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STARS: Consent and Communication

STARS: Consent and Communication

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May 16, 2019

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She Bop is a women-owned sex toy boutique in Portland, Oregon specializing in body safe products and education. Our mission is to promote healthy and safe sexuality by offering quality products and educational workshops in a fun and comfortable environment. This is our blog!

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Queer s3x: trans pride edition!๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ Fl Queer s3x: trans pride edition!๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ Flaunt your flag colors with the sparklingly radiant Trans Pride Sparkle Plug from Crystal Delights.โœจ For our transfemme friends, treat yourself to the PalmPower wand. The ergonomic curve of this wand allows for ease and comfort for hands-free self-pleasuring. Deconstruct gender with this pocket-sized book by LGBTQIA+ rights advocate Alok Vaid-Menon. ๐Ÿ“– Transmascs', get a 2-in-1 toy stroker and packer with the NYTC Jack. โœŠ Wishing you all gender-affirming orgasms this pride and every month after.
Queer s3x: Bisexual pride edition!๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ For Queer s3x: Bisexual pride edition!๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ For the bi's, we gave you products for genital diversity. Starting with the Volta by Fun Factory - a unique vibe with fluttering tips to stimulate the clit, enhance blowjobs, nipple play, and more. ๐Ÿ† Looking to strap-on or peg your partner? Get the Tomboi by Spareparts. ๐Ÿฉฒ Great for all-day wear and packing too. Enhance s3xy times with Earthly Body's Love Button arousal balm. โšกApply to the clitoris, frenulum, or nipples for heightened sensitivity. And if all else fails, you can always rely on the Magic Wand, now in mini form. ๐Ÿช„ There is no right or wrong way to have s3x, as long as it's consensual! #sheboptheshop #queersexed #sexed #bi #bisexual #bipride
Let's talk queer s3x: gay men edition! ๐Ÿ‘จโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘จ Get the ultimate versatile massager: the We-Vibe Vector! The two motors stimulate both the prostate and perineum via remote or the app. It can also be adjusted for g-spot stim too.๐ŸŽฎ For anal or fisting experts, try the epic Fist Plug by Oxballs. ๐Ÿค› Enhance and prolong your play with c rings by Blush. This three pack comes with enough for everyone involved. ๐Ÿ˜ Looking to try ENM this summer? Check out Open Love: the complete guide to gay open relationships, polyamory and more. As always, there is no wrong way to have queer s3x, as long as it's consensual. ๐Ÿ’™ #sheboptheshop #pride #lgbtq #queersexed #sexed #prostate #gaymen #gaypride
Let's talk about queer s3x starting with some Lesb Let's talk about queer s3x starting with some Lesbian pride products! For harness-free play, try the Fuze Tango; a flexible dildo designed to be enjoyed equally by both the wearer and the receiver. ๐Ÿ˜ Measuring at 16.5" long, the Do Double dildo can pleasure two partners at both ends. Upgrade your scissoring with the We-Vibe Unite, a wearable clitoral vibe with remote control options. ๐Ÿ’œ Or enjoy some solo stimulation with Purple Panties, a collection of evocative lesbian erotica. Remember, there is no wrong-way to have s3x, as long as it's consensual. ๐Ÿค— #sheboptheshop #pride #pridemonth #lesbian #lesbianlove #queersexed #sexed #lgbtq
Gender transitioning is no easy feat. ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ Gender transitioning is no easy feat. ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ There are social, familial, community, medical, financial, and psychological factors to consider. But there is one factor not frequently discussed: the sexual component. ๐Ÿ˜˜ It is indeed possible to have an amazing sex life as a trans woman, but it requires essentially learning how to have sex all over again. Well, Miss V is here to help! ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ Click the link in our bio to sign up. #sheboptheshop #transisbeautiful #transpride #transwoman #transgirl #trans #sexed #transfemme
Check out this documentary, "Distance: S3x Work in Check out this documentary, "Distance: S3x Work in the Pandemic" filmed here locally in PDX by SW'ers! ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ๐ŸŽž๏ธ They are currently crowd-fundraising for post-production. Their aim is to humanize SW for a general audience by overcoming barriers of stigmatization, dismissal, and protectionism.๐Ÿ‘ Click the link in our bio to learn more and give them your support. #sheboptheshop #pdx #portlandor #decriminalizesexwork
Happy June and Happy Pride Month! ๐ŸŒˆ Though we c Happy June and Happy Pride Month! ๐ŸŒˆ Though we celebrate year-long here at She Bop, let's give some extra love to these queer-owned companies. ๐Ÿ’— Shop these amazing products made by LGBTQ+ community members in-stores or online. #sheboptheshop #queerowned #pridemonth #lgbtq #pride #numberonelaboratory
As we close out Masturbation Month, we'd like to s As we close out Masturbation Month, we'd like to send you off with a reminder that all bodies are deserving of pleasure! Get creative with your solo routine and switch up positions. Swipe through to see some of our suggestions. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ‘‰ #shebotheshop #masturbationmay #masturbationmay2022 #moreorgasms #betterorgasms #touchyourself #allbodiesaregoodbodies
Adventure season is here! โ˜€๏ธWe know you want t Adventure season is here! โ˜€๏ธWe know you want to take the good times with you, so here are our compact, travel-compatible recommendations. For vibrations, pack the Mini Halo Wand, Touch X by We-Vibe or Duet Flex by Crave which charges via usb port so you don't have to worry about forgetting a cord.๐Ÿ”Œ Grab Fleshlight's most compact masturbation sleeve: the Quickshot. Or for an all-in-one experience, Seagrape's Sexy Travel Kit comes with a small massage candle, edible honey dust, and more. ๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ And don't forget the lube! Many of your favorite water-based lubricants come in 2.0 oz. bottles perfect for carry-on bags or glamping getaways! โ›บ #sheboptheshop #travel #traveltips #betterorgasms
Did you know that oil and silicone based lubes can Did you know that oil and silicone based lubes can stain your sheets? ๐Ÿ˜ต Prep for s3xy time by laying down the Liberator Throw first, a water-proof blanket that's machine washable. Pictured here is the mini, but it also comes in king size! ๐Ÿ‘‘ Refresh afterwards with Dame's new aloe-infused Body Wipes.๐Ÿ’ฆ Safe to use on your body or your toys. Plus they are biodegradable.โ™ป๏ธ Snag these online or in shops. #sheboptheshop #masturbationmay #masturbationmay2022 #selfpleasure #aftercare #adultproducts
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprintโ„ข is? It's Do you know what your Erotic Blueprintโ„ข is? It's the unique map to your arousal! ๐Ÿ˜ There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. โžก๏ธ In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter. ๐ŸŒฟClick the link in our bio to sign up. #sheboptheshop #eroticblueprint #sensual #onlineclass #sexeducator #turnons
Check out the latest by We-Vibe! ๐Ÿ’œ A design we Check out the latest by We-Vibe! ๐Ÿ’œ A design we all know and love, the Unite is simplified from the app-controlled Chorus predecessor, for a more accessible price point at $99. Both partners will enjoy intense sensations that are remote-controlled.๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽฎ This dual stim vibrator is designed to be worn during penetrative s3x and is great for harness play too. ๐Ÿ† Find the Unite online or in our shops. #sheboptheshop #wevibe #couplesgifts #couplegoals #moreorgasms #betterorgams #spicethingsup
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