Valentine’s Day Gift Guide
Forget tired cliché gifts. This Valentine's Day, we've got sexy recommendations to celebrate the full spectrum of love and desire. Whether you’re single and having a self-love moment, celebrating your close friends, getting kinky with a lover, or having a romantic outing, we’ve got you covered. Our curated guide focuses on connection, communication, and, above all, your agency. Whether you're flying solo or partnered up, there's something here to inspire you to reach new levels of pleasure.
🔥 Hot and Single
A Celebration of Self-Love & Solo-Pleasure
This Valentine's is yours. Celebrate the most important relationship—the one you have with yourself. This collection is for savoring your own company and radiating confidence.
Set the Mood: Make Me Melt Candles – Create a sensual atmosphere that's just for you.
Indulge Your Mind: Your Salt on My Lips – A provocative, self-described “mostly-queer” read that explores desire on your own terms. Bonus: author, Liz Asch, is a Portland native!
A Touch of Luxury: Crave Tease Necklace – A secret, wearable vibe for discreet public play or a powerful reminder of your own desires.
Keep It Fresh: Flintt's Mints – The arousal-enhancing mints to tingle your senses before a solo session or a night out.
Elevate the Experience: Playground Mood Maker (Oil) – A luxurious serum for touch, tantalizing with scent and sensation.
A Cool Sensation: Love to Love Kisscool – A tingling, cooling gel to awaken your lips and other erogenous zones. Explore new feelings.
Take A Deeper Look:
Crave Tease Necklace
The Tease Necklace, with its timeless T-bar shape, joins Crave’s legacy of iconic designs. It’s the perfect statement piece to add spice to any outfit on a night out. This discreet yet powerful external vibrator redefines pleasure jewelry.
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Flintt’s Mints
Freshen things up during a date with Flintts Mints. These quick-dissolving mints have a medium tingle and a mouth watering effect which makes them great for oral sex. They come in three flavors; Strawberry, Mint, and Cinnamon Ginger. Bonus: the mint box is incredibly cute!
💖 Pal-entine's Day
Friendship & Fun
Romance isn't the only love worth celebrating! Gather your favorite people for a night of laughter, games, and sex-positive bonding.
Get To Know Your Friends: Sweatgasm – The cheeky, queer, truth or dare game that gets hearts pumping and laughs flowing is sure to tickle your friends. Written and illustrated by cartoonist Archie Bongiovanni.
Break the Ice: Flatter Me Card Game – Give genuine, playful compliments and build each other up.
Sweet & Saucy: Risqué Candy Hearts – The perfect, giggle-inducing treat for your dessert table or game night.
Share the Vibes: Dame Min Wand – Our favorite compact wand. Perfect for passing around a circle for demos (with a sanitizing wipe, of course!) or gifting to a friend in need of powerful, rumbly vibes.
Take A Deeper Look:
Sweatgasm
Sweatgasm is a wild ride! A queer, funny, and sexy take on the classic “truth or dare” game, perfect for couples or a group of friends. Get to know your lover better, jump-start a play party, laugh at a bar with friends, or have fun in the bedroom with some strangers you just took home. It’s up to you and the other players just how filthy you want to get together!
Take A Deeper Look:
Dame Min
The perfect pocket-sized wand massager. Min delivers deep, rumbly vibrations with precision, thanks to its compact wand design and squishy bulb head. Its smooth silicone finish feels great against the skin, while its travel-friendly size makes it perfect for on-the-go pleasure.
🖤 Kinky Play Date
Power, Trust & Exploration
For those who speak the language of leather, rope, and sensation. These gifts are for couples or play partners building scenes based on clear communication and mutual trust.
Take the Lead (or Give It Up): Switch Leather Co. Camryn Chest Harness – A versatile, gender-neutral harness that empowers the wearer, perfect for role-reversal or shared power dynamics.
Explore Sensation: Spartacus Wartenberg Wheel Kit – A classic tool for sensation play. Trace, tickle, and tease with wheels of varying intensity.
