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Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Communication in BDSM Negotiations
Setting boundaries and negotiating limits is crucial when exploring kink and BDSM, but the process doesn't have to be dull or overwhelming! Join sexologist and intimacy educator Lilithfoxx as she discusses pleasure-focused and practical tips for effective, inclusive, trauma-informed, and mindful communication in BDSM.
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We Give Back Wednesdays: Call to Safety
Each Wednesday this April, 10% of our sales at She Bop will go to Call to Safety (formerly Portland Women’s Crisis Line). Founded in 1973, Call to Safety was one of the first five sexual violence crisis lines in the United States. Their mission is to end domestic and sexual violence by providing confidential…
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Kinky BIPOC Community Night at She Bop! (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate Portland's kinky BIPOC community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for kinky Black, Indigenous, (and) People of Color! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and kinky goodies in our free raffle. Come for the community, leave with…
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Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-Consent
What is consensual non-consent play? It is a type of sexual play in which consenting adults engage in a scene where one of the people involved acts as if they are not enjoying it. Join Miss Mackenzee for this workshop about a taboo subject that can make people hesitant to dive into the…
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Sex Ed QUICKIE: The Ultimate Orgasm — Building Sexual Energy with Edging
Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, delivering the full power of your passion? Are you adventurous to try new things in pursuit of great sex? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy and finish with an intense wave of pleasure. This workshop with Jessie Fresh is about creating the…
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Queer Your Orgasm!
Having an orgasm the same way every time can get redundant. If you're bored with your masturbation routine, this class with Marla Renee Stewart is for you! In this workshop, we're celebrating our pride by learning ways to queer our orgasms, whether on our own or with someone else.
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Service and Submission as a Lifestyle
Do you want to make service more of a lifestyle? Whether you are brand new and asking yourself "is service for me?" or a hardened lifestyler looking for tips to expand and perfect your service, this class with seasoned kinkster lily will help you look at new and unique ways to serve.
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Queer Safer Sex
Sex education rarely addresses queer sex, and that leaves people trying to figure it out on their own. In this class, Stella Harris will break down sexual risks based on body parts and acts, rather than gender or identity, covering everything you need to know to have a comprehensive safer sex negotiation.
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Knocking on the Back Door: All About Anal
Whether it's in the context of straight or queer sex, butt stuff is frequently shamed and looked down upon in the media. But hiding past all the shame are many delightful pathways to pleasure. Cum join Aeryn Ayla as we enter the back door and learn all about anal!
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HelloGina x She Bop: Overcoming Pain During Vaginal Insertion
If inserting a tampon, having sex, or going to the OBGYN is painful or physically impossible for you, it is not "all in your head" and you don't need to "just relax." In this workshop, Charlotte Kirchhoff, co-developer of HelloGina, will answer all your questions about painful insertion or penetrative sex.
