Our classes will be held online until further notice. Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. Please note: our classes are LIVE. Some classes are recorded and available to watch online for one week, based on educator discretion. Interested in a private group class? Email us at education@sheboptheshop.com and let’s talk!
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Workshops and Community Nights can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 1 week in advance by emailing us at events@sheboptheshop.com.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work through, from messages implying that wanting sex or pleasure is slutty (and that that's a bad thing) to ubiquitous sex tips that make it sound like we're supposed to read our partners' minds.
Evolving Your Period
Ah, a class about periods. I bet the last time you attended one of these (if ever...) you were a teenager, giggling or groaning as your PE teacher walked you through how to use a "sanitary" pad. There is so much more to learn! Registered nurse and sex educator Rae Higgins has created the period class that she wishes everyone had access to in, and after, their adolescence.
Kink 101
Kink and BDSM are all the rage these days — maybe you've seen something that caught your attention but you don't know where to start in real life. With a little bit of information and know-how from Stella Harris, you can start introducing kink into your own play right now!
Sexy Plus: Fostering Fat-Positive Sexuality
If you're a fabulous fat babe who wants to build a better relationship with your body and sexuality or someone who enjoys having sex with the curviest among us, this workshop is for you and anyone else who wants to become more body-positive and fat-positive in their approach to sex/sexuality.
Moving Through Healing After Trauma
How do you get back to pleasure after trauma? This class, taught by Angie Gunn, will be focused on perspectives of survivors from marginalized communities but we welcome all survivors to join us. This is not your regular 101 class on ways to move forward after your trauma. We will be working on building community and safety as we go on a journey together.
Supporting Survivors: From Ally to Accomplice
Learn to be a better ally and support sexual assault survivors! Taught by Jimanekia Eborn, this class is for survivors and their friends, families, and partners. Jimanekia is an assault survivor and sexuality educator devoted to supporting survivors, as well as supporting and building better allies within the community.
F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk
Amory Jane and Tuck Malloy present a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the things you've been dying to say, hear, and share.
Mapping the Vulva: Anatomy, Communication, Touch, & Pleasure
With vulvas being a place of mystery (and worse, a source of shame), our ability to receive pleasure from this area of the body can be extremely diminished. This class from Stella Harris will dispel misinformation and teach you all about the vulva — from anatomy to styles of touch.
Here, There, Everywhere: Navigating Long-Distance Relationships (AKA Surviving The Relationship Apocalypse)
Long-distance relationships can be difficult to manage, but they don’t have to be impossible! Join Dirty Lola as she discusses ways to create sustainable long-distance relationships with multiple partners. Learn how to stay connected, set realistic expectations, and manage conflict from a distance.
Seduce Your Lover!: Advanced Flirting Techniques
This highly interactive workshop from Marla Renee Stewart will teach you how to know if someone's interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power.
Build Your Sexual Confidence!
Do you feel like you are stuck in a rut? Have you had sexual issues with your past partners or current and potential partners? Are you open to learning new sexual ways of being? Whether you are in a relationship or not, Marla Renee Stewart will teach you various techniques to improve your confidence skills and the way that you move through the world.
Sex & Survivorship: Navigating Sex After Cancer
Cancer affects every aspect of a person’s life, including their sex life. If you have cancer, if someone you love has cancer, or if you are a cancer survivor, this class is for you. Join mother-daughter duo, Leslie Heron (ARNP, FNP-BC) of Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and our very own in-house educator Gretchen, for this informative and fun workshop on cancer and sexuality.
Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™
Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.
Burlesque Basics for the Bedroom & Beyond with Eva D’Luscious
Life sucking your sexy? Leave your inhibitions and self-doubt at the door and let your inner showgirl shine in this body-positive burlesque class guaranteed to put a smile on your face and a wiggle in your walk!
Finding Your Kinks!
Exploring the depths of your erotic self, while exciting, can be scary and unnerving. In this workshop, Angie Gunn will discuss methods of exploring eroticism, and how to do so in a psychologically healthy and edifying way to find your optimal path.
Sex & Dating a la Social Distance
Join Cindy Lee as she discusses sexting/cybersex/risk-aware sexcapades and dating apps while breaking down ways to (re)think this whole dating scene. Participants will leave with dating tips for connecting sexually and/or romantically and learn how to describe their individual needs and intentions regarding pleasure and safety.
Masturbation as Self-Love & Self-Care
What would it look like if we treated ourselves like our most cherished partner? Stella Harris will discuss touch techniques and the ways our bodies can experience pleasure. We will consider making pleasure a ritual, learn genital massage techniques, and embrace masturbation as a healthy, loving practice.
Sex & Sensuality for the Super-Sensitive
Everyone has a unique route to pleasure... and that route can feel even more unique for highly sensitive people and empaths. This class with Jessie Fresh will help you understand your needs and desires while having a highly sensitive nervous system — so your pleasure and turn-on is more easily accessed, shared, and enjoyed.
BJs with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop
Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover's mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!
The Ultimate Orgasm: Building Sexual Energy with Edging
Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, where you feel the full power of your passion? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy that will create a powerful wave of pleasure. In this class, Jessie Fresh will teach you how to decode the best orgasm you've ever had so you can learn what makes you simmer and what makes you boil.
Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want
Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.
Erotic Hypnosis
Want to learn how to use erotic hypnosis to enhance your sex life? In this class, educator Simone Justice will explain what hypnosis actually is and is not, and how to do it. Find out how to begin experimenting with the power of consensual erotic hypnosis to enhance your intimacy, explore your wildest fantasies, and even intensify your orgasmic pleasure!
Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101
Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!
Roughhousing For Adults
From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you can use to spice up your own bedroom play as well as teach you to do them safely.
Bottoms Up: Mind-Melting Erotic Spanking!
Since the dawn of time, spanking has brought pleasure and pain to all kinds of booties. What’s your favorite kind of spanking? Firm yet gentle? Over the knee? Have you ever tried rhythmic spanking or been spanked into a trance-like state? This workshop with Sexual Empowerment Coach Jessie Fresh will help you explore all of that — and more!
Chronic Pain and Intimacy: How to Love Your Sex Life Again
If you or someone you love lives with endometriosis, pelvic myalgia, vaginismus, or regular pain during/after sex, this class is for you. We'll explore how to confidently communicate your needs, how to expand your sexual horizons, and we'll dive into the best tips, toys, and tricks for building the vibrant sex life you deserve