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Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal and External Pleasure

August 20 @ 6:00 pm 7:30 pm PDT

$15 – $25
Stella Harris

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 3 hours prior to start time. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 3 hours prior to class Pacific. No day-of cancellations.

No one in society has it easy when it comes to sex. Harmful ideas about the way sex and bodies should work can build shame and embarrassment for anyone who operates outside the mainstream porn example. For some, the emphasis on performance and “doing” can create a great deal of stress and anxiety. It can also feel difficult to adjust to the sometimes vulnerable role of receiving touch or penetration.

In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don’t require an erection, as well as how to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. Whether exploring on your own body or with a partner, this class will teach you external and internal touch techniques to make anal play accessible.

This class is for anyone with a penis or prostate, or who likes playing with them!

Stella Harris believes communication is key to satisfaction in relationships. A professional intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, Stella brings empathy, expertise, and a fresh perspective to her client work. A regular speaker at colleges, universities, conferences, and venues across the US and Canada, Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more on her website or follow her on Instagram.

We partner with Bloom Community, a queer + sex-positive social and dating app! Follow She Bop on Bloom to see our upcoming events and connect with the community.

We’re offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm.