Finding the perfect gift for your lovers (or yourself!) can be a challenge, especially if you’re looking for something to wow them in the bedroom. We’re here to help! This year, we go beyond the ordinary and have curated five exquisite bundles for exploration, relaxation, and unparalleled pleasure. Whether they're a seasoned toy connoisseur or this is your first year buying a naughty gift, this guide has something to delight everyone.

It’s time for a brand new sex toy, how exciting! You’ve been shopping around and you noticed that for some mysterious reason, Amazon is selling the same toy for way cheaper than everywhere else. With one-click ordering, next day delivery, and discreet packaging, it seems like the easiest option. We get it… But before you add that suspiciously well-reviewed "7-Speed Massager" to your cart, let's talk about the worst kept secrete. The truth is, where you buy your sex toys matters just as much as which one you choose. Spoiler: Amazon is likely to rip you off at best, and give you a UTI at worst.

As porn has become increasingly more accessible, and quality sex education scarce, certain practices have moved from the fringes into popular awareness. One of the most prevalent—and potentially dangerous—of these is choking, or what is more accurately termed erotic breath play. While choking may seem like harmless fun, the reality is that this act carries severe, life-altering risks that are frequently underestimated, especially with teens and young adults. So let’s look at why choking is so risky and explore some alternatives to achieve that desired intensity.

If you’ve ever sought out a flatter chest, you’re probably no stranger to the frustrations that accompany trying to find the perfect binding solution. For years, the only real option has been the a compression garment known as a binder. While effective for many, binders can also feel restrictive, hot, and aren’t safe for extended wear or exercise. In fact, the discomfort of binders is what motivated founder, Kaiyote Jackson, to invent TransTape back in 2017.

To keep it simple, a Yes/No/Maybe list is a comprehensive checklist of sexual activities, desires, and boundaries where you and your partners individually mark each item as: Yes: Things I'm excited to try and enthusiastically consent to. No: Things I'm not interested in and do not consent to. (Hard limits). Maybe: Things I'm curious about but have questions about, or would need specific conditions to try. Learn more!

Melanie, CEO and Founder of Loral’s joined us to give us an insider look at the safer sex products that are revolutionizing the industry. We talk about cunnilingus, STIs, and the need for usable products for every body.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore sex positivity or are already on the path, understanding the power of sexual empowerment and body positivity can transform how you see yourself and interact with the world.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore sex positivity or are already on the path, understanding the power of sexual empowerment and body positivity can transform how you see yourself and interact with the world.

Shopping on a budget can be rough, but when it comes to sex toys, you can rest assured that we’ve done all the background research for you. We only stock toys that we believe are worth the money, and our selection of inexpensive vibrators is carefully curated. For when you want to save money but still get something worthwhile, here are our picks for the best vibes $30 and under.

Giving a blow job can be a pleasurable experience for both the giver and receiver when done with enthusiasm, skill, and mutual consent. Whether you're new to oral sex or looking to refine your technique, we’re here to cover everything from communication and safety to advanced tips for maximum pleasure.

Anal play can add variety to your sexual repertoire, not to mention awesome pleasure and enhanced orgasms. Do you know what especially rocks about anal play? Anyone can enjoy it! The anal opening is full of sensitive nerve endings that just love to be stimulated. Inside the butt, there is even more fun to be had. Many folks with vaginas experience anal pleasure because the clitoral legs extend to the anus. Most folks with penises are blessed with a prostate gland, which can facilitate intense orgasms when stimulated.

Despite furious back-and-forth debates in the media, we know that the G-spot is not the elusive and impossible thing it is made out to be. Nor is it something that only a few lucky folks have. Everyone with clitoral complex has a G-spot, it’s just that finding your G-spot requires you to get acquainted with your body. Everyone has their particular ways of stimulating it.

When rabbit vibes first hit the scene, they all followed a familiar formula: long shaft, rotating beads, and, per their name, an animal-shaped clitoral stimulator. Now, though, increasingly creative manufacturers have taken the general idea of the rabbit and revolutionized it, creating new shapes and new sensations. The result is a greater selection of dual vibes than ever before!

If you don’t own a harness, it’s a great thing to add to your sexual arsenal. People of all genders and orientations can wear them, and people of all genders and orientations can enjoy the pleasures of being penetrated by a partner wearing one. Harnesses open up a whole world of possibilities, too, giving you the tools to explore activities like pegging, double penetration, penetration independent of an erection, safer sex, and experimentation with different sizes, shapes, and textures of dildo.

Recently we had Kim, join us from Oxballs. During her presentation, she discussed ball stretching. If you haven’t heard of ball stretching, don’t worry you are in good company! Full disclosure, as someone who does not have testicles nor sleeps with people who have testicles, I didn’t know anything about this practice, but nevertheless, I was curious. So Kim fill me in, here’s what I learned.

Packers are prosthetics designed to create the appearance of a bulge in the front of one’s pants, helping individuals feel more aligned with their gender identity. Packers are soft, flexible prosthetics typically made from medical-grade silicone or other body-safe materials such as thermoplastic rubber (TPR), foam, or even cloth. Some packers are made from porous materials or materials with phthalates (endocrine disruptors that can adversely affect hormones). We’ll review how to ensure you’re getting a body-safe packer that fits your needs in a little bit. 

Chest binders are compression garments that minimize the appearance of breast tissue, helping people achieve a flatter chest. They come in various styles, including full-tank binders, half-binders, and adjustable options. While chest binding can help alleviate gender-dysphoria, there are certain risks associated with binding. Luckily, there are methods of concealing chest tissue that are less intrusive and can be safe for everyone.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore sex positivity or are already on the path, understanding the power of sexual empowerment and body positivity can transform how you see yourself and interact with the world.

Unfortunately, the reality is that bigotry tends to spill out beyond the people that were originally targeted and impact everyone. As we're seeing this unfold and impact our community, we believe in building a world where everyone can thrive, and that means standing up against laws that hurt any part of our community. So, let’s break it down together.

The prostate gland is an integral part of the sexual and reproductive anatomy for folks born with penises. Located just below the bladder, its job — along with the seminal vesicles — is to produce most of the fluid that makes up semen. Lately, though, it’s becoming known as a lot more than that. It’s becoming known as the pleasure center it can be.