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    • Welcome!
  • Guides
    • How to choose your first vibrator
    • How to choose a rabbit or dual vibe
    • How to choose and enjoy a G-spot toy
    • Lube 101
    • Toy cleaning guide
    • How to choose an anal toy
    • Guide to masturbation sleeves
    • How to do kegels
    • How to use a cock ring
    • How to choose a harness
    • How to find and stimulate the prostate
    • How to pick out porn
    • Guide to STP (stand-to-pee) devices
    • Guide to sex toys during menopause
    • Traveling with toys guide
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    • Vibrators under $30
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    • Holiday Gifts
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    • Tristan Taormino
    • Erika Lust
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  • Exploring Gender Identity

    Tuck Malloy

    How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.

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  • How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups

    Tuck Malloy

    Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how…

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  • Mixed Desire: What to Do When We Want Different Things

    Tuck Malloy

    There is nothing more normal in a relationship than having different needs. Just because we love someone doesn't mean our desires will be the same! So why do we get so scared about having different desires when it comes to sex? Join certified holistic sex educator Tuck Malloy for an evening of exploration…

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  • Exploring Gender Identity: How Sensuality and Sex can Affirm and Expand Gender Identity

    Tuck Malloy

    How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.

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  • Am I Doing This Right?: Navigating Communication and Relational Trauma in Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Tuck Malloy

    Are you intellectually on board with non-monogamy but struggling to get your body and heart on the same page? Does the phrase "I want this but I feel like I'm going to die" (from Clementine Morrigan's zine Love Without Emergency) resonate with you? This is a class for the folks who really want…

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  • F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk

    Amory Jane and Tuck Malloy present a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit…

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    Am I Doing This Right?: Navigating Communication and Relational Trauma in Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Tuck Malloy

    Wednesday, May 6th — 5:30 p.m. PST — $15-25 This class will be held online via Zoom — you will receive an email prior to class with a link. Are you intellectually on board with non-monogamy but struggling to get your body and heart on the same page? Does the phrase “I want this but…

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    Exploring Gender Identity: How Sex & Sensuality Affirms and Expands Gender Identity

    Tuck Malloy

    Saturday, April 4th — 3:30 p.m. PST — $15-25 This class will be held online via Zoom — you will receive an email prior to class with a link. How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck…

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    Exploring Gender Identity: How Sex & Sensuality Affirms and Expands Gender Identity

    Tuck Malloy

    Wednesday, February 5th — 7:30 p.m. — $25 How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as…

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    Your Erotic Toolbox: A 101 Guide to Sex Toys

    Sunday, December 15th — 7:30 p.m. — $20 Join Tuck Malloy for an in-depth low-down on sex toys, lube, and much more! Solo or with a partner, sex toys have the capacity to stimulate all our senses, expand our pleasure, and help us realize our deepest desires – so come gather all the…

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🌹🌹🌹 VALENTINE'S NIGHT GIVEAWAY 🌹🌹🌹
Turn Valentine's Day into a very special Valentine's Night by entering to win a staycation package with @jupiterhotel and @sheboptheshop.

Here’s what you can win:
💘 A single King bed guestroom at Jupiter NEXT
💘 Two entries to SheBop's Carnal Creativity class at Jupiter NEXT on February 14, 2023, 7:30pm-9:30pm
💘 Delicious Dessert from Hey Love

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Enter by midnight on Sunday, February 5! @jupiterhotel will announce the winner in their story on Monday, February 6 and they will DM you directly for your email address ONLY. Good luck! 🌹

**Remember, DO NOT share your personal information, ESPECIALLY credit card information via any link or DM. Please be aware of the scammers out there. We will message the winner on Monday, February 6 to ask for ONLY your email address so that our marketing manager can reach out to you directly.**
Looking for a fun way to spend Valentine's Day? Th Looking for a fun way to spend Valentine's Day? Then join us for Stella's class where you'll learn basic rope safety, bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. As a special bonus, with registration to this class you’ll also receive a free copy of Stella’s rope bondage e-book, which includes step by step instructions and full color photos for the ties covered in class, plus more ties and positions. With this resource, you’ll be able to practice what you’ve learned in class and continue your home study for more date nights to come.

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She Bop is hiring a General Manager! 💛 We are s She Bop is hiring a General Manager! 💛 We are seeking an enthusiastic, communicative, reliable, and organized individual to fill a full-time retail management position. Must live near Portland, Oregon. At least 3 years management experience required. 🌈  We strongly encourage BIPOC and folks from other underrepresented communities to apply.

