Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Sensual Touch as Self-Care for ALL Vulva-Havers
Your body needs and deserves touch that isn't goal oriented! It's your right as a sexual being to receive that physical love, and the best giver is YOU! Let's energetically and physically clear some of the stagnant energy in our sexual centers while utilizing self-pleasure as the main tool. Participants will learn techniques and tips on how to connect to their body in deeply honoring and pleasurable ways. This class is a wonderful way to take the focus off pleasure of orgasm and penetration/insertion, and bring the focus back to sensual, embodied touch.
Sex-Positive Parenting: Talking to Kids About Sex, Bodies, & Relationships
Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need to go beyond "the talk," but just aren’t sure what kids need to know when, or exactly how to go about telling them? In this class, you’ll build knowledge and skills that will help you talk about sexuality with the littles in your life with ease and confidence. We’ll go over what sexuality is (it’s a lot bigger than you might think!), why it’s so important to talk about it early and often, how to clarify your values, and exactly what kids need to know at what age.
Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal & External Pleasure
In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection along with ways to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. Whether exploring on your own body or with a partner, this class will show external and internal touch techniques and ways to make anal play accessible.
How to Have a Threesome! A Class with Luna Matatas
Have you fantasized about a threesome? Unsure about how to approach a couple or a single for group sex? Want tips for talking to your partner about this sexy fantasy? Group Sex Goddess Luna Matatas will provide you with practical tools to explore a sexy landscape of more than two bodies. This workshop welcomes inexperienced and experienced singles and couples of all genders to explore the ways to maximize pleasure in your threesome experiences.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Sensational Exploration!
Who's ready for a unique date night in?! Explore multiple kinds of sensation and let your body and brain focus on pleasure with this (hands-on optional) QUICKIE. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Amory Jane will talk all about sensation play and demonstrate ways to enhance arousal and awaken your sexual imagination.
Lap Dance 101!
Seduce and entice with this 101 lesson in the art of lap dancing! Come learn fun techniques and the foundation of how to give a really good lap dance from local stripper, performer, and teacher Iris Ives. She'll cover how to feel connected to yourself and your sensuality while also learning new ways to move your body on another human.
Enhancing Sexual Health with Yoni Eggs & Crystal Wands
Many people have heard of yoni eggs, but they don't know where to begin with the how-to's of using them. If you are someone who is intrigued by this work, then join us in this juicy class! We'll start with a bit of anatomy to understand where those crystals are going and why you'd want to put them there. It's important to choose crystals that are safe and non-toxic. We'll discuss what crystals to use, how to clean them, and how to "charge" them. Then, passive and active egg skills will be taught as well as wand usage.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Fisting!
Demystify fisting! A sex act loved by many, feared by some, and highly misunderstood by popular culture, fisting is one of sex educator Gretchen Leigh's favorite things. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Gretchen will take you through the ins and outs of this manual sex deep dive, and leave you feeling more prepared to take your hand game up a notch.
How To Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Want to learn communication, sensuality and erotic creativity in going down on someone?
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond with Eva D’Luscious
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self-doubt at the door and let your inner showgirl shine in this body-positive burlesque class guaranteed to put a smile on your face and a wiggle in your walk!
Dating in 2020: A Safe, Fun, and Practical Approach
Maybe you're getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in! By the end of this class there will be nothing stopping you from creating an awesome profile and feeling ready to meet new people!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Sex & Sensuality for the Super-Sensitive
Everyone has a unique route to pleasure... and that route can feel even more unique for highly sensitive people and empaths. This class with Jessie Fresh will help you understand your needs and desires while having a highly sensitive nervous system — so your pleasure and turn-on is more easily accessed, shared, and enjoyed.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!
Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. Getting stuck in your head can become the invisible barrier that keeps you from being fully enraptured and in the moment. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you.
The Ultimate Orgasm: Building Sexual Energy with Edging
Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, where you feel the full power of your passion? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy that will create a powerful wave of pleasure. In this class, Jessie Fresh will teach you how to decode the best orgasm you've ever had so you can learn what makes you simmer and what makes you boil.
Kink 101
Kink and BDSM are all the rage these days — maybe you've seen something that caught your attention but you don't know where to start in real life. With a little bit of information and know-how from Stella Harris, you can start introducing kink into your own play right now!
Am I Doing This Right?: Navigating Communication and Relational Trauma in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Are you intellectually on board with non-monogamy but struggling to get your body and heart on the same page? Does the phrase "I want this but I feel like I'm going to die" (from Clementine Morrigan's zine Love Without Emergency) resonate with you? This is a class for the folks who really want to practice ethical non-monogamy, but are struggling with the practical application of it.
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Burlesque for the Holidays with Eva D’Luscious of ShowGirl Temple!
Shimmy out of the holiday hustle and treat yourself or someone special to the gift of sexy in this saucy 2-hour burlesque choreography workshop. Known for putting her students at ease and instigating a love for all things sparkly, Eva will guide you through her 3Ps of Striptease, basic principles of boa dance, and a simple, sexy choreography for home play.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Warm Up with Wax Play!
Wax play is a type of sensation play that explores the body's reaction to suspense, extreme heat, short bursts of stimulation, and sensory deprivation. This QUICKIE will include information about specific tools, safety tips, and explorative exercises for self or partnered wax play, all in under an hour.
BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop
Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover's mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!
Spank Me, Slap Me, Choke Me!
Ever wondered how to make a spanking look damn sexy!? Well, in this workshop, not only will you learn how to spank, slap, and choke properly to keep them coming back for more, but you will learn some amazing insider kink secrets that people don't tell you. This workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you step-by-step how to sexify your kink.
The Joys of Toys!
Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered "what the heck is that?" Never fear, Gretchen will answer those burning (in a good way) questions and then some! Gretchen will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: All About Aftercare!
Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another's psychological, emotional, or physical needs. This 45-minute QUICKIE will be an in-depth exploration of what happens inside our brains during a kink scene, and how that contributes to our need for aftercare.
Sex-Positive Parenting: Talking to Kids About Sex, Bodies, & Relationships
Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need to go beyond "the talk," but just aren’t sure what kids need to know when, or exactly how to go about telling them? In this class, you’ll build knowledge and skills that will help you talk about sexuality with the littles in your life with ease and confidence.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Eliminating People Pleasing
Most people want to give sexual satisfaction... but there's a difference between giving and giving to deny your own needs. In this 45-minute QUICKIE class, we will get you past people-pleasing to better reach the full enjoyment of your sex life.
Banish Bedroom Boredom with Luna Matatas!
Get creative, get sensual, get down! Banish boredom and bring creativity into the bedroom with tips and techniques to spice up your sex life from Luna Matatas. From roleplay to dirty talk to sex toys – the possibilities are endless for keeping it fresh and hot in bed.