• Guides

    How to choose your first vibrator

    PicoBong Ako

    So you want to buy your first vibrator — or replace a crappy old one. It seems like a daunting task, we know! There are certainly a ton of options out there. But it’s not as difficult as it seems, and believe us, it can be fun and exciting once you’ve been pointed…

  • Community

    Our pledge to do better

    Empowerment, education, and community are three of She Bop’s main values. We have stood by those values for ten years, but until recently, had neglected to look at the ways we have failed our community. We could have done better. We should do better. We pledge to do better. We did not question…

  • Learn the Magic of Squirting!

    Marla Renee Stewart

    Whether you've squirted before or made someone else squirt, this workshop with Marla Renee Stewart aims to give you all the tips, tricks, and secrets to get people to squirt. You will learn techniques for different vulvas and clitoral sizes, knowledge of the most sensitive parts of the vulva and vagina, and how…

  • How to F*ck (as) a Trans Woman

    Miss V

    Gender transitioning is no easy feat. There are social, familial, community, medical, financial, and psychological factors to consider. But there is one factor not frequently discussed: the sexual component. It is indeed possible to have an amazing sex life as a trans woman, but it requires essentially learning how to have sex all…

  • Juneteenth Pre-Party!

    CJ and Ayanna

    Celebrate community and sex positivity with us at our Juneteenth-themed party! This free, private event is by Black folks, for Black folks! She Bop's CJ and Ayanna will be your hosts while you browse, mingle, ask questions, and win some toys and local goodies in our raffle. Come for the community, leave with…

  • Finding Pride in Your Relationships

    Bex Mui

    Building relationships isn't always easy, and it can be especially tricky for us in the LGBTQIA+ community who aren't seeing ourselves all around us in this hetero and cis-normed world. In this class, Bex Mui, MEd (she/her) will share a variety of relationship structures, ways to build healthy, consensual queer connections, and give…

  • Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™

    Jessie Fresh

    Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and…

  • Introduction to Rope Bondage

    Stella Harris

    Does the idea of restraint turn you on? In this class with Stella Harris, you'll learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You'll walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build…

  • (Anti) Racism & Ethical Non-Monogamy: Not Just WPS (White People Sh*t)

    Sexology Bae

    Those of us who are both non-monogamous and non-white often play double duty as ambassadors for non-monogamy in our personal communities and ambassadors for BIPOC people in non-monogamous ones. This workshop with Sexology Bae is an opportunity to educate across communities, because clear language and definitions help reduce stigma.

  • Love Hurts… but Sex Doesn’t Have To!

    Essie Neeway

    Any form of unwanted pain during or after sex can be challenging and impact our enjoyment and pleasure. Pain can run the spectrum from acute to chronic, localized to referred, and everything in between. Come join pelvic health specialist Essie Neeway as she talks all things 'sex pain relief.'

  • Erotica 201: Writing & Publishing

    Rachel Kramer Bussel

    In this three-hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, including The Big Book of Orgasms and the Best Women's Erotica of the Year series, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing and explore how to make your sex scenes sizzle.