This position starts at $29-32/hour or DOE. Applicants must be available to work weekend hours. 🗓️

📚 Previous sex toy sales experience or knowledge ideal. Administrative experience required and scheduling experience strongly preferred. She Bop is a LGBTQI-affirming business committed to anti-racism. Candidates should have an ability to demonstrate She Bop’s commitment to equity in all job duties. You must be 18 years or older to work at She Bop. 

Deadline to submit an application for this position is February 13th at 11:59pm. 

💻 To apply, click on the linktr.ee in our bio.
February is around the corner and love is in the a February is around the corner and love is in the air 🥰 Let cupid's arrow find you and make your way over to our Valentine's Gift Guide. 🏹❣️ Whether you're looking to splurge on something luxurious and artisanal or seeking budget-friendly ideas to build intimacy, there's something for everyone on our blog. Link in our bio🌹

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February is almost here and ~seduction~ is in the February is almost here and ~seduction~ is in the air. 😈 This highly interactive workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you how to know if someone's interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power. 💚 Click the link in our bio to sign up.

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Have you seen what's new and improved by We-Vibe?! Have you seen what's new and improved by We-Vibe?! 😱 Everyone's favorite panty vibrator, the Moxie+, has returned with a new velvety finish and improved remote.👙 Looking for hands-free prostate pleasure? 🍑 Try the improved Vector+ to stimulate the p-spot and perineum simultaneously. Swipe to see how to use them. 👉

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Looking for a unique way to spend Valentine’s Ni Looking for a unique way to spend Valentine’s Night with your sweetie(s), a group of friends, or your sexy self? 😏 Then join s3x educators and HUMP! Film Fest winners Amory Jane and Gretchen Leigh for this workshop, Carnal Creativity, at the Jupiter NEXT hotel. 🛏️✨

This collaboration between She Bop and @jupiterhotel offers food and drink specials, discounts on rooms and romance packages at the Jupiter or Jupiter Next on 2/14, plus the interactive 2 hour workshop.

❣️If you want to attend JUST the workshop, sign up on our website! Link in our bio.

❣️If you want to book the full package (includes 2 tickets to the Carnal Creativity workshop at Jupiter Next, in-room dessert and a room at the hotel), visit the Jupiter hotel website!

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Words are powerful: they can be kinky, romantic, s Words are powerful: they can be kinky, romantic, sensual, naughty, playful and oh so arousing! 😈 Join Amory Jane for this workshop all about talking dirty. Get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the dirty things you've been dying to say, hear, and share. 🫦 Sign up via the link in our bio!

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Take notice, grinders and humpers: we now stock th Take notice, grinders and humpers: we now stock the VibePad! This large, flexible pad is designed for hands-free, external stimulation — great for those with dexterity issues or anyone who loves to hump. 😏 Its two ridges contain powerful motors that can be controlled with a remote by you or a partner. 🎮 Find the VibePad online or in the shops.

#sheboptheshop #adulttoys #moreorgasms #betterorgasms #dualstim
Feel like you have more questions after shopping a Feel like you have more questions after shopping at She Bop but wish for more privacy to ask them? 🫣😰 Now you can chat with us anonymously on OkaySo! 💜 Create an account then find our Team Bop 'Experts' on the app. From there, you can submit your questions for a response and also see what other users are asking in topics you're interested in. From relationships, to bedroom tips, to how-tos with your purchased toys, we got you. 👍 Download the app for free.

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Daddy roleplay is a popular fantasy, whether the c Daddy roleplay is a popular fantasy, whether the counter fantasy is of a 'daughter,' 'neighbour,' 'puppy,' bottom or many other hot roleplay ideas. 😉 Whether you're a daddy or an admirer of daddies, join this class with Luna Matatas and you'll get tips for communication, care, creativity, building confidence, and taking your daddy fantasies into real life. 🖤 Daddies and daddy admirers of all genders welcome. 🌈 Click the link in our bio to sign up.

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Curious about what were the most popular items at Curious about what were the most popular items at She Bop in 2022? 🤔 Well, the results are IN! Swipe through to see everyone's favorite vibrators, lubricants, and condoms from 2022. 👀 Let us know in the comments if any of these surprised you, or did you call it? ✍️ ⬇️

Best Vibes:
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Mini Halo Wand
We-Vibe Unite

Lovable Lubes:
Sliquid H20
Good Clean Love

Celebrated Condoms:
Skyn non-latex condoms

#sheboptheshop #bestof2022 #mostpopular2022 #betterorgasms #moreorgasms #goodvibes
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