• Sensual Touch as Self-Care for ALL Vulva-Havers

    Your body needs and deserves touch that isn't goal oriented! It's your right as a sexual being to receive that physical love, and the best giver is YOU! Let's energetically and physically clear some of the stagnant energy in our sexual centers while utilizing self-pleasure as the main tool. Participants will learn techniques…

  • Masturbation as Self-Love & Self-Care

    What would it look like if we treated ourselves like our most cherished partner? Stella Harris will discuss touch techniques and the ways our bodies can experience pleasure. We will consider making pleasure a ritual, learn genital massage techniques, and embrace masturbation as a healthy, loving practice.

  • Guides

    8 Common Masturbation Myths — Debunked!

    May is National Masturbation Month! In years past we’ve talked about the benefits of masturbation, switching up your routine, and how to get comfortable with masturbation. This year, we wanted to cover masturbation myths. We all know by now that masturbation isn’t going to give you hairy palms or cause blindness, but there are…

  • Musings

    Re-learning orgasm

    Headlines are funny sometimes. “A Trans Woman Learns To Masturbate” is the title the piece was given on Eros Media, yet such a statement ignores the unique, languid writing style of author Jetta Rae. It also simplifies the myriad issues Rae explores — beyond just masturbation, beyond just being trans. Rae begins by addressing the societal…

  • Events

    Mutual Masturbation: Give Yourself a Hand!

    Sunday, October 12th — 7:30 p.m. — $20 Casual or long-term relationships of all kinds can benefit from new skills or from re-framing old ones. In this class, Elle Chase will talk about how solo and partnered play is an erotic activity that’s not only smokin’ hot, but can intimately connect you with your partner,…

  • Guides

    How to become comfortable with masturbation

    May is Masturbation Month, which always gets us thinking about how we can help folks celebrate. In 2011, we listed the numerous ways masturbation is beneficial to your emotional and physical health. In 2012, we gave you some ideas for trying something new during your usual masturbation routine. This year, we’re going with a different approach.…

  • Musings

    Masturbation myths to blame for sex toy double standard

    Female masturbation and sex toy use have become more mainstream in the past few years, yet there is still a pretty pervasive stigma when it comes to a man using a sex toy for masturbation. This thoughtful article by feminist blogger and gender studies professor Hugo Schwyzer examines this sex toy double standard —…

  • Guides

    The benefits of masturbation

    Every month is Masturbation Month to us, but since it’s official in the month of May, we suggest you take some time for yourself and celebrate. The benefits of masturbation are numerous, and range from the physical to the emotional. Here are just a few reasons why masturbation rocks. It’s fun, and it…