Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink
In these quarantine times, there's no better kink than psychological play. A little story-telling, a little tease and denial, maybe some humiliation and objectification, and a whole lot of consent, and you have an amazing weekend. Join Caress and Andy Fitch for a not-so-gentle introduction to the world of Psychological Kink.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Sensual Touch as Self-Care for All Vulva-Havers
Your body needs and deserves touch that isn't goal oriented! It's your right as a sexual being to receive that physical love, and the best giver is YOU! Let's energetically and physically clear some of the stagnant energy in our sexual centers while utilizing self-pleasure as the main tool. Participants will learn techniques and tips on how to connect to their body in deeply honoring and pleasurable ways.
Carnal Creativity!
They say your biggest and best sex organ lives right between your ears; it's time to put that beautiful brain to use and start having the sex of your dreams! Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Fest winners, Amory Jane and Gretchen Leigh, for a fun and interactive evening of sexploration.
Keeping the Spark Alive for Long-Lasting Relationships
Learn techniques and strategies that help keep the “spark'' alive in long-term relationships. While bringing your partner flowers or cooking them a special dinner from time to time can be a wonderful treat or surprise, there is much more we can learn to do to truly fan the flames of our relationship!
Exploring Gender Identity: How Sensuality and Sex can Affirm and Expand Gender Identity
How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.
BOOK RELEASE PARTY: The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes!
From sexuality and relationships expert Stella Harris comes her second contribution to Cleis Press, The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes! Join She Bop in virtually celebrating the release of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes with a book reading, threesome Q&A, and meet and greet with the author!
The Mystery Box Show — Sex*People: A Sex Talk Livestream
(This event is not hosted by She Bop) Join the Mystery Box Show for a discussion of sex, sexuality, and get your questions answered by panelists. Topics will include self-confidence in the bedroom and the kink advice you would have told your younger self.
Give ‘Em A Hand: Fisting, Fingering, & Sensual Touch
Hands can offer diverse and unique sensations unlike any other sex toy or body part, yet we often hear about manual stimulation being rushed through or skipped over completely to get to other sex acts. In this class, sex educators and hand sex pros Stella Harris and Gretchen Leigh invite you to slow down and discover the many wonders of your hands!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Building Your Love List
Whether you are having trouble in your relationships, you're ready to take on another partner, or your ideal person hasn't come to you yet, this QUICKIE from Marla Renee Stewart is designed to help you figure out what's most important in developing a lasting long-term relationship. Get ready to work emotionally and logically to manifest the love you desire by creating a love list that works!
Erotica Writing 101
In this virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives. This workshop was designed for beginners to erotic writing, although those at any level may participate.
All About Daddy Roleplay with Luna Matatas!
Daddy roleplay can be misunderstood, and some people who are into it can feel shame because they think it's wrong or they'll be judged. The reality is kinky play is usually about roleplay, erotic creativity and sometimes costumes, power, sensuality and connection. Join Luna Matatas and learn to build these skills with knowledge, practice and communication.
Sex & Sensuality for the Super-Sensitive
Everyone has a unique route to pleasure... and that route can feel even more unique for highly sensitive people and empaths. This class with Jessie Fresh will help you understand your needs and desires while having a highly sensitive nervous system — so your pleasure and turn-on is more easily accessed, shared, and enjoyed.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond with Eva D’Luscious
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self-doubt at the door and let your inner showgirl shine in this body-positive burlesque class guaranteed to put a smile on your face and a wiggle in your walk! Eva utilizes her lifelong dance and fitness training to connect you with your body and provide a solid foundation to move safely with confidence.
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Plus Size Sexy Skills with Luna Matatas!
Do you want to feel sexier in the skin you're in? Body shame can create barriers to pleasure in the bedroom. Set that shame free and make room for more pleasure with Luna Matatas in this workshop. We’ll cover topics like navigating body shame during sex, dating and body acceptance, sex toys and size, positions for plus size bodies and more!
Talking with Kids About Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity
How do we make sure our homes, classrooms, and groups are safe, welcoming, and inclusive of queer youth? In this workshop for parents, caregivers, and youth-serving professionals, you’ll learn the latest vocabulary, skills to help you be a good ally, and approaches to common questions and dilemmas.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Kinky Cannabis!
Amory Jane is not shy about sharing her love of combining kink, sex and cannabis, but sometimes she's gotten backlash. People ask: "can stoned sex be consensual?" How is it possible to safely play rough, explore BDSM or get your kink on when weed is involved? Well, that is exactly what this class will cover... and much more!
The More, the Merrier: A Road Map to Ethical Non-Monogamy
The biggest roadblock to exploring ethical non-monogamy is FEAR. Whatever YOUR fear, Andre Shakti wants to help you acknowledge it, then eradicate it. This workshop is geared towards those who are in the initial stages of considering stepping outside of a monogamous framework. Bring your concerns, your compassion, and most importantly, your CURIOSITY!
Enhancing Sexual Wellness with Crystal Eggs & Wands
In centuries past, jade eggs were used not only to increase sexual skill but also to enhance sexual potency and creative energies within the body. This could lead to more balanced physical, emotional and energetic health. Today, many people have heard of "yoni eggs," but they don't know where to begin with the how-to's of using them. If you are someone who is intrigued by this work, then join Andrea Thompson in this juicy class!
Doing It Differently: How Sex and Disability Really Feels with Andrew Gurza
Usually if we talk about sex and disability, we tend to focus on the mechanics of sex and disability. In this class, we will instead ask "How does sex and disability feel?" In doing so, we will uncover the emotional aspects of sex and disability that often go overlooked. Andrew will give tips and tricks on how to ask the question, how to confront sexual ableism, and how to have hot, disabled sex.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Exploring Fantasy!
Curious about role play, sex games, kink, threesomes, and more? Or maybe you're curious about what's out there, but you don't know where to start? In this 45-minute QUICKIE with Stella Harris, she'll talk about some of the most common fantasies you might want to try as well as working your way through exploration exercises to find ideas you didn't even know you had.
Trans Femme-Tastic!
This one goes out to all trans feminine folks, be they you and/or your sweetheart(s)! For far too long, the sexual experiences of trans women and AMAB nonbinary people have been represented as tragic and bleak, but this class is here to reinvigorate our collective curiosity! Join Aria Carpenter in a workshop that explores trans feminine wellness and pleasure, driven by personal and community-sourced knowledge.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Sex Work: Everything You’re Scared to Ask!
Where does the average person turn to learn about sex work? Here! Andre Shakti is a veteran sex worker who has successfully operated within a multitude of industry genres, including — but not limited to — stripping, professional domination, webcam modeling, and porn performance. In this class, Andre will facilitate a forum that acts as a safe space for ALL of your burning questions, no matter how "stupid" or "silly"!
Consent, Communication, and Negotiation
Join Caress and Andy Fitch for an introduction to the essential tools that keep intimate relationships and sexual adventures flourishing. They will cover a range of topics to expand understanding of consent and negotiation, including how to have clear-cut consent conversations without conflict, how to communicate your needs while respecting your partner's needs, and how to play to the edges without getting hurt.
Mixed Desire: What to Do When We Want Different Things
There is nothing more normal in a relationship than having different needs. Just because we love someone doesn't mean our desires will be the same! So why do we get so scared about having different desires when it comes to sex? Join certified holistic sex educator Tuck Malloy for an evening of exploration on desire and connection.
Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Tops & Dominants
Curious about BDSM? Are you just beginning to explore your top or dominant side? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. Auntie Midori will share with you practical tips, easy ways to get started, and how to avoid common mistakes.
Three (or More) Is Company
Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties. This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you're confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences.
Saucy Spring into Summer Choreography!
Bloom with the flowers! Strut into summer with a sweet and sassy routine in this 2-hour burlesque choreography workshop with Eva D'Luscious. We'll warm up with the bumps, grinds, shimmies, struts and specialty moves used for this routine — including tassel twirling — then link them together in a delicious routine accessible to new dancers.