Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Class cancellation policy: refund in the form of store credit if cancellation is at least 24 hours prior to the event. No day-of cancellations.
Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
The Art of Fingering
Do you still finger like you did in high school? Discover the lost art of fingering and experience ~first-hand~ waves of pleasure in this class with Javay da BAE. You will learn different ways to stimulate the vulva and anus digitally, all the pleasure points your fingers can hit, ways to enhance digital pleasure, and the secrets to having your partner call you the Mozart of fingering!
Sex Ed QUICKIE — Strapped to a T: A Trans-Masculine View on Strap On Play
Bought yourself a new harness but unsure what to do next? Thinking of getting your first one but don't know where to begin? With a spotlight on trans kinksters, get strapped in with Cody Jenkins as they guide you through the ins and outs of the incredibly diverse world of strap-ons and harnesses!
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Sex Positive Parenting
Where do babies come from? When will I start my period? What's sexting? Kids' questions about sexuality can be tricky! In this workshop, you'll learn a framework for thinking about sexuality more broadly, what kids need to know at each age and stage, and a tried-and-true process for answering even the toughest questions with ease and confidence.
BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop
Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover's mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Kinky BIPOC Community Night at She Bop! (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate Portland's kinky BIPOC community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for kinky Black, Indigenous, (and) People of Color! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and kinky goodies in our free raffle. Come for the community, leave with a full heart and some treats for the bedroom and beyond!
HelloGina x She Bop: Overcoming Pain During Vaginal Insertion
If inserting a tampon, having sex, or going to the OBGYN is painful or physically impossible for you, it is not "all in your head" and you don't need to "just relax." In this workshop, Charlotte Kirchhoff, co-developer of HelloGina, will answer all your questions about painful insertion or penetrative sex.
Why Are People Into That?!
Bondage, spanking, fisting, oh my, just why are people into that?! For the curious newbie to BDSM, come enjoy a webinar lightning round version of Tina's popular podcast "Why Are People Into That?!"
Being Someone Else: An Intro to Role Playing
Do you struggle with creating role play characters? Are you intimidated by the idea of "being someone else" in the bedroom? Let Javay da BAE help you step into your inner theater kid and experience the wonderful, creative world of role playing!
Gender Rebels Community Night (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate Portland's non-binary, trans, gender fluid, and genderqueer communities at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for Portland's gender rebels! We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and goodies in our free raffle.
Be A Fab Femdom
Ready to explore your dominant side? How do you build a BDSM scene? This workshop is for anyone interested in learning techniques and skills to build feminine dominance skills. Bring your curiosity and femdom fantasies to this She Bop Workshop with Luna Matatas.
Knocking on the Back Door: All About Anal
Whether it's in the context of straight or queer sex, butt stuff is frequently shamed and looked down upon in the media. But hiding past all the shame are many delightful pathways to pleasure. Cum join Aeryn Ayla as we enter the back door and learn all about anal!
Queer Safer Sex
Sex education rarely addresses queer sex, and that leaves people trying to figure it out on their own. In this class, Stella Harris will break down sexual risks based on body parts and acts, rather than gender or identity, covering everything you need to know to have a comprehensive safer sex negotiation.
Juneteenth Pre-Party Community Night (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate community and sex positivity with us at our Juneteenth pre-party! She Bop’s Jae Evans and Ayanna will be your hosts while you mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and goodies in our free raffle.
Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Communication in BDSM Negotiations
Setting boundaries and negotiating limits is crucial when exploring kink and BDSM, but the process doesn't have to be dull or overwhelming! Join sexologist and intimacy educator Lilithfoxx as she discusses pleasure-focused and practical tips for effective, inclusive, trauma-informed, and mindful communication in BDSM.
Queer Your Orgasm!
Having an orgasm the same way every time can get redundant. If you're bored with your masturbation routine, this class with Marla Renee Stewart is for you! In this workshop, we're celebrating our pride by learning ways to queer our orgasms, whether on our own or with someone else.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: The Ultimate Orgasm — Building Sexual Energy with Edging
Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, delivering the full power of your passion? Are you adventurous to try new things in pursuit of great sex? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy and finish with an intense wave of pleasure. This workshop with Jessie Fresh is about creating the most pleasurable lovemaking you ever had.
Knuckle Up: Vaginal & Anal Fisting
Attention all Size Kings and Queens! Fisting often reads as wildly inaccessible to folks who have only seen it on their computer screens, yet it's one of the most intimately connective, revolutionary sex acts you can engage in. Manual sex aficionado Andre Shakti is ready to knuckle up and show you how to experiment safely with the best sex toys we come equipped with: our fingers!
Discovering Your Dominance
Are you new to kink? Has a partner asked you to take control but you're not sure how? Do you see Cat Woman and think, I wish that was me? Do whips give you a special tingle? This class is for you! Join Ms. Eve for a workshop designed to guide new players into the murky waters of kink — and pop you out the other side with tools and techniques to start your dominance journey!
Femme for Femme Community Night (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate Portland’s Femme for Femme community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for queer, lesbian, bi, and/or pansexual fem(me)s who love fem(me)s. Anyone who considers themselves fem of center is encouraged to join us. We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home!
Pleasure is More Than PIV: Exploring Non-Penetrative Sex
The common narrative is that sex is penetrative (generally penis in vagina), but what if we told you there was a whole world of pleasure that didn't involve penetration? Well, there is! Join Javay da BAE for a deep dive into non-penetrative sex and how truly amazing it can be.
Service and Submission as a Lifestyle
Do you want to make service more of a lifestyle? Whether you are brand new and asking yourself "is service for me?" or a hardened lifestyler looking for tips to expand and perfect your service, this class with seasoned kinkster lily will help you look at new and unique ways to serve.
Slow Burn Burlesque
Feel your sensual power and mesmerize your audience of one or many, with tantalizing Slow Burn Burlesque. High Priestess of Tease Eva D'Luscious will guide you through exercises to find joy in your body, slinky moves to express yourself, and the 4Ps of Striptease — so you can take it off with ease.
Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal and External Pleasure
In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection, as well as how to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. This class is for anyone with a penis or prostate, or who likes playing with them!
Love Hurts… but Sex Doesn’t Have To!
Any form of unwanted pain during or after sex can be challenging, and it impact our enjoyment and pleasure. Pain can run the spectrum from acute to chronic, localized to referred, and everything in between. Come join pelvic health specialist Essie Neeway as she talks all things 'sex pain relief.'
Five Ways To Say No
In the sex-positive community, we say "if it isn't a hell yes, it's a hell no!" That's great in theory, but what happens when someone is looking at you expectantly and waiting for an answer to their proposition? In this class with Leah Carey, we'll practice saying a confident "no."
How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Luna Matatas is here to help!
Talk Dirty To Me: The Art of Being Foul and Sexy
Finding the right words in life can be difficult, and finding the right words in the bedroom can be even harder. But there is no need to be tongue tied! This workshop with Javay da BAE will help you get out of your head about dirty talking, give you tips and pointers on how to grow your filthy vocabulary, and teach you how to get creative on your own.
Kinky BIPOC Community Night at She Bop! (FREE in-person event)
Come celebrate Portland's kinky BIPOC community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for kinky Black, Indigenous, (and) People of Color! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and kinky goodies in our free raffle. Come for the community, leave with a full heart and some treats for the bedroom and beyond!