• Community

    10% Tuesdays in June for the Q Center

    10% Tuesdays in June for the Q Center

    On each Tuesday in June, 10% of our sales will go to the Q Center, the wonderful LGBTQ community center just around the corner from our North Portland location. The Q Center is an absolute gem of an organization; here’s their description of what they do: Q Center serves as Portland’s LGBTQ2SIA+ (Lesbian,…

  • Guides

    How to choose your first vibrator

    PicoBong Ako

    So you want to buy your first vibrator — or replace a crappy old one. It seems like a daunting task, we know! There are certainly a ton of options out there. But it’s not as difficult as it seems, and believe us, it can be fun and exciting once you’ve been pointed…

  • Community

    Our pledge to do better

    Empowerment, education, and community are three of She Bop’s main values. We have stood by those values for ten years, but until recently, had neglected to look at the ways we have failed our community. We could have done better. We should do better. We pledge to do better. We did not question…

  • How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups

    Tuck Malloy

    Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how…

  • Perimenopause, Menopause, and Pleasure with Tristan Taormino

    Tristan Taormino

    If you've got ovaries, you will experience perimenopause and menopause, two phases of life that come with physical and emotional changes that many people experience without much knowledge or support. Let's talk about how these 'pauses' affect our self-image, sex drive, desires, intimacy, and relationships. Tristan Taormino will discuss coping strategies, Western and…

  • Face Sitting Skills with Luna Matatas!

    Luna Matatas

    Do you think face sitting is hot but are worried about squishing someone's face? Are you hungry to be on the bottom but don't know what to do with your arms? Want to hop on and ride but your knees say "nope!"'? Face sitting is hot for a lot of reasons and challenging…

  • Heavy Impact and Rough Body Play

    Miss Mackenzee

    If you've been in the kink lifestyle for awhile, you've probably seen some hot scenes in the dungeon where someone is taking a serious beating. In this class, Miss Mackenzee will go over all kinds of impact implements, where on the body to hit, and how hard. You'll learn how to use tempo and rhythm,…

  • Kiss My Sass: Sensual & Kinky Ass Worship

    Tina Horn

    Rear ends are the great human equalizer: just about everybody's got one! There are so many great workshops on how to play with the inside of the ass, or how to enjoy a nice rough spanking. What about those of us who love to caress a fine posterior, or bury our faces in…

  • Sex & Pregnancy

    Dr. Wendasha

    Pregnancy can be an emotional and physical rollercoaster — with highs of joy and expectation and dips of anxiety and fear. Wacky hormones. A changing body. A growing belly. And to top it off, labor and delivery. There's a whole lot to expect when expecting. But, what should we expect when it comes…

  • Sex & Dating With STIs

    Tiffany Lashai Curtis

    Pleasure doesn't have to end with an STI diagnosis! Tiffany Lashai Curtis will cover topics like disclosure & communication, sexual safe care, advocating for yourself during STI testing, and ways to engage in nonsexual intimacy and sexual intimacy that decenters the genitals. You'll leave the class feeling affirmed in your right to pleasure…

  • Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink

    Caress and Andy Fitch

    In these quarantine times, there's no better kink than psychological play. A little story-telling, a little tease and denial, maybe some humiliation and objectification, and a whole lot of consent, and you have an amazing weekend. Join Caress and Andy Fitch for a not-so-gentle introduction to the world of Psychological Kink.

  • Making Open Relationships Work

    Tristan Taormino

    How do people create nontraditional partnerships that are loving and satisfying? In this class, Tristan Taormino will share some of the key principles that can help your open relationship(s) succeed. She'll discuss common issues and problems — from "new relationship energy" and time management to jealousy, power dynamics, and agreement violations — and…

  • Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Bottoms & Submissives


    Are you beginning to explore bottoming or submission? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. She'll share with you practical tips and how to avoid common mistakes. She's prone to confess tales…