Dirty Lola
Sex Educator and Dildo Slinger
Dirty Lola has been getting real about sex, polyamory, and kink for over a decade—and doing it with a microphone in one hand and a dildo in the other. She’s the brains and brilliance behind Sex Ed A Go-Go, Netflix Sexpert on The Principles of Pleasure, and your go-to when you want your sex ed served hot, honest, and a little hilarious. Lola’s made it her mission to smash stigma, spread joy, and help folks find their pleasure groove. She’s teamed up with brands like B-Vibe, Blush, and Womanizer, and has been spotted dropping knowledge on YouTube, HBO, and Vice. Through She Bop Lola has taught Finding Your Libido After Life Happens, Avoid The Icks, Find The Clicks, Between the Cheeks: A Guide to Anal Exploration, and Booty Meats Basics. Wherever there’s a conversation about pleasure that needs de-shaming, you’ll probably find her laughing loudly and passing out lube.
Enjoy the learning process.
Whatever skill you want to learn, practice you want to put into place or sexual goal you want to reach will require you to do a little home and a good bit of practice.
Book Recommendation
The Ethical Slut
Three words, The jealousy Chapter. It completely changed the way I think of jealousy, gave me the tools to work through my own and the resources to guide others.
Nightstand Essentials
Skyn condoms
I'm highly allergic to latex which means my barrier method choices are limited. Of the latex free condom options currently available Skyn condoms transfer heat in a way that really gives them that real feel quality.
Sliquid Sassy
It's not too thick and it's not thin. It's just right. It's a great all purpose lube.
Magic Wand Rechargable
I literally have my Magic Wand Rechargeable hanging from a hook on the side of my headboard. It has the power of the original with a few more settings and deliciously deep rumbly vibrations.