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Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-Consent

January 12 @ 5:30 pm 7:30 pm PST

$15 – $25
Miss Mackenzee

This class will be held online via Zoom — you’ll receive an email with access information prior to the event. While classes are LIVE in nature and by default not recorded, some educators have chosen to offer recordings of their classes to pre-registered attendees; please inquire for specifics of this event. Registration deadline: 2:30 p.m. PST on the day of class. No day-of cancellations.

An exciting taboo workshop that will take you down a rabbit hole like no other.

What is consensual non-consent play? It is a type of play where two or more consenting adults engage in a scene where one of the people involved acts as if they are not enjoying it and are fighting back. Statistics show that over half the population has had fantasies about consensual non-consent encounters. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking about this type of play and don’t know where to start or want to take your experiences to the next level, you won’t want to miss this class.

Join Miss Mackenzee for this workshop all about a subject that can cause people to be hesitant to dive into the deep end. There are tons of fun and playful ways to dip your toes into CNC. Are you nervous to approach your partner about this subject? No worries! By the end of this workshop, you will have the tools to confidently talk with your partner about it. Hear from seasoned players on why they engage in and advocate for consensual non-consent scenes. Some other topics that will be discussed are:

  • Navigating the tricky realm of consent with CNC
  • How to negotiate for this type of play
  • Shadow play: what it is and how it can be healing and empowering
  • 7 ways to include CNC into your sex and/or play
  • What to do if things don’t go as planned
  • The importance of aftercare and how to connect afterwards

This workshop is open to everyone regardless of age, race, sexuality, gender, or relationship dynamics.

Trigger warning: discussions and demos may include rape play and intense edge play.

Miss Mackenzee is a Professional Dominatrix, Certified Hypnotist, Sexual Wellness Coach, and International BDSM and Sex Educator. She has been involved in the kink lifestyle for 20 years and has brought her experiences and skills to conventions, graduate programs, and major universities. Miss Mackenzee co-hosts the Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge podcast and creates beautiful one-of-a-kind self defense tools and BDSM toys with her live-in submissive. She prides herself on creating an environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their kinks and sexuality.

We’re offering 2 free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Two people will be chosen randomly and contacted at least 2 weeks prior to class to confirm.