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communication
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work through, from messages implying that wanting sex or pleasure is slutty (and that that's a bad thing) to ubiquitous sex tips that make it sound like we're supposed to read our partners' minds.
F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk
Amory Jane and Tuck Malloy present a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the things you've been dying to say, hear, and share.
Seduce Your Lover!: Advanced Flirting Techniques
This highly interactive workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you how to know if someone's interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Roughhousing For Adults
From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you can use to spice up your own bedroom play as well as teach you to do them safely.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Art of Dirty Talk
Are you a little shy when it comes to expressing yourself in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re good in bed, but you want to bring your sexual life to new level? Whatever it is, this workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will help you to speak up in bed, as well as get you and your partner to a more sexually arousing state.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Consent, Communication, and Negotiation
Join Caress and Andy Fitch for an introduction to the essential tools that keep intimate relationships and sexual adventures flourishing. They will cover a range of topics to expand understanding of consent and negotiation, including how to have clear-cut consent conversations without conflict, how to communicate your needs while respecting your partner's needs, and how to play to the edges without getting hurt.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Initiate Sex with Confidence!
Are you having the amount of sex that you desire? Does initiating sex feel easy and natural... or a little daunting? When your partner proposes sex, are you aroused... or uncomfortable? Jessie has tips and suggestions to help everyone get what they want!
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Initiate Sex with Confidence!
Are you having the amount of sex that you desire? Does initiating sex feel easy and natural... or a little daunting? When your partner proposes sex, are you aroused... or uncomfortable? Jessie has tips and suggestions to help everyone get what they want!
Dirty Talk with Luna Matatas!
Dirty talk doesn't come naturally to most of us; it's a skill we can develop! This workshop with Luna Matatas will explore creating fantasies with words, compliments, and communication, and help you develop playful confidence with dirty talk.
F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk
Words are powerful: they can be kinky, romantic, sensual, naughty, playful and oh so arousing! Join Amory Jane for this workshop all about talking dirty. Get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the dirty things you've been dying to say, hear, and share.
Seduce Your Lover
This highly interactive workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you how to know if someone's interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Communication in BDSM Negotiations
Setting boundaries and negotiating limits is crucial when exploring kink and BDSM, but the process doesn't have to be dull or overwhelming! Join sexologist and intimacy educator Lilithfoxx as she discusses pleasure-focused and practical tips for effective, inclusive, trauma-informed, and mindful communication in BDSM.
Five Ways To Say No
In the sex-positive community, we say "if it isn't a hell yes, it's a hell no!" That's great in theory, but what happens when someone is looking at you expectantly and waiting for an answer to their proposition? In this class with Leah Carey, we'll practice saying a confident "no."
Seduce Your Lover
This highly interactive workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you how to know if someone's interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power.
Voicing Your Desires (A Squirm Workshop with Kels & Tess)
In this workshop, Kels & Tess from Squirm will help you craft your unique and specific answers to the question, “What are you into?" Together, we cover topics such as types of touch, moods and styles, settings, kinks, fantasies vs desires, and toys and props.