Amory Jane
Sex Educator & Coach, Licensed Psychedelic Facilitator (She/They)
Amory Jane (she/they) is a sex educator, coach, parent, and licensed psychedelic facilitator. She has taught hundreds of workshops across the country on intimacy, pleasure, communication, and kink and has been featured in Playboy, BBC, Fusion TV, and numerous podcasts and publications. She is also the muse behind Amory.Design, a small company specializing in handcrafted wooden furniture for discreet sex toy storage. AJ is a trailblazer in psilocybin-assisted therapy, offering legal magic mushroom journeys for individuals and couples, as well as curated events in Oregon to support personal growth, connection, and transformation. Through She Bop, she teaches lively, idea-filled workshops on fellatio, group sex, sensation play, and the intersection of altered states and pleasure. Her classes blend education, humor, and a strong emphasis on exploration and communication.
Attunement goes a long way
While new hand and mouth skills, toys, and tools can add fun and pleasure, what truly makes someone an amazing lover is attunement! Paying attention to your partner’s cues, adjusting in the moment, and fostering open communication create a deeper connection and satisfaction than any technique alone ever could.
Favorite Anal Toy
nJOY Pure Plugs
I absolutely love the njoy Pure Plugs. Made of durable stainless steel, they're easy to clean, great for exploring temperature play, and built to last. The design is genius— the large head, tapered stem, and comfy handle make them easy to insert and wear without discomfort. The weight gives a satisfying sense of fullness, and with sizes from small to large, there’s a perfect fit for everyone. Plus, they’re stunning and look impressive in any sex toy collection!
Fav Safer Sex Product
SKYN condoms
As someone with a latex allergy, finding the right condom was frustrating—until I discovered SKYN at She Bop. Made from polyisoprene, they’re latex-free, unscented, and just as affordable as standard condoms. Soft, stretchy, and barely noticeable, they move with you, not against you. They’re just as safe as latex condoms, with added lubrication for comfort. Whether or not you have an allergy, SKYN makes safer sex feel amazing—without compromise.
Nightstand Essentials
The We-Vibe Touch X is my go-to vibe. Its sleek, versatile design is perfect for solo play or using with a partner in various ways (e.g., fitting between bodies or adding vibration to oral). Small but powerful, its deep vibrations are incredibly effective. It’s easy to control, holds a charge well, and is waterproof, making it great for showers or quick cleaning. With 8 intensities, multiple patterns, and a travel lock, it’s always ready for fun—at home or on the go!
With sensitive skin and a microbiome easily thrown off balance, I’m selective about personal care products, especially lube. AH! YES WB has been a game-changer, particularly during pregnancy and breastfeeding when dryness and irritation were more common. It’s organic, water-based, pH-balanced, and free from parabens. The smooth texture mimics natural lubrication—no residue or tackiness. Unscented, unflavored, and with aloe to soothe delicate tissue, it's a great lube option for sensitive bodies!
This book doesn’t just make you think—it makes you feel. brown challenges the assumption that social justice must always be about struggle/sacrifice. Instead, she asks: What if fighting for a better world could also be deeply pleasurable? What if joy, connection, and desire were not indulgences but revolutionary forces? The author intertwines essays, conversations, and personal reflections, drawing on Black feminist wisdom to explore pleasure in various forms—sex, drugs, activism, healing, and community. She reminds us that pleasure isn’t a distraction from justice; it’s the fuel that sustains it.