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Stepping Back Into My Body: A Review of Eva D'Luscious's Burlesque Basics Class
One of the biggest perks of working at She Bop is that I get to watch all of their classes taught by some of the best sexperts in the industry. I was particularly excited for the recent "Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond" class taught by Eva D’Luscious aka the "High Priestess of Tease." I was sort of expecting to learn how to be "sexy."
BDSM Gear Guide
It’s the perfect time to try out BDSM. We’ve compiled our favorite gear to help you get started. From restraints to impact toys to sensation play, we’ve got a little bit of everything for your interest.
Ask She Bop: Difficulty Coming With A Partner
Another edition of Ask She Bop, where we tackle your sex and relationship questions. To submit a question, head over to our submission form or reach out to info@sheboptheshop.com
Summer Do’s & Don’ts: Hot Weather Hookup Etiquette
The heat is turning up, not just outside but also in our love lives. Between beach vacations, rooftop parties, and simply wearing a lot less clothing, the season is practically begging for a little extra intimacy. Whether you’re with a long-term sweetie, or out mingling and a bit more… it’s a good idea to think about how summer conditions might change the way you have sex…
Sexy Summer Guide
Summer is officially here, and with it comes sunshine, adventure, and a whole lot of sexy energy. Whether you're planning a cross-country bike ride, a dip in the ocean, or simply looking to add some sizzle to your staycation, we've got the splashiest recommendations to turn up your summer love.
Pride Product Guide
Pride doesn’t end in June at She Bop. For a few years now, Portland has celebrated in July, and we’re more than happy to extend this month of celebration, solidarity, and equality. This year, we’re offering an extended line of gender affirming products, high-quality leather, and products made by queer people, for queer people.
Ask She Bop: How to Upgrade Pegging Kit
Another edition of Ask She Bop, where we tackle your sex and relationship questions. To submit a question, head over to our submission form or reach out to info@sheboptheshop.com
Ask She Bop: Masturbation May
Another edition of Ask She Bop, where we tackle your sex and relationship questions. To submit a question, head over to our submission form or reach out to info@sheboptheshop.com
How To Find And Stimulate The Prostate
The prostate gland is an integral part of the sexual and reproductive anatomy for folks born with penises. Located just below the bladder, its job — along with the seminal vesicles — is to produce most of the fluid that makes up semen. Lately, though, it’s becoming known as a lot more than that. It’s becoming known as the pleasure center it can be.
Ask She Bop: Lesbian Bed Death No More
Another edition of Ask She Bop, where we tackle your sex and relationship questions. To submit a question, head over to our submission form or reach out to info@sheboptheshop.com
Valentine’s Day Gift Guide
Find the perfect gift for your sweeties, pals, or yourself. Move beyond chocolate and flowers with a curated selection of body-safe toys, books, or classes. We’re here with welcoming guidance to help you find a lovely or naughty present. Make this Valentine's about discovery, intimacy, and joy
A Nuanced Look At Rimming
While other sex acts (such as anal sex) have become more commonly accepted as the years have gone by, male anal play still lags behind. Yet when Esquire asked 500 men what they wanted more of during foreplay, 12% named rim jobs — two times the number who desired “a little rough play.”
Holiday Gift Guide 2025
Finding the perfect gift for your lovers (or yourself!) can be a challenge, especially if you’re looking for something to wow them in the bedroom. We’re here to help! This year, we go beyond the ordinary and have curated five exquisite bundles for exploration, relaxation, and unparalleled pleasure. Whether they're a seasoned toy connoisseur or this is your first year buying a naughty gift, this guide has something to delight everyone.
Please Tell us you’re not buying sex toys on amazon…
It’s time for a brand new sex toy, how exciting! You’ve been shopping around and you noticed that for some mysterious reason, Amazon is selling the same toy for way cheaper than everywhere else. With one-click ordering, next day delivery, and discreet packaging, it seems like the easiest option. We get it… But before you add that suspiciously well-reviewed "7-Speed Massager" to your cart, let's talk about the worst kept secrete. The truth is, where you buy your sex toys matters just as much as which one you choose. Spoiler: Amazon is likely to rip you off at best, and give you a UTI at worst.
Choking: Harmless Fun or Dangerous Gamble?
As porn has become increasingly more accessible, and quality sex education scarce, certain practices have moved from the fringes into popular awareness. One of the most prevalent—and potentially dangerous—of these is choking, or what is more accurately termed erotic breath play. While choking may seem like harmless fun, the reality is that this act carries severe, life-altering risks that are frequently underestimated, especially with teens and young adults. So let’s look at why choking is so risky and explore some alternatives to achieve that desired intensity.
Versatile Chest Binding: The Ultimate Guide to TransTape
If you’ve ever sought out a flatter chest, you’re probably no stranger to the frustrations that accompany trying to find the perfect binding solution. For years, the only real option has been the a compression garment known as a binder. While effective for many, binders can also feel restrictive, hot, and aren’t safe for extended wear or exercise. In fact, the discomfort of binders is what motivated founder, Kaiyote Jackson, to invent TransTape back in 2017.
Unlock Your Pleasure with a Yes/No/Maybe List
To keep it simple, a Yes/No/Maybe list is a comprehensive checklist of sexual activities, desires, and boundaries where you and your partners individually mark each item as: Yes: Things I'm excited to try and enthusiastically consent to. No: Things I'm not interested in and do not consent to. (Hard limits). Maybe: Things I'm curious about but have questions about, or would need specific conditions to try. Learn more!
Cunnilingus Just Got Safer with Lorals
Melanie, CEO and Founder of Loral’s joined us to give us an insider look at the safer sex products that are revolutionizing the industry. We talk about cunnilingus, STIs, and the need for usable products for every body.
Summer’s Hottest Picks
Whether you’re just beginning to explore sex positivity or are already on the path, understanding the power of sexual empowerment and body positivity can transform how you see yourself and interact with the world.
Queer Liberation: From Stonewall to Today’s On-going Fight for Equality
Whether you’re just beginning to explore sex positivity or are already on the path, understanding the power of sexual empowerment and body positivity can transform how you see yourself and interact with the world.