She Bop’s Picks: Holiday Gifts!
Looking for the sweetest, sexiest gifts in town this holiday season? Look no further! Our gift guide has something for everyone: picks for friends, lovers, your sweet self, and even family friendly options! And if you need any more ideas, head on over to holiday guides from years past!
Looking for an effective, classy, rechargeable external vibrator at an affordable price? Who isn’t?! The flat shape of the Dame Pom makes it a great option for partner sex, clit stimulation, and/or to run up and down the shaft of a penis. The gentle, rumbly vibration of the lower settings is ideal for sensitive folks, and this li’l thing can be amped up to some more powerful vibes that will have your legs shaking! Holy versatility, batman!
Tenga Smart Vibe Ring
Interested in trying out a vibrating cock ring but unsure where to start? This rechargeable cock ring just might be the perfect fit! The elongated vibrator on the ring offers more surface area stimulation for a partner or the wearer. Or! You can flip the vibrator around for some added vibration against the balls and perineum. OR! Wear the ring around your fingers and use it like a regular external vibe! What can’t this thing do?
The Butters Oil-Based Lube
Oil-based lubricant is a luxurious and moisturizing option to keep things slick and slippery during play! The Butters has a thick consistency at first, but becomes smoother as it warms up with your body heat. This lube contains many beneficial ingredients like apple cider vinegar to balance pH and guar bean powder for a soft finish. Nourish, protect, and enjoy your’s or a lover’s body with this simple, but luxurious gift! A perfect stocking stuffer, just be sure not to use this lube with any latex barriers.
New York Toy Collective Jack
An amazing addition to the small body of toys that combine gender expression and play! The NYTC Jack is a silicone masturbation sleeve primarily designed for trans-masculine folks who have been taking testosterone. The squishy and flexible silicone of this toy offers a soft and textured sensation and visually functions as an extension of your body. Hot! Great to use on your own or with a partner, this toy also functions as a packer so you can transition from day to day life straight into a sexy time.
Looking for a versatile and powerful anal toy? The Vector is a high-powered butt toy with a deep, rumbly motor and a longer anal-safe base that can rest up against the perineum for added stimulation. What’s more, its medium size makes it an accessible option for folks newer to butt play as well as pros! This toy can also be used while wearing a strap-on harness — inserted vaginally with the external vibrating portion pressed against the clitoris.
Added bonus: this vibrator is one of the We-Vibe toys that is compatible with their app, We-Connect. Using a Bluetooth connection, you can control the toy from your phone. A great fit for long distance lovers, folks looking for a fun addition to power play, or those simply excited by using a visual app to control their toy.
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
This book is a must read if you are invested in social justice, activism, or simply orienting our lives towards feeling good. adrienne maree brown is a groundbreaking scholar and activist who writes on the politics of pleasure in our world. brown asks, how do make social activism an endeavor grounded in pleasure? And how can we orient ourselves towards the desire to live fulfilled, pleasurable lives? This book is the perfect choice for a book worm in your life who also nerds out on feeling good.
Sliquid Soak Bubble Bath
They say self-care is more than a bubble bath, but that doesn’t mean a bubble bath can’t work wonders for winter self-care! This gentle bath soak is full of moisturizing essential oils, mango and shea butters, and natural sea salt to nourish and soothe an aching winter body. Sliquid’s aromatic, foaming bath soap comes in two delicious scents: Green Tea and Coconut Papaya.
Heart Chakrub (Rose Quartz)
Throughout human history winter time has been a time to hibernate, heal, and reconnect to ourselves. Crystal dildos from Chakrubs can offer a spiritual and transformative addition to your sensual and sexual practice, making them the perfect aid during a season of sacred rejuvenation and healing.
The Heart Chakrubs are made from pure rose quartz, the crystal of unconditional love, peace, calmness, and healing. They come in a smaller size as well as larger size. This dildo is full of potential to help the user feel more open to truly receiving love, experiencing a deep sense of well-being, comfort and care, and dissolving past trauma, anger, and hurt.
Xaga Curve Chakrub (Obsidian)
The Xaga Curve dildo is made of black obsidian and features a rounded head and curved shaft ideal for G-spot stimulation. It may assist in absorbing negative energy, promoting grounded-ness for hard decisions, releasing past traumas and emotional challenges, and encouraging emotional clarity and stability, among so many other things. This dildo is a gift for the people in our lives who are seeking a spiritual addition to their sensual and sexual journey, and find comfort and ecstasy in a beautiful, sacred object.
Tenga Iroha Lipstick
Discreet, adorable, and functional, the Tenga Iroha Lipstick is a great first-time vibe and a perfect stocking stuffer! This battery-operated vibrator has a dial on the bottom to control the vibration, making it easy to use and not overcomplicated. The concave lipstick shape can be used for broader surface area stimulation or you can turn it to the side and use the ridge of the toy for a different feel. So many sensations to explore in this tiny pocket vibe!
Add some color, pizazz, and personality to any outfit with our sex-positive pins. Rep your strap-on pride with the Switch Leather Co. Strap-on Pin, indicate your pronouns with the NYTC Pronoun Pin, or stick to one of our delightful sex toy pins like the glittery Gem Butt Plug Pin or Rainbow Dildo Pin. Your friends will be awed by the sexy, bold energy these pins add to any look!