 3 really has it all: it’s powerful, waterproof, rechargeable, and completely body-safe. This is a wonderful toy to explore on your own or with a partner.

Feather Tickler or Duster

Inexpensive and fun, the feather duster can be as silly or as erotic as you want it to be. Use it as a secret weapon during a tickle fight — or drag it slowly across the skin in an intimate moment. Either way, whether you’re eliciting giggles or moans, you’ll be having a good time.