Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Getting Freaky in the Spreadsheets: Consent, Negotiations, & Neurodiversity
October 8 @ 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm PDT
This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to start time. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific. No day-of cancellations.
Delve into the world of BDSM negotiations through a neurodiversity lens, exploring the unique challenges and opportunities in play and dynamics. Learn to create more accessible and fulfilling experiences by adapting negotiation processes to support neurodivergent individuals and their partners. This inclusive session shares practical tips for accommodating diverse communication styles, recognizing non-verbal cues, and supporting neurodivergent partners in scenes and negotiations.
Join us for ‘Getting Freaky in the Spreadsheets,’ a workshop designed to deepen understanding of neurodiversity in BDSM, fostering environments that celebrate diversity and enhance the kink experience with mindfulness and respect. This workshop is a safe space for individuals of all backgrounds to explore the intersection of neurodivergence and BDSM, encouraging open dialogue and understanding. Participants will gain practical skills for navigating neurodiversity in their kink relationships, fostering inclusivity, and creating more fulfilling experiences for all involved.
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky and polyamorous marketing professional turned Board-certified sexologist, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, professional speaker, coach, and Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) consultant. She is a graduate of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University’s Human Sexuality Intensive program, and is certified by Johns Hopkins University in psychological first aid. Her work focuses on the intersectionality of marginalized identities, alternative sexuality, and social justice. Informed by her personal and professional experiences, she provides BDSM and nonmonogamy cultural competency consulting for clinical, academic, and research settings, and facilitates workshops on sexuality justice and inclusion. Her expertise has been featured in several publications including Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Kinkly, Men’s Health, and in LiveJasmin’s ‘Life in Red’ docu-series.
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We’re offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm.