Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Erotica Writing 101
In this virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing. Learn how to get started, develop your voice, easily find story ideas, pen sex scenes, and write from a wide range of perspectives. This workshop was designed for beginners to erotic writing, although those at any level may participate.
All About Daddy Roleplay with Luna Matatas!
Daddy roleplay can be misunderstood, and some people who are into it can feel shame because they think it's wrong or they'll be judged. The reality is kinky play is usually about roleplay, erotic creativity and sometimes costumes, power, sensuality and connection. Join Luna Matatas and learn to build these skills with knowledge, practice and communication.
Sex & Sensuality for the Super-Sensitive
Everyone has a unique route to pleasure... and that route can feel even more unique for highly sensitive people and empaths. This class with Jessie Fresh will help you understand your needs and desires while having a highly sensitive nervous system — so your pleasure and turn-on is more easily accessed, shared, and enjoyed.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond with Eva D’Luscious
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self-doubt at the door and let your inner showgirl shine in this body-positive burlesque class guaranteed to put a smile on your face and a wiggle in your walk! Eva utilizes her lifelong dance and fitness training to connect you with your body and provide a solid foundation to move safely with confidence.
Wet & Wild: G-Spot and Squirting Orgasms
Ancient societies called it Amrita, the nectar of the gods. Pop culture regularly debates whether it's urine. Whichever camp you fall in, squirting is a hot topic. In this class, Stella Harris will cover internal and external anatomy with special emphasis on what is commonly known as the G-spot — but is becoming better understood as the clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex.
Plus Size Sexy Skills with Luna Matatas!
Do you want to feel sexier in the skin you're in? Body shame can create barriers to pleasure in the bedroom. Set that shame free and make room for more pleasure with Luna Matatas in this workshop. We’ll cover topics like navigating body shame during sex, dating and body acceptance, sex toys and size, positions for plus size bodies and more!
Talking with Kids About Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity
How do we make sure our homes, classrooms, and groups are safe, welcoming, and inclusive of queer youth? In this workshop for parents, caregivers, and youth-serving professionals, you’ll learn the latest vocabulary, skills to help you be a good ally, and approaches to common questions and dilemmas.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Kinky Cannabis!
Amory Jane is not shy about sharing her love of combining kink, sex and cannabis, but sometimes she's gotten backlash. People ask: "can stoned sex be consensual?" How is it possible to safely play rough, explore BDSM or get your kink on when weed is involved? Well, that is exactly what this class will cover... and much more!
The More, the Merrier: A Road Map to Ethical Non-Monogamy
The biggest roadblock to exploring ethical non-monogamy is FEAR. Whatever YOUR fear, Andre Shakti wants to help you acknowledge it, then eradicate it. This workshop is geared towards those who are in the initial stages of considering stepping outside of a monogamous framework. Bring your concerns, your compassion, and most importantly, your CURIOSITY!
Enhancing Sexual Wellness with Crystal Eggs & Wands
In centuries past, jade eggs were used not only to increase sexual skill but also to enhance sexual potency and creative energies within the body. This could lead to more balanced physical, emotional and energetic health. Today, many people have heard of "yoni eggs," but they don't know where to begin with the how-to's of using them. If you are someone who is intrigued by this work, then join Andrea Thompson in this juicy class!
Doing It Differently: How Sex and Disability Really Feels with Andrew Gurza
Usually if we talk about sex and disability, we tend to focus on the mechanics of sex and disability. In this class, we will instead ask "How does sex and disability feel?" In doing so, we will uncover the emotional aspects of sex and disability that often go overlooked. Andrew will give tips and tricks on how to ask the question, how to confront sexual ableism, and how to have hot, disabled sex.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Exploring Fantasy!
Curious about role play, sex games, kink, threesomes, and more? Or maybe you're curious about what's out there, but you don't know where to start? In this 45-minute QUICKIE with Stella Harris, she'll talk about some of the most common fantasies you might want to try as well as working your way through exploration exercises to find ideas you didn't even know you had.
Trans Femme-Tastic!
This one goes out to all trans feminine folks, be they you and/or your sweetheart(s)! For far too long, the sexual experiences of trans women and AMAB nonbinary people have been represented as tragic and bleak, but this class is here to reinvigorate our collective curiosity! Join Aria Carpenter in a workshop that explores trans feminine wellness and pleasure, driven by personal and community-sourced knowledge.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Sex Work: Everything You’re Scared to Ask!
Where does the average person turn to learn about sex work? Here! Andre Shakti is a veteran sex worker who has successfully operated within a multitude of industry genres, including — but not limited to — stripping, professional domination, webcam modeling, and porn performance. In this class, Andre will facilitate a forum that acts as a safe space for ALL of your burning questions, no matter how "stupid" or "silly"!
Consent, Communication, and Negotiation
Join Caress and Andy Fitch for an introduction to the essential tools that keep intimate relationships and sexual adventures flourishing. They will cover a range of topics to expand understanding of consent and negotiation, including how to have clear-cut consent conversations without conflict, how to communicate your needs while respecting your partner's needs, and how to play to the edges without getting hurt.
Mixed Desire: What to Do When We Want Different Things
There is nothing more normal in a relationship than having different needs. Just because we love someone doesn't mean our desires will be the same! So why do we get so scared about having different desires when it comes to sex? Join certified holistic sex educator Tuck Malloy for an evening of exploration on desire and connection.
Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Tops & Dominants
Curious about BDSM? Are you just beginning to explore your top or dominant side? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. Auntie Midori will share with you practical tips, easy ways to get started, and how to avoid common mistakes.
Three (or More) Is Company
Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties. This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you're confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences.
Saucy Spring into Summer Choreography!
Bloom with the flowers! Strut into summer with a sweet and sassy routine in this 2-hour burlesque choreography workshop with Eva D'Luscious. We'll warm up with the bumps, grinds, shimmies, struts and specialty moves used for this routine — including tassel twirling — then link them together in a delicious routine accessible to new dancers.
Sex Ed QUICKIE: Initiate Sex with Confidence!
Are you having the amount of sex that you desire? Does initiating sex feel easy and natural... or a little daunting? When your partner proposes sex, are you aroused... or uncomfortable? Jessie has tips and suggestions to help everyone get what they want!
Strap It To Me: Strap-On Sex for Everybody
Are you new to the world of strap-ons? Curious about pegging but not sure where to start? Looking to gain some extra cock-confidence while wearing a harness? In the market for a new strap-on but not sure which dildo would be the best choice? Join She Bop's very own Gretchen Leigh as they walk you through the ins and outs of strap-on sex!
Auntie Midori’s Practical Advice: For New Bottoms & Submissives
Are you beginning to explore bottoming or submission? Do you find all the information out there a bit intimidating, confusing or impractical? Bring all your questions and Midori will tackle them. No BS — all practical. She'll share with you practical tips and how to avoid common mistakes. She's prone to confess tales of her spectacular goofy bloopers too.
Making Open Relationships Work
How do people create nontraditional partnerships that are loving and satisfying? In this class, Tristan Taormino will share some of the key principles that can help your open relationship(s) succeed. She'll discuss common issues and problems — from "new relationship energy" and time management to jealousy, power dynamics, and agreement violations — and ways to address and work toward resolving them.
Mind F*cking 101: An Intro to Psychological Kink
In these quarantine times, there's no better kink than psychological play. A little story-telling, a little tease and denial, maybe some humiliation and objectification, and a whole lot of consent, and you have an amazing weekend. Join Caress and Andy Fitch for a not-so-gentle introduction to the world of Psychological Kink.
Sex & Dating With STIs
Pleasure doesn't have to end with an STI diagnosis! Tiffany Lashai Curtis will cover topics like disclosure & communication, sexual safe care, advocating for yourself during STI testing, and ways to engage in nonsexual intimacy and sexual intimacy that decenters the genitals. You'll leave the class feeling affirmed in your right to pleasure as an STI+ person, gain some tools to begin tackling internalized stigma/shame, and some tips for navigating dating!
Kiss My Sass: Sensual & Kinky Ass Worship
Rear ends are the great human equalizer: just about everybody's got one! There are so many great workshops on how to play with the inside of the ass, or how to enjoy a nice rough spanking. What about those of us who love to caress a fine posterior, or bury our faces in the booty of someone we adore? How can butt love involve pleasure, pain, power, penetration, or all of the above? Join Tina Horn, a sex writer who specializes in all things ass, for a one-of-a-kind class.
Heavy Impact and Rough Body Play
If you've been in the kink lifestyle for awhile, you've probably seen some hot scenes in the dungeon where someone is taking a serious beating. In this class, Miss Mackenzee will go over all kinds of impact implements, where on the body to hit, and how hard. You'll learn how to use tempo and rhythm, how to properly warm your bottom up, how to negotiate, and much more!
Perimenopause, Menopause, and Pleasure with Tristan Taormino
If you've got ovaries, you will experience perimenopause and menopause, two phases of life that come with physical and emotional changes that many people experience without much knowledge or support. Let's talk about how these 'pauses' affect our self-image, sex drive, desires, intimacy, and relationships. Tristan Taormino will discuss coping strategies, Western and alternative treatments, and creating your own holistic care plan. We absolutely can reclaim our bodies and our pleasure!
How to Break Up: The Expert Guide to Loving Breakups
Breaking up is hard to do. Breakups can cause as much emotional grief as losing a loved one, because often, that's exactly what happens. But breaking up doesn't have to destroy us; it can be a powerful transformation and an affirmation of love and connection. In this class, Tuck Malloy will explore how to reframe breakups to be loving, supportive, and kind.