Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Enhancing Sexual Wellness with Crystal Eggs & Wands
In centuries past, jade eggs were used not only to increase sexual skill but also to enhance sexual potency and creative energies within the body. This could lead to more balanced physical, emotional and energetic health. Today, many people have heard of "yoni eggs," but they don't know where to begin with the how-to's of using them. If you are someone who is intrigued by this work, then join Andrea Thompson in this juicy class!
Doing It Differently: How Sex and Disability Really Feels with Andrew Gurza
Usually if we talk about sex and disability, we tend to focus on the mechanics of sex and disability. In this class, we will instead ask "How does sex and disability feel?" In doing so, we will uncover the emotional aspects of sex and disability that often go overlooked. Andrew will give tips and tricks on how to ask the question, how to confront sexual ableism, and how to have hot, disabled sex.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Exploring Fantasy!
Curious about role play, sex games, kink, threesomes, and more? Or maybe you're curious about what's out there, but you don't know where to start? In this 45-minute QUICKIE with Stella Harris, she'll talk about some of the most common fantasies you might want to try as well as working your way through exploration exercises to find ideas you didn't even know you had.
Trans Femme-Tastic!
This one goes out to all trans feminine folks, be they you and/or your sweetheart(s)! For far too long, the sexual experiences of trans women and AMAB nonbinary people have been represented as tragic and bleak, but this class is here to reinvigorate our collective curiosity! Join Aria Carpenter in a workshop that explores trans feminine wellness and pleasure, driven by personal and community-sourced knowledge.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Sex Work: Everything You’re Scared to Ask!
Where does the average person turn to learn about sex work? Here! Andre Shakti is a veteran sex worker who has successfully operated within a multitude of industry genres, including — but not limited to — stripping, professional domination, webcam modeling, and porn performance. In this class, Andre will facilitate a forum that acts as a safe space for ALL of your burning questions, no matter how "stupid" or "silly"!
Consent, Communication, and Negotiation
Join Caress and Andy Fitch for an introduction to the essential tools that keep intimate relationships and sexual adventures flourishing. They will cover a range of topics to expand understanding of consent and negotiation, including how to have clear-cut consent conversations without conflict, how to communicate your needs while respecting your partner's needs, and how to play to the edges without getting hurt.
Mixed Desire: What to Do When We Want Different Things
There is nothing more normal in a relationship than having different needs. Just because we love someone doesn't mean our desires will be the same! So why do we get so scared about having different desires when it comes to sex? Join certified holistic sex educator Tuck Malloy for an evening of exploration on desire and connection.
Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Tops & Dominants
Curious about BDSM? Are you just beginning to explore your top or dominant side? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. Auntie Midori will share with you practical tips, easy ways to get started, and how to avoid common mistakes.
Three (or More) Is Company
Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties. This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you're confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences.
Saucy Spring into Summer Choreography!
Bloom with the flowers! Strut into summer with a sweet and sassy routine in this 2-hour burlesque choreography workshop with Eva D'Luscious. We'll warm up with the bumps, grinds, shimmies, struts and specialty moves used for this routine — including tassel twirling — then link them together in a delicious routine accessible to new dancers.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Initiate Sex with Confidence!
Are you having the amount of sex that you desire? Does initiating sex feel easy and natural... or a little daunting? When your partner proposes sex, are you aroused... or uncomfortable? Jessie has tips and suggestions to help everyone get what they want!
Strap It To Me: Strap-On Sex for Everybody
Are you new to the world of strap-ons? Curious about pegging but not sure where to start? Looking to gain some extra cock-confidence while wearing a harness? In the market for a new strap-on but not sure which dildo would be the best choice? Join She Bop's very own Gretchen Leigh as they walk you through the ins and outs of strap-on sex!
Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Bottoms & Submissives
Are you beginning to explore bottoming or submission? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. She'll share with you practical tips and how to avoid common mistakes. She's prone to confess tales of her spectacular goofy bloopers too.
Making Open Relationships Work
How do people create nontraditional partnerships that are loving and satisfying? In this class, Tristan Taormino will share some of the key principles that can help your open relationship(s) succeed. She'll discuss common issues and problems — from "new relationship energy" and time management to jealousy, power dynamics, and agreement violations — and ways to address and work toward resolving them.
Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink
In these quarantine times, there's no better kink than psychological play. A little story-telling, a little tease and denial, maybe some humiliation and objectification, and a whole lot of consent, and you have an amazing weekend. Join Caress and Andy Fitch for a not-so-gentle introduction to the world of Psychological Kink.
Sex & Dating With STIs
Pleasure doesn't have to end with an STI diagnosis! Tiffany Lashai Curtis will cover topics like disclosure & communication, sexual safe care, advocating for yourself during STI testing, and ways to engage in nonsexual intimacy and sexual intimacy that decenters the genitals. You'll leave the class feeling affirmed in your right to pleasure as an STI+ person, gain some tools to begin tackling internalized stigma/shame, and some tips for navigating dating!
Kiss My Sass: Sensual & Kinky Ass Worship
Rear ends are the great human equalizer: just about everybody's got one! There are so many great workshops on how to play with the inside of the ass, or how to enjoy a nice rough spanking. What about those of us who love to caress a fine posterior, or bury our faces in the booty of someone we adore? How can butt love involve pleasure, pain, power, penetration, or all of the above? Join Tina Horn, a sex writer who specializes in all things ass, for a one-of-a-kind class.
Heavy Impact and Rough Body Play
If you've been in the kink lifestyle for awhile, you've probably seen some hot scenes in the dungeon where someone is taking a serious beating. In this class, Miss Mackenzee will go over all kinds of impact implements, where on the body to hit, and how hard. You'll learn how to use tempo and rhythm, how to properly warm your bottom up, how to negotiate, and much more!
Face Sitting Skills with Luna Matatas!
Do you think face sitting is hot but are worried about squishing someone's face? Are you hungry to be on the bottom but don't know what to do with your arms? Want to hop on and ride but your knees say "nope!"'? Face sitting is hot for a lot of reasons and challenging for a lot of reasons. Let Luna Matatas guide you!
Perimenopause, Menopause, and Pleasure with Tristan Taormino
If you've got ovaries, you will experience perimenopause and menopause, two phases of life that come with physical and emotional changes that many people experience without much knowledge or support. Let's talk about how these 'pauses' affect our self-image, sex drive, desires, intimacy, and relationships. Tristan Taormino will discuss coping strategies, Western and alternative treatments, and creating your own holistic care plan. We absolutely can reclaim our bodies and our pleasure!
How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups
Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how to reframe breakups to be loving, supportive, and kind.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Get Your Libido Back!
Are you wondering what happened to that sexy, sultry part of yourself that seems to have vanished? Let's get this situation improved ASAP in this Sex Ed QUICKIE. This QUICKIE with Jessie Fresh is designed to reignite your sexual excitement and put you back in the pleasure groove.
How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Want to learn communication, sensuality and erotic creativity in going down on someone?
Finding Your Inner Goddess
Whether you want to awaken your sexuality or be more in tune with the confident feminine energy within, this class is for you. Miss Mackenzee will help you to feel more comfortable in your skin and love who you are. Be the unapologetic goddess you were born to be. All genders are welcome, as well as folks wanting to build up their partners and support them in their journeys.
Anal Pleasure 201
So, you've got the basics of the butt down. Are you ready to take the next step in anal pleasure? In this next-level class, ass expert Tristan Taormino will discuss many advanced topics, including: the ins and outs of anal penetration; pros and cons of different positions; orgasms through anal penetration; extended butt plug wearing; pegging/strap-on anal sex; advanced anal toys; and anal fisting. Plus, there will be an extensive Q&A!
BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop
Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover's mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!
DIY Porn: Naked Selfies to Naughty Sex Tapes
Nowadays, everyone has a porn-making machine in their pockets. Join Tina Horn, queer pornographer and author, for a deep dive into the possibilities of DIY porn-making. We'll cover techniques for everything from Skype sex to selfie flirting to making money as an amateur porn star, as well as essential tips for protecting your privacy. This fun class will help you to reinvent yourself as a sexy superstar!
Modern Dating: A Safe, Practical, and Fun Approach
Maybe you're getting back into the dating game after a long break, or maybe dating has always seemed tricky — this class will give you the knowledge and tools to dive in! Stella Harris will talk about how to write a compelling profile and present yourself in a flattering (and honest!) way, as well as ways to stay safe when meeting someone and how to assess your risk tolerance in regards to COVID-19.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!
Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. Getting stuck in your head can become the invisible barrier that keeps you from being fully enraptured and in the moment. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you.