Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Perimenopause, Menopause, and Pleasure with Tristan Taormino
If you've got ovaries, you will experience perimenopause and menopause, two phases of life that come with physical and emotional changes that many people experience without much knowledge or support. Let's talk about how these 'pauses' affect our self-image, sex drive, desires, intimacy, and relationships. Tristan Taormino will discuss coping strategies, Western and alternative treatments, and creating your own holistic care plan. We absolutely can reclaim our bodies and our pleasure!
How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups
Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how to reframe breakups to be loving, supportive, and kind.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Get Your Libido Back!
Are you wondering what happened to that sexy, sultry part of yourself that seems to have vanished? Let's get this situation improved ASAP in this Sex Ed QUICKIE. This QUICKIE with Jessie Fresh is designed to reignite your sexual excitement and put you back in the pleasure groove.
How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Want to learn communication, sensuality and erotic creativity in going down on someone?
Finding Your Inner Goddess
Whether you want to awaken your sexuality or be more in tune with the confident feminine energy within, this class is for you. Miss Mackenzee will help you to feel more comfortable in your skin and love who you are. Be the unapologetic goddess you were born to be. All genders are welcome, as well as folks wanting to build up their partners and support them in their journeys.
Anal Pleasure 201
So, you've got the basics of the butt down. Are you ready to take the next step in anal pleasure? In this next-level class, ass expert Tristan Taormino will discuss many advanced topics, including: the ins and outs of anal penetration; pros and cons of different positions; orgasms through anal penetration; extended butt plug wearing; pegging/strap-on anal sex; advanced anal toys; and anal fisting. Plus, there will be an extensive Q&A!
BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop
Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover's mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!
DIY Porn: Naked Selfies to Naughty Sex Tapes
Nowadays, everyone has a porn-making machine in their pockets. Join Tina Horn, queer pornographer and author, for a deep dive into the possibilities of DIY porn-making. We'll cover techniques for everything from Skype sex to selfie flirting to making money as an amateur porn star, as well as essential tips for protecting your privacy. This fun class will help you to reinvent yourself as a sexy superstar!
Modern Dating: A Safe, Practical, and Fun Approach
Maybe you're getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in! Stella Harris will talk about how to write a compelling profile and present yourself in a flattering (and honest!) way, as well as ways to stay safe when meeting someone and how to assess your risk tolerance in regards to COVID-19.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!
Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. Getting stuck in your head can become the invisible barrier that keeps you from being fully enraptured and in the moment. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you.
Fulfilling Foreplay!
Are you a little confused when it comes to foreplay? Out of creative ideas on how to extend your sexual experiences? This workshop from Marla Renee Stewart takes you from flirting and seduction to acknowledging all the erogenous zones and how to master them with touch. This class will teach you how to broaden your foreplay horizons.
How to Have Fun Sex with Power Dynamics!
Exploring dominance and submission in a relationship can be a sexy way to spice things up in the bedroom, explore fantasies, and deepen intimacy. In this workshop with Luna Matatas, you'll get tips for communication and consent, techniques for developing your dominance and submission, and ways to develop confidence and creativity.
Sex-Positive Parenting: Talking to Kids About Sex, Bodies, & Relationships
Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need to go beyond "the talk," but just aren't sure what kids need to know when, or exactly how to go about telling them? In this class with Rebecca Koon, you'll build knowledge and skills that will help you talk about sexuality with the littles in your life with ease and confidence.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Erotica Writing 101
In this two hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives.
Autism & Sexuality: Embracing Difference
Navigating intimacy can be challenging but can make for interesting and enjoyable experiences too! Morrigan and Kate, both Autistic Social Workers, will invite you to have a conversation on the myths and realities of sex for Autistic people and imagine ways in which we can create a more accessible world.
Exploring Gender Identity
How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Getting It: How to Have Healthy Hookups
Casual sex can be fun, freeing, and hot. But to make the most of a no-strings-attached romp, it helps to have some skills in place. Learn from Allison Moon, proudly promiscuous sex educator & author of Girl Sex 101, as she guides you through the communication tools, self-assessments, and negotiation skills necessary to make hooking up safe and fulfilling for everyone.
Wet and Messy Erotic Fluid Play!
Come get wet and messy with kinky podcaster Tina Horn as we explore playing with all kinds of body fluids. From golden showers to saliva, from milk to blood, from squirting to underarm sweating, we'll explore the taboos nature of human secretions and some inventive ways to make them even filthier. We'll also discuss health, hygiene, and how to get clean before and after getting dirty!
The Art of Erotic Dance: Lapdancing 101
Do you wish you could gracefully navigate and elongate those moments between being fully dressed and completely nude? Has a partner suggested you "dance" for them, and you were confused by what they meant? Join Andre Shakti, stripper and professional slut, for this intro to erotic dance.
Relationship Design & Relationship Anarchy!
Tired of following everyone else's rules? Tired of new partners making assumptions? Unsure of when and how to tell your partner about your sexuality profile, kinks, and relationship preferences? Join Andy and Caress as they help you to take hold of your autonomy and individuality and build your own unique, joyous relationship.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101
Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Warm Up with Wax Play!
Wax play is a type of sensation play that explores the body's reaction to suspense, extreme heat, short bursts of stimulation, and sensory deprivation. This QUICKIE will include information about specific tools, safety tips, and explorative exercises for self or partnered wax play, all in under an hour.
Meet Your Most Sensual Self: A Workshop with Sensualist Ev’Yan Whitney
Who would you be if you were fully in your body? Sexuality doula and sensualist Ev'Yan Whitney wants to introduce you to your sensual self. During this workshop, you'll be guided into coming into your body and senses with questions to help spark curiosity and exercises to guide you into the practice of sensuality.
The Joys of Toys!
Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered "what the heck is that?" Never fear, Gretchen will answer those burning (in a good way) questions and then some! Gretchen will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self doubt at the door and let your inner Show Person shine! Join BodyMagick Burlesque creatrix Eva D'Luscious to learn her 4Ps of Tease and a sassy routine combining bumps, grinds, shimmies and struts.
Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-Consent
An exciting taboo workshop that will take you down a rabbit hole like no other. If you've ever found yourself thinking about this type of play and don't know where to start or want to take your experiences to the next level, you won't want to miss this edgy class with Miss Mackenzee.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!
Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you.