She Bop's Picks,  Valentine's Day

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day!

It’s February already? Wow, time moves fast! Luckily, we’ve got you covered this gift-giving season. Though romance is worth celebrating all year round, why not get your loved one something extra special this Valentine’s Day? Or perhaps you’re looking to treat yourself? Because let’s be honest, it’s been a rough year….years. And you and your loved ones deserve pleasure, care, and affection.

But the suggestions don’t stop here! Check our previous years’ picks for even more pleasure-filled ideas.

Beso Flower Power

Flower bouquets are sooooo last season. But Flower toys are in! The Beso Flower Power uses air pulse technology to provide a stimulating and orgasmic sensation without actually making direct contact with the clit. For many, this can mimic oral sex, simulating a light sucking sensation on the clit. And with 10 levels of intensity, this is a great, inexpensive way to experiment with this toe-curling technology!

Seagrape Expose the Rose Vulva Oil

Make this Valentine’s Day a time to praise and care for something incredible and beautiful — like a vulva. Seagrape’s Expose the Rose Vulva Oil is the perfect way to show some love and attention to a vulva near you. Designed to be massaged into the labia, vulva, and pubic hair daily after showering, this vegan, heavenly scented oil is the perfect self-care ritual accessory. With an infusion of natural, body-safe oils, it is great for moisturizing, especially for vulvas that experience dryness or discomfort often. Though it shouldn’t be used internally, you can find similar internal-friendly oils among Seagrape’s other products we carry!

Aslan Pink Ball Gag

Sure, there are a lot of ball gags out there, but have you seen one as cute as this white leather and pink ball gag by Aslan? I know I haven’t. But whether your aesthetic is pink and white, black and red, or all black, Aslan’s got a variety of beautiful, high quality ball gags for all those who are looking for more creative sub gear out there. Whether it be for yourself or a loved one, you deserve the comfort and quality that Aslan’s soft leather and body-safe silicone ball gag provide.

Bondage Tape & Safety Scissors

Are you or your partner curious to get into bondage, but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’re intimidated by the complexity of rope bondage? We’ve got just the thing! Bondage Tape is a fantastic product to experiment with bondage without having to learn complex knots. This sexy, non-sticky, PVC tape only sticks to itself and is super easy to apply and remove. By simply overlapping and pressing the tape, you can easily bind parts of the body like wrists, legs, and much more! And since it’s easy to unravel, it is also reusable time and time again!

Since the tape sticks to itself very effectively, we highly recommend grabbing a pair of Safety Scissors with the Bondage Tape. This allows a safe and easy escape from binds that may be too tight or uncomfortable. And with the rounded edge, safety scissors are the safest and quickest option for use around the body.

Shibari Mini Halo Wand

Every toy lover deserves a wand in their toy box. But let’s be honest, wands can be huge and take up a lot of space. Luckily, wands are now more portable than ever! The Shibari Mini Halo Wand is a great option for folks who crave the power of a wand, but also want the travel friendly size. This powerful, rechargeable toy is lightweight and perfect for travel or fitting between bodies. It has a flexible, silicone neck and offers 8 intensity levels and 20 patterns, making it accommodating to different intensity preferences and angles. And did I mention Shibari recently revamped their wands in three amazing new colors just in time for Valentine’s Day? Talk about great timing!

Dame Arousal Serum

If you’re looking for a small, non-intimidating gift to spice things up (no pun intended), the Dame Arousal Serum can be a great place to start! This little bottle of water-based cream is made with vegan ingredients designed to increase blood flow and stir nerve endings. Just one pump directly applied to a clit or frenulum creates a warm, tingly sensation that’ll leave you restless (in a good way!). Pair this gift with a small external vibrator, and you’ve got the ultimate Valentine’s Day package!

The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes

Curious about a threesome, but want to know more?  Maybe you and your partner have toyed with the idea of organizing a threesome, but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’ve been enjoying threesomes for years, but want to learn new tricks? Well, if you can identify with any of these questions, this book is for you! In The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, Stella Harris teaches readers how to have ethical encounters, distribute pleasure, find threesome partners, and much more! With position guides and aftercare information, both veterans and beginners can learn new techniques to try. The book even covers incorporating threesomes into role play for couples who want to keep threesomes as just a fantasy. So why not treat yourself or your threesome-curious babe to a book this Valentine’s Day?

Jems Condoms

Whether you’re looking for some new love, long-term love, or just want to be prepared this February, covering safe sex bases is always important. And with Jems Condoms, you can be sure you’re using some of the safest out there. Jems pride themselves on only using trusted, essential ingredients in their condoms — and leaving out all the harmful, body-toxic ingredients that are unnecessary. Got sensitive skin? These latex condoms keep it simple, which can make all the difference. Just be sure to avoid any oil-based lubricants with these or any  other latex products!

Harmony Dams

Speaking of safe sex, have you had trouble finding Dental Dams that work for you? Condoms come in many different variations for many different people, but we know Dental Dams can be limited in material and style. Luckily, one of our newest arrivals to the shop are Harmony’s Latex Dams and Polyisoprene Non-Latex Dams! These Dams are the world’s only fully licensed polyisoprene dams out there, designed to accommodate folks who have latex allergies. Not only that, but both latex and non-latex options are flavorless — a true gift to all those who are tired of the hyper-fruity flavored dams out there!

Portland Chocolate Laboratory Body Paint

Sure, a box of chocolates is a great gift, but what if you could combine your love of chocolate with your love for intimacy? Portland Chocolate Laboratory makes it more possible than ever with their edible chocolate body paint! This organic, chocolate paint is made with real cacao and coconut palm sugar, making it an extra tasty surprise – it’s also gluten, soy, dairy, and cane sugar free! And in case licking chocolate off your partner isn’t sexy enough, did I mention that it’s infused with a natural aphrodisiac? But that’s not all – the kit also comes with two silicone applicators and fun stencils, so your sexy night of tasty foreplay could be an opportunity for some friendly artistic competition as well!

Blow & Glow Kit

Who says a gift for someone else can’t also be a gift for you? Fun Factory definitely doesn’t, because in this kit, you get two super versatile, high quality, rechargeable vibrators that can be used both on penises and vulvas. The NŌS can even be used on your fingers to control where vibration goes! But not only do you get two bestseller toys with Fun Factory’s Blow & Glow Kit – you also get a massage candle to set the mood, a hair scrunchie for ease of any oral play you partake in, 4 games to mix up your routine, and 6 exclusive technique videos from a Sexpert. That’s enough to fill multiple date nights with tons of fun and excitement!