• Community

    10% Tuesdays in April for Call to Safety

    Call to Safety

    Each Tuesday this April, 10% of our sales at She Bop will go to Call to Safety (formerly Portland Women’s Crisis Line). Founded in 1973, Call to Safety was one of the first five sexual violence crisis lines in the United States. Their mission is to end domestic and sexual violence by providing confidential…

  • Guides

    How to choose your first vibrator

    PicoBong Ako

    So you want to buy your first vibrator — or replace a crappy old one. It seems like a daunting task, we know! There are certainly a ton of options out there. But it’s not as difficult as it seems, and believe us, it can be fun and exciting once you’ve been pointed…

  • Community

    Our pledge to do better

    Empowerment, education, and community are three of She Bop’s main values. We have stood by those values for ten years, but until recently, had neglected to look at the ways we have failed our community. We could have done better. We should do better. We pledge to do better. We did not question…

  • How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups

    Tuck Malloy

    Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how…

  • Making Open Relationships Work

    Tristan Taormino

    How do people create nontraditional partnerships that are loving and satisfying? In this class, Tristan Taormino will share some of the key principles that can help your open relationship(s) succeed. She'll discuss common issues and problems — from "new relationship energy" and time management to jealousy, power dynamics, and agreement violations — and…

  • Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Bottoms & Submissives

    Midori

    Are you beginning to explore bottoming or submission? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. She'll share with you practical tips and how to avoid common mistakes. She's prone to confess tales…

  • Sex & Dating With STIs

    Tiffany Lashai Curtis

    Pleasure doesn't have to end with an STI diagnosis! Tiffany Lashai Curtis will cover topics like disclosure & communication, sexual safe care, advocating for yourself during STI testing, and ways to engage in nonsexual intimacy and sexual intimacy that decenters the genitals. You'll leave the class feeling affirmed in your right to pleasure…

  • Three (or More) Is Company

    Stella Harris

    Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties. This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you're confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and…

  • Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Tops & Dominants

    Midori

    Curious about BDSM? Are you just beginning to explore your top or dominant side? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. Auntie Midori will share with you practical tips, easy ways to…

  • Mixed Desire: What to Do When We Want Different Things

    Tuck Malloy

    There is nothing more normal in a relationship than having different needs. Just because we love someone doesn't mean our desires will be the same! So why do we get so scared about having different desires when it comes to sex? Join certified holistic sex educator Tuck Malloy for an evening of exploration…

  • Consent, Communication, and Negotiation

    Caress and Andy Fitch

    Join Caress and Andy Fitch for an introduction to the essential tools that keep intimate relationships and sexual adventures flourishing. They will cover a range of topics to expand understanding of consent and negotiation, including how to have clear-cut consent conversations without conflict, how to communicate your needs while respecting your partner's needs,…

  • Sex Work: Everything You’re Scared to Ask!

    Andre Shakti

    Where does the average person turn to learn about sex work? Here! Andre Shakti is a veteran sex worker who has successfully operated within a multitude of industry genres, including — but not limited to — stripping, professional domination, webcam modeling, and porn performance. In this class, Andre will facilitate a forum that…

  • Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™

    Jessie Fresh

    Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and…