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    Oxytocin, The Love Drug: Cultivating Biochemical Bliss in Birth, Orgasm, & Intimacy

    Wednesday, January 14th — 7:30 pm — $20 The environmental, emotional, and physical factors that create the circumstances in which a person can surrender their ego and intellectual identity to enjoy an ecstatic orgasm also facilitate ecstatic empowered natural birth. The release of intellectual and ego identity, feelings of safety, intimacy, and surrender…

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    Good in Bed/Good in Birth: Science and Celebration of Oxytocin

    Sunday, June 1st — 7:30 p.m. — $15 Did you know the act of giving birth naturally is the height of the human body’s ability to release ecstasy inducing levels of the “love hormone” oxytocin? Orgasm is a step below birth on the spectrum of human experiences that release this amazing hormone. The…

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She Bop is a women-owned sex toy boutique in Portland, Oregon specializing in body safe products and education. Our mission is to promote healthy and safe sexuality by offering quality products and educational workshops in a fun and comfortable environment. This is our blog!

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S3x education rarely addresses queer s3x, and that S3x education rarely addresses queer s3x, and that leaves people trying to figure it out on their own. πŸ€”β“ In this class, Stella Harris will break down s3xual risks based on body parts and acts, rather than gender or identity, covering everything you need to know to have a comprehensive safer s3x negotiation. πŸ‘ Click the link in our bio to sign up!

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To continue with the Masturbation May fun, let's t To continue with the Masturbation May fun, let's talk about solo sensation play! πŸ˜‰ Sensation play intentionally engages the senses. It may include taste, scent, sound, pressure, pain, softness, sensory deprivation, and/or temperature. πŸ‘…πŸ•―οΈπŸŽ§πŸ”₯🧊 It's all about exploration and sensual pleasure, rather than being orgasm-oriented. Swipe through for ideas on getting in touch with yourself through sensation play! πŸ‘‰ 

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Check out what's new in the shop from Fun Factory: Check out what's new in the shop from Fun Factory: Vim and Stronic Petite! For all the wand enthusiasts, you HAVE TO try the Vim.πŸ’« This revamped version of the classic wand-style vibrator is 32% lighter and contains an industry-first weighted motor that delivers rumbly vibration at any speed. 😱 The vibrations are contained to its flexible head, so no more numb hands. We can't talk this up enough. πŸ§‘πŸ’™ Or, are you Interested in trying one of Fun Factory's unique Stronic toys? Get a Stronic Petite for lightweight, gentle thrusting in a smaller form. πŸ’œ Find these in the shops.

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Come celebrate community and sex positivity with u Come celebrate community and sex positivity with us at our Juneteenth pre-party! This is a FREE, private event by and for Black folks! πŸ€ŽπŸ–€

We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and kinky goodies in our free raffle. πŸŽŸοΈπŸ›οΈ Attendees must be 18 years old or older. Come for the community, and leave with a full heart and some treats for the bedroom and beyond! πŸ€— RSVP for free on our website.

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Whether it's in the context of straight or queer s Whether it's in the context of straight or queer sex, butt stuff is frequently shamed and looked down upon in the media. β˜οΈπŸ‘ But hiding past all the shame are many delightful pathways to pleasure. Cum join Aeryn Ayla as we enter the back door and learn all about anal! 😘 Click the link in our bio to sign up!

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Happy Mother’s Day to the mamas on Team Bop πŸ’• Happy Mother’s Day to the mamas on Team Bop πŸ’• And also please join us in welcoming the latest addition to our team: Jae, She Bop's new General Manager! Swipe through to learn a little more about both these awesome mothers.

Jae (she/they) is a mother of two, ages 12 and 10, and the owner of a Surrogacy Agency. Over the past 7 years, she has been the Gestational Carrier to 4 other babies for 3 loving families. 

AJ (she/they) is the mom of a young kiddo after a 5-year journey with infertility. In addition to being our Director of Communications, AJ is soon to be one of the first legal πŸ„ facilitators in the country.

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Happy Masturbation May! πŸ’œ Let's start things of Happy Masturbation May! πŸ’œ Let's start things off by talking about an important topic: difficulties with intimacy. Swipe through to read about how to find healing through self-touch. πŸ‘‰

CW: Brief mention of SA (s3xual @ssault)

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Ready to explore your dominant side? 🀨 How do y Ready to explore your dominant side? 🀨 How do you build a BDSM scene? This workshop is for anyone interested in learning techniques and skills to build feminine dominance skills. πŸ’‹ Bring your curiosity and femdom fantasies to this She Bop Workshop with Luna Matatas. πŸ’ Click the link in our bio to sign up.

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Spring into self-care with vaginal wellness and bo Spring into self-care with vaginal wellness and body products! 🌼 Seasonal changes can affect your pH, but we have the perfect products to get you balanced. 🐚 Try Quim's Happy Clam, an everyday oil, to keep your vulva healthy and moisturized with its soothing natural oils. Refresh your bits with the Body Wipes by Dame before/after sex, a workout, or a trip to the bathroom. 😌 Struggling with razor burn or in-grown hairs? Use Coochy Cream for a smooth shave, every time (if shaving is your thing). πŸ˜‰πŸͺ’ 

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Do you struggle with creating role play characters Do you struggle with creating role play characters? Are you intimidated by the idea of "being someone else" in the bedroom? 🫣 Let Javay da BAE help you step into your inner theater kid and experience the wonderful, creative world of role playing! 🎭 Click the link in our bio to sign up. πŸ’œ

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Have you seen the newest addition to the Dame fami Have you seen the newest addition to the Dame family? πŸ‘€ It's called Dip! With its sleek and simple design, the Dip is designed to be an approachable vibe. πŸ€— This toy is waterproof and can be used both internally and externally. Did we mention it's only $35? πŸ˜±πŸ’° Hurry on over to our site or come by in stores to snag this fun and inexpensive vibe.

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May is here and we have a great line-up of class o May is here and we have a great line-up of class options for you! 🌼 From vaginal wellness to fetishes, from femdom to roleplaying, and of course, good ol' anal play- there's a class for everyone. πŸ‘ Visit our website to sign up. And don't forget, we offer ASL interpretation at request and two free sign-ups for those in financial need for every class. πŸ€— 

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