Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: All About Aftercare!
Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another's psychological, emotional, or physical needs. This 45-minute QUICKIE will be an in-depth exploration of what happens inside our brains during a kink scene, and how that contributes to our need for aftercare.
Sex-Positive Parenting: Talking to Kids About Sex, Bodies, & Relationships
Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need to go beyond "the talk," but just aren’t sure what kids need to know when, or exactly how to go about telling them? In this class, you’ll build knowledge and skills that will help you talk about sexuality with the littles in your life with ease and confidence.
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Eliminating People Pleasing
Most people want to give sexual satisfaction... but there's a difference between giving and giving to deny your own needs. In this 45-minute QUICKIE class, we will get you past people-pleasing to better reach the full enjoyment of your sex life.
Banish Bedroom Boredom with Luna Matatas!
Get creative, get sensual, get down! Banish boredom and bring creativity into the bedroom with tips and techniques to spice up your sex life from Luna Matatas. From roleplay to dirty talk to sex toys – the possibilities are endless for keeping it fresh and hot in bed.
Sex Magic with Davia Frost
Sex Magic is about activating the powerful, sensual and erotic force within you that will allow you to create the mind-blowing sex life, the deeply intimate connections, and the overall fulfilling lifestyle you dream of. So if you are craving more sensation and spirituality in your lovemaking and are curious about Tantra, this is the class for you.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Art of Dirty Talk
Are you a little shy when it comes to expressing yourself in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re good in bed, but you want to bring your sexual life to new level? Whatever it is, this workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will help you to speak up in bed, as well as get you and your partner to a more sexually arousing state.
How To Eat Pussy Like a Champ with Luna Matatas!
It's time to upgrade your cunnilingus skills! Do you want to learn techniques to give better oral sex to your partners? Are you curious about how to give more pleasure through squirting, fingering and multiple orgasms? Want to learn communication, sensuality and erotic creativity in going down on someone?
The Mystery Box Show — Valentine’s Day Livestream
(This event is not hosted by She Bop) Join The Mystery Box Show for a Valentine's Evening full of true sex stories, live confessions, and sexy giveaways. Storytellers share their true sexual experiences, offering a glimpse into one of the most basic human drives that connects us all.
Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink
In these quarantine times, there's no better kink than psychological play. A little story-telling, a little tease and denial, maybe some humiliation and objectification, and a whole lot of consent, and you have an amazing weekend. Join Caress and Andy Fitch for a not-so-gentle introduction to the world of Psychological Kink.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!
Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be the biggest turn on of all. In this 45-minute QUICKIE, you'll get comfortable finding your voice.
Sensual Touch as Self-Care for All Vulva-Havers
Your body needs and deserves touch that isn't goal oriented! It's your right as a sexual being to receive that physical love, and the best giver is YOU! Let's energetically and physically clear some of the stagnant energy in our sexual centers while utilizing self-pleasure as the main tool. Participants will learn techniques and tips on how to connect to their body in deeply honoring and pleasurable ways.
Carnal Creativity!
They say your biggest and best sex organ lives right between your ears; it's time to put that beautiful brain to use and start having the sex of your dreams! Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Fest winners, Amory Jane and Gretchen Leigh, for a fun and interactive evening of sexploration.
Keeping the Spark Alive for Long-Lasting Relationships
Learn techniques and strategies that help keep the “spark'' alive in long-term relationships. While bringing your partner flowers or cooking them a special dinner from time to time can be a wonderful treat or surprise, there is much more we can learn to do to truly fan the flames of our relationship!
Exploring Gender Identity: How Sensuality and Sex can Affirm and Expand Gender Identity
How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as part of your sensual and sexual worlds.
BOOK RELEASE PARTY: The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes!
From sexuality and relationships expert Stella Harris comes her second contribution to Cleis Press, The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes! Join She Bop in virtually celebrating the release of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes with a book reading, threesome Q&A, and meet and greet with the author!
The Mystery Box Show — Sex*People: A Sex Talk Livestream
(This event is not hosted by She Bop) Join the Mystery Box Show for a discussion of sex, sexuality, and get your questions answered by panelists. Topics will include self-confidence in the bedroom and the kink advice you would have told your younger self.
Give ‘Em A Hand: Fisting, Fingering, & Sensual Touch
Hands can offer diverse and unique sensations unlike any other sex toy or body part, yet we often hear about manual stimulation being rushed through or skipped over completely to get to other sex acts. In this class, sex educators and hand sex pros Stella Harris and Gretchen Leigh invite you to slow down and discover the many wonders of your hands!
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Building Your Love List
Whether you are having trouble in your relationships, you're ready to take on another partner, or your ideal person hasn't come to you yet, this QUICKIE from Marla Renee Stewart is designed to help you figure out what's most important in developing a lasting long-term relationship. Get ready to work emotionally and logically to manifest the love you desire by creating a love list that works!
Erotica Writing 101
In this virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives. This workshop was designed for beginners to erotic writing, although those at any level may participate.
All About Daddy Roleplay with Luna Matatas!
Daddy roleplay can be misunderstood, and some people who are into it can feel shame because they think it's wrong or they'll be judged. The reality is kinky play is usually about roleplay, erotic creativity and sometimes costumes, power, sensuality and connection. Join Luna Matatas and learn to build these skills with knowledge, practice and communication.
Sex & Sensuality for the Super-Sensitive
Everyone has a unique route to pleasure... and that route can feel even more unique for highly sensitive people and empaths. This class with Jessie Fresh will help you understand your needs and desires while having a highly sensitive nervous system — so your pleasure and turn-on is more easily accessed, shared, and enjoyed.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond with Eva D’Luscious
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self-doubt at the door and let your inner showgirl shine in this body-positive burlesque class guaranteed to put a smile on your face and a wiggle in your walk! Eva utilizes her lifelong dance and fitness training to connect you with your body and provide a solid foundation to move safely with confidence.
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Plus Size Sexy Skills with Luna Matatas!
Do you want to feel sexier in the skin you're in? Body shame can create barriers to pleasure in the bedroom. Set that shame free and make room for more pleasure with Luna Matatas in this workshop. We’ll cover topics like navigating body shame during sex, dating and body acceptance, sex toys and size, positions for plus size bodies and more!
Talking with Kids About Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity
How do we make sure our homes, classrooms, and groups are safe, welcoming, and inclusive of queer youth? In this workshop for parents, caregivers, and youth-serving professionals, you’ll learn the latest vocabulary, skills to help you be a good ally, and approaches to common questions and dilemmas.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Kinky Cannabis!
Amory Jane is not shy about sharing her love of combining kink, sex and cannabis, but sometimes she's gotten backlash. People ask: "can stoned sex be consensual?" How is it possible to safely play rough, explore BDSM or get your kink on when weed is involved? Well, that is exactly what this class will cover... and much more!
The More, the Merrier: A Road Map to Ethical Non-Monogamy
The biggest roadblock to exploring ethical non-monogamy is FEAR. Whatever YOUR fear, Andre Shakti wants to help you acknowledge it, then eradicate it. This workshop is geared towards those who are in the initial stages of considering stepping outside of a monogamous framework. Bring your concerns, your compassion, and most importantly, your CURIOSITY!