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      <image:title>Educators - Dirty Lola - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Dirty Lola - Skyn condoms</image:title>
      <image:caption>I'm highly allergic to latex which means my barrier method choices are limited. Of the latex free condom options currently available Skyn condoms transfer heat in a way that really gives them that real feel quality.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I literally have my Magic Wand Rechargeable hanging from a hook on the side of my headboard. It has the power of the original with a few more settings and deliciously deep rumbly vibrations.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Certified Intimacy Educator and Professional Coach</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Luna Matatas - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Luna Matatas - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Luna Matatas - PJUR LUBE</image:title>
      <image:caption>I love Pjur water-based and silicone. It's got a great texture, long lasting, and isn't sticky.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Luna Matatas - Womanizer Premium 2</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Luna Matatas - B-vibe triplet anal beads</image:title>
      <image:caption>It's great for beginners or for people who are re-introducing their holes to penetration. it stays in snug because of the shape of the base, and you can use it shallow or with it's full length.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - (She/Her)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Certified Intimacy Educator and Professional Coach</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Nitrile Gloves</image:title>
      <image:caption>They make it easy to transition from back hole to front hole without needing to wash hands or worry that bacteria will be introduced. They keep cuts from being irritated by fluids. The sound of them being snapped around a wrist is sexy AF and Pavlovian at this point. And they can be converted to a dental damn if needed.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Blossom Organics</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Jess DeVries - Hitachi Magic Wand</image:title>
      <image:caption>I know there are a lot of really nice benefits to the versions that are rechargeable and cordless, but my bad loves the corded one. I like the deep rumble and how it can quickly bring me to orgasm or I can take my time and draw out the pleasure. It's also so nice on my tight calves.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Certified Intimacy Educator and Professional Coach</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Amory Jane - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Amory Jane - WE-VIBE TOUCH X</image:title>
      <image:caption>The We-Vibe Touch X is my go-to vibe. Its sleek, versatile design is perfect for solo play or using with a partner in various ways (e.g., fitting between bodies or adding vibration to oral). Small but powerful, its deep vibrations are incredibly effective. It’s easy to control, holds a charge well, and is waterproof, making it great for showers or quick cleaning. With 8 intensities, multiple patterns, and a travel lock, it’s always ready for fun—at home or on the go!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Amory Jane - AH! YES Water-Based Lube</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Amory Jane - PLEASURE ACTIVISM</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book doesn’t just make you think—it makes you feel. brown challenges the assumption that social justice must always be about struggle/sacrifice. Instead, she asks: What if fighting for a better world could also be deeply pleasurable? What if joy, connection, and desire were not indulgences but revolutionary forces? The author intertwines essays, conversations, and personal reflections, drawing on Black feminist wisdom to explore pleasure in various forms—sex, drugs, activism, healing, and community. She reminds us that pleasure isn’t a distraction from justice; it’s the fuel that sustains it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Certified Intimacy Educator and Professional Coach</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Lilithfoxx - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Lilithfoxx - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Lilithfoxx - Good Clean Love</image:title>
      <image:caption>This lubricant has an amazing osmolality level, meaning it’s body-safe and hydrating. Plus, it’s not sticky or smelly—super sensory-friendly and perfect for smooth, comfortable play.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Lilithfoxx - Magic Wand rechargeable</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Lilithfoxx - Playing Well With Others</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book by Mollena Williams-Haas and Lee Harrington is a must-read for navigating the kink scene. It’s welcoming and packed with practical advice on etiquette, consent, and community.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Certified Intimacy Educator and Professional Coach</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Sliquid H20</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is my go-to lube. I love its body-safe ingredients. Sliquid H20 is water-based, so it's compatible with barrier products and toys.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Magic Wand rechargeable</image:title>
      <image:caption>Magic Wand I Love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's, in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration, or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feel, in the dark. And the rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (And if you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Educators - Stella Harris - Come As You Are</image:title>
      <image:caption>This book by Emily Nagoski does an amazing job of digging into the science of sex and intimacy, while using language that's accessible.</image:caption>
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