A Symbol of Devotion: Spartacus Eternity Collar – A timeless, minimalist locking collar for day or night, symbolizing a lasting bond and commitment.
Easy Bondage 101: Kinklab Bondage Tape – The beginner-friendly favorite. It sticks only to itself, not skin or hair, for quick, comfortable restraint without knots.
Take A Deeper Look:
Wartenberg Wheel Kit
Devious and prickly, the Wartenberg Wheel can be a delicate or intense instrument, depending on how it is wielded. Give yourself options with this set of 4 interchangeable wheels: single, double, triple, and five. As you roll the pinwheel over skin, the tiny teeth poke and tickle for a totally unique sensation. Great for sensory play and medical scenes.
Take A Deeper Look:
Kinklab Bondage Tape
This sexy, shiny bondage tape only sticks to itself, not to hair or skin, making it easy to put on and quick and painless to remove. No need to tie knots — just overlap the ends and press firmly to fasten. The tape stays put and holds strong until you unwrap it. 65 feet of 2” wide PVC tape gives you plenty to play with. Best of all, this bondage tape can be reused over and over again!
🌹 Romantic Night In
Sensual Intimacy & Reconnection
Turn down the lights and turn up the connection. This suite is designed for couples to slow down, communicate, and explore sensual pleasure together.
Tasteful Play: Banana and Dollop – A delicious, body-safe drizzle for licking, tasting, and turning your partner into a dessert.
The Ultimate Couple's Vibe: Snail Vibe Gizi Duo – A wearable, hands-free wonder that stimulates both partners simultaneously during embrace or intercourse.
The Touch Catalyst: Playground Mood Maker (Intimacy Oil) – A warming, sensitizing oil to massage into the skin, awakening the body and creating a slippery slide for touch.
Deepen Your Dialogue: Intimacy Conversation Deck – Thought-provoking prompts to explore desires, fantasies, and emotional connection in a safe, structured way.
Take A Deeper Look:
Banana & Dollop
Meet the innovative new double ended dildos from Banana Split— The Banana, a sleek, gently curving vibrator and The Dollop, an adorable whip-cream inspired g-spot toy. You can combine either two Bananas or connect a Banana to a Dollop to create the perfect experience for you and your partners. The Banana houses a powerful, 4-speed internal motor for added fun.
Snail Vibe Gizi Duo
Discover synchronized pleasure with the Snail Vibe Gizi Duo! This dual stimulator is designed for partnered play, delivering simultaneous sensations that flow between both bodies. The remote control feature adds an exciting layer of connection—one partner can control the experience while the other surrenders to the sensations. Customize your pleasure with adjustable vibration speeds and modes, all wrapped in soft, body-safe silicone for luxurious comfort.
🚀 Frisky Night Out
Get Away From The Kids (or roommates) For A Discreet Adventure
Whether it's a weekend hotel escape or a daring night on the town, these picks are for keeping the spark adventurous and ever-present.
Luxe & Discreet Restraint: Lulexy Collar & Cuffs – Buttery-soft, stylish vegan leather that looks like high-fashion jewelry but functions as beautiful, comfortable bondage gear.
The Connected Couple's Secret: We-Vibe Chorus – A wearable, app-controlled couples' vibe for hands-free public play. Let the ambient noise of a restaurant or bar become your soundtrack.
A Lock for Your Heart: Stockroom Heart Lock Collar – A playful yet sturdy collar with a padlock, perfect for a partner to hold the key during your night out.
Party Favor Vibes: Romp Party – A set of affordable, colorful, and powerful vibrators. Grab a few for a fun "choose your own adventure" night or to gift to friends.
Take A Deeper Look:
We-Vibe Chorus Pro
The We-Vibe Chorus Pro is a next-level partnered vibrator created to deepen connection and intensify shared pleasure. Designed to be worn during penetrative play, the Chorus Pro delivers targeted external and internal stimulation simultaneously, making it ideal for partners exploring hands-free vibration together.
Happy Valentine's Day from all of our staff. Here's to pleasure on your own terms