She Bop's Picks,  Valentine's Day

She Bop’s Picks: Valentine’s Day

It’s that time of year again to celebrate love, intimacy, and pleasure! This year, we want to highlight all forms of love and relations to intimacy. Whether you enjoy celebrating Valentine’s Day with a partner, friends, your poly pod, or yourself, this holiday is for ALL of you to explore different ways of raining love and care upon yourself and others.

Remember to check out our previous years’ picks for more creative ideas that suit you and how you like to spend Valentine’s Day.

Salty Betch Bath Soaks

Being intimate doesn’t always have to be tied to romance or sex. Sometimes, just taking a warm, healing bath after a long day can be the most intimate way to show yourself some well-deserved love — and Salty Betch is here to help!

With a mission to keep products accessible, affordable, and authentic, Salty Betch offers a wide variety of Bath Soaks with quality ingredients that can promote relaxation, reduce pain, and much more. With aromas ranging from woodsy to fruity to floral and beyond, this local company has a salt soak for any relaxing bath of your choice! 

Le Wand Petite

The world’s changing, and so do trends. But wands will NEVER go out of style. Alongside our glorious inventory of wand vibrators, Le Wand is rewriting the rules on how much power can come from a smaller sized wand vibrator.

At 10 inches long, this sleek and luxurious toy is a great wand choice for easy maneuvering with a partner, as well as ease of storage. But despite its slimmer size, Le Wand Petite features an impressive and powerful motor with 10 vibration speeds and 6 patterns. If that’s not enough, it also includes a travel-lock feature, a storage bag, and it comes in a luxurious rose gold color — need we say more?

Erotica from Zane

There’s a ton of erotica out there, but it’s not every day that you come across erotica written or compiled by New York Times best-selling author Zane. Zane has been writing erotica for over ten years and has published numerous bestselling novels, including one that became a major motion picture.

Zane’s work has been described as “urban erotics [that] create safe spaces for black female characters to explore lust and embark upon sexual experimentation.” She offers a wide range of queer and heterosexual full-length novels, such as page turners like The Other Side of the Pillow and Vengeance. She’s also published compilations of other top erotic authors — Purple Panties and Missionary No More: Purple Panties 2 are steamy compilations of lesbian erotica written by women all over the world.

Strap Whip

Portable kink toys can be hard to come by, but Spartacus has us covered in the flogger department! Ranging in material and size, floggers are great impact toys if you’re looking for more thud than sting. The Strap Whip is a sleek, ultra-portable leather flogger, perfect for traveling or discreet storage. Plus, its small size makes it less intimidating for folks who may be new to impact toys.

We-Vibe Silver Delights Collection & Golden Moments Collection

It can be hard to commit to one toy or sensation over another. So why not treat yourself and try both? We-Vibe’s new silver- and gold-accented Collections offer a pairing of two high-quality, limited edition toys that focus on pleasure in unique ways.

The We-Vibe Silver Delights Collection pairs powerful vibration with gentle suction. It includes the We-Vibe Tango, a compact, yet incredibly powerful external vibrator, and the Womanizer Premium, a unique toy designed with Pleasure Air technology to mimic oral stimulation and provide gentle suction sensations. Both have a wide variety of power settings so you’re able to find the modes that work for you.

For an extra special combination of products, The We-Vibe Golden Moments Collection includes the Womanizer Premium as well as the We-Vibe Chorus, a dual motor vibrator with an abundance of uses and capabilities. The Chorus is an adjustable, hands-free vibrator that can be used during penetrative sex,  solo play, or even long-distance connections. The Chorus can be reliably controlled across the world through the We-Connect App. The app is easy to use and allows for full customization and creation of unique settings, while also providing video and chat capabilities.

Eternity Double C-Ring

Who doesn’t love a good multipurpose product? Cock rings have always been a great tool for maintaining erections and increasing sensation, but having a cock ring that can simultaneously give a little extra love to the balls can be a true jackpot. The Eternity Double C-Ring is a unique, two-ringed cock ring, with one ring meant to be worn behind the shaft and balls, and the other to loop up around the balls for a bit of an extra tugging sensation. It’s designed with stretchy, premium silicone for maximum comfort and ease of use — a great option for beginners and veterans!

b-Vibe Snug Plug 2

As if we didn’t have enough amazing butt toys to offer, we are so excited to introduce a new, unique plug that can be used by anyone, just in time for Valentine’s Day! The Snug Plug 2 is the 2nd smallest size of b-Vibe’s Snug Plug collection. If you’re used to fingers or are ready to upgrade from a small plug, the Snug Plug 2 is a great size up for beginners to progress more toward advanced anal play. Unlike many other plugs, it includes two weights inside the core to provide subtle stimulation with any movement for a little extra fun. Not only that, but its flexible neck and slim base make it super comfortable to wear!

Dalia Porcelain Dildo

You deserve luxury this Valentine’s Day (and every day, frankly).  And nothing says luxury and elegance like Désirables porcelain dildo, the Dalia. Unlike steel toys or some glass, the Dalia is extremely lightweight and easy to handle. Its matte finish also offers a reliable grip for more control. With two curved ends to choose from, this toy is great for G-spot stimulation as well as kegel exercises. It’s 100% body safe, non-porous, and very easy to clean. Its slim size and light weight make it a great option for anyone new to firmer, non-silicone dildos.

She Bop Online Classes

Education and seeking inspiration can be one of the greatest forms of care — and a great option for a Valentine’s day gift to a friend, sweetie, or yourself! With educators offering classes from a range of locations, we have an abundance of online class options like never before!

From the safety of your own home, you can learn from a wide variety of topics, whether it be communication, kink, partnerships, or self-care. Some of our upcoming classes include “How To Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!” on February 11th and “Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink” on February 18th. Don’t have time to attend a full class? We also offer some great Sex Ed Quickies, such as “Love Notes & Dirty Texts!” on February 16th. Be sure to check our full upcoming events page to browse all our current classes.

The Love Satchel

There are so many ways to show yourself or others love, so why not try them all? With all types of relationships and lifestyles in mind, we want to make it easy to explore pleasure in multiple ways. Our Love Satchels can be the perfect stand alone gift or add-on treat to give yourself or others the power to choose what intimacy means to them.

Each Love Satchel includes two Aphrodisiac Mint Chocolates, an Affirmators deck, a 0.5 oz Seagrape Deep Light Massage Candle, a black Satin Eye Mask, a yellow Colorpop Bullet vibe, a Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel sample, and an Uberlube silicone lube sample.

Whether you want to spend this February eating goodies, relaxing by candlelight, and soaking in the affirmations you deserve; or if you want to focus on sexual pleasure and exploration, we hope you get the care that you want and need this Valentine’s Day!