Lilithfoxx
Board-certified Sexologist. ABS, CSE
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous marketing professional turned Board-certified sexologist, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, professional speaker, coach, and consultant. She is a graduate of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University’s Human Sexuality Intensive program and is certified by Johns Hopkins University in psychological first aid. Her work focuses on the intersectionality of marginalized identities, alternative sexuality, and social justice. She provides BDSM and nonmonogamy cultural competency consulting for clinical, academic, and research settings and facilitates workshops on sexuality justice and inclusion. She also teaches classes on kink, nonmonogamy, and sexual communication, with a focus on accessibility and pleasure. Her expertise has been featured in many publications, including Cosmopolitan, Glamour, HuffPost, Kinkly, GQ, Men's Health, Playboy, and LiveJasmin's Life in Red docu-series.
Consent isn’t just a checkbox
It’s an ongoing conversation. Whether in sex or relationships, communication is everything. Get comfortable talking about desires, boundaries, and expectations. The more we normalize open, honest discussions, the better we get at building connections rooted in trust, pleasure, and mutual respect. Sexy, fulfilling experiences start with clear, enthusiastic consent.
Favorite Penis Toy
The We-Vibe Verge
This vibrating cock ring delivers deep, rumbly stimulation to the perineum while enhancing erections. It’s comfortable, versatile, & great solo or with a partner.
Favorite Anal Toy
The Secret Handshake Plug
It’s the perfect mix of comfort and style, with a smooth shape for easy wear and a gorgeous gemstone base that adds a little extra flair to your play.
Nightstand Essentials
This lubricant has an amazing osmolality level, meaning it’s body-safe and hydrating. Plus, it’s not sticky or smelly—super sensory-friendly and perfect for smooth, comfortable play.
If I could only keep one sex toy on my nightstand, it would be the Magic Wand Rechargeable. It’s powerful, reliable, and versatile—perfect for deep, rumbly stimulation without numbing. Plus, no cords = ultimate freedom!
This book by Mollena Williams-Haas and Lee Harrington is a must-read for navigating the kink scene. It’s welcoming and packed with practical advice on etiquette, consent, and community.