Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Erotica Writing 101
In this two hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives.
Autism & Sexuality: Embracing Difference
Navigating intimacy can be challenging but can make for interesting and enjoyable experiences too! Morrigan and Kate, both Autistic Social Workers, will invite you to have a conversation on the myths and realities of sex for Autistic people and imagine ways in which we can create a more accessible world.
Exploring Gender Identity
How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Getting It: How to Have Healthy Hookups
Casual sex can be fun, freeing, and hot. But to make the most of a no-strings-attached romp, it helps to have some skills in place. Learn from Allison Moon, proudly promiscuous sex educator & author of Girl Sex 101, as she guides you through the communication tools, self-assessments, and negotiation skills necessary to make hooking up safe and fulfilling for everyone.
Wet and Messy Erotic Fluid Play!
Come get wet and messy with kinky podcaster Tina Horn as we explore playing with all kinds of body fluids. From golden showers to saliva, from milk to blood, from squirting to underarm sweating, we'll explore the taboos nature of human secretions and some inventive ways to make them even filthier. We'll also discuss health, hygiene, and how to get clean before and after getting dirty!
The Art of Erotic Dance: Lapdancing 101
Do you wish you could gracefully navigate and elongate those moments between being fully dressed and completely nude? Has a partner suggested you "dance" for them, and you were confused by what they meant? Join Andre Shakti, stripper and professional slut, for this intro to erotic dance.
Relationship Design & Relationship Anarchy!
Tired of following everyone else's rules? Tired of new partners making assumptions? Unsure of when and how to tell your partner about your sexuality profile, kinks, and relationship preferences? Join Andy and Caress as they help you to take hold of your autonomy and individuality and build your own unique, joyous relationship.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101
Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Warm Up with Wax Play!
Wax play is a type of sensation play that explores the body's reaction to suspense, extreme heat, short bursts of stimulation, and sensory deprivation. This QUICKIE will include information about specific tools, safety tips, and explorative exercises for self or partnered wax play, all in under an hour.
Meet Your Most Sensual Self: A Workshop with Sensualist Ev’Yan Whitney
Who would you be if you were fully in your body? Sexuality doula and sensualist Ev'Yan Whitney wants to introduce you to your sensual self. During this workshop, you'll be guided into coming into your body and senses with questions to help spark curiosity and exercises to guide you into the practice of sensuality.
The Joys of Toys!
Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered "what the heck is that?" Never fear, Gretchen will answer those burning (in a good way) questions and then some! Gretchen will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self doubt at the door and let your inner Show Person shine! Join BodyMagick Burlesque creatrix Eva D'Luscious to learn her 4Ps of Tease and a sassy routine combining bumps, grinds, shimmies and struts.
Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-Consent
An exciting taboo workshop that will take you down a rabbit hole like no other. If you've ever found yourself thinking about this type of play and don't know where to start or want to take your experiences to the next level, you won't want to miss this edgy class with Miss Mackenzee.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!
Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you.
How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Luna Matatas has all the tips and tricks to get you into the pleasure of giving.
Erotica Writing 101
In this two hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Whether you're writing about personal passion for a partner or partners or you're looking to get published, this workshop will help you unlock your creative side and get your fantasies on paper.
Kinky Kick-Off
Get the ball rolling with this beginner's guide to kink focused on safety, introduction to tools, play, and negotiations. Taught by queer, polyam, Afro-Brasilian sex educator Flo Oliveira, this class will be framed by an intersectional approach that considers access, ability to play, settings, and monetary investments.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Art of the Sensual Kiss
Do you want to learn some new ways of kissing your lovers? Or how to seduce your lover with a kiss that will keep them coming back again and again? Either way, this 45-minute Sex Ed QUICKIE workshop with Marla Renee Stewart is designed to help you kiss your lover better and connect with them on a deeper level.
Setting and Resetting Boundaries for Dating, Sex, and Relationships
It can be hard to set boundaries with those we're intimate with, but it's important! In this workshop with Erin Tillman, you will learn ways to get to know what your boundaries actually are, determine if your boundaries need to be adjusted, and discuss your boundaries with partners not only in sexual situations, but also on dates and in casual scenarios.
Different Shades of Kink: Diversity, Inclusion, and Accessibility in Sex Positive-Communities for BIPOC and Strong Allies
Join MrBLK for a discussion on diversity in sex-positive communities. He'll delve into the topics of personal agency, inclusion, and safety in communities from the perspective of a POC. The discussion will be intersectional in nature by addressing the larger issues faced by many marginalized members of our respective communities.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Initiate Sex with Confidence!
Are you having the amount of sex that you desire? Does initiating sex feel easy and natural... or a little daunting? When your partner proposes sex, are you aroused... or uncomfortable? Jessie has tips and suggestions to help everyone get what they want!
Swinging & Threesomes & Orgies, Oh My!
Are you excited about making your group sex fantasies come true but don't know where to start? Join sex educator and HUMP! Film Festival winner Amory Jane for a class on partner swapping, sex parties, threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes!
BDSM Basics: A Beginner’s Guide to Aftercare
Aftercare is an absolute must for being a kink connoisseur. In this workshop with Violet, you will learn the ins and outs of what happens in one's brain when a kink scene is occurring, and why that makes aftercare so necessary. You'll learn how to complete the response cycle and create positive and uplifting experiences for your and your partner.
Anyone Can Be a Pornstar: Living Out Your XXX Fantasy
Do you wish you could be a pornstar just for a night? Do you find porn exciting, erotic, and arousing? Have you toyed with the idea of making your own porn at home but don't know where to begin? This workshop with pleasure professional Javay da BAE will focus on how to craft the sexy, XXX date night of your dreams.
Is There a Secret Handshake?: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles
Many people are drawn to alternative lifestyles such as BDSM, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and swinging because they are seeking to explore a different side of themselves. In this session, Dirty Lola will share ways to find your place within the alternative community that mesh with your needs and desires.
Dirty Talk with Luna Matatas!
Dirty talk doesn't come naturally to most of us; it's a skill we can develop! This workshop with Luna Matatas will explore creating fantasies with words, compliments, and communication, and help you develop playful confidence with dirty talk.
Kinky Cannabis: Exploring Altered States
Join Amory Jane to explore your Higher Self through kink and cannabis! Cannabis and kink may both be used to transport us to altered states, and combining the two can intensify the effects. Experiences may include: extended / more powerful orgasms, dropping more easily into subspace and flow states, roleplaying with more confidence, and expanding your threshold.
Sexy Strap-on Skills with Mx. Justine
Get your strap on! Welcome to a fun (and funny) workshop all about leveling up your strap-on skills! In this workshop with Mx. Justine, you'll learn about harnesses and toys, power dynamics, positions, and pressing queer questions such as "what do you do with your toys if you break up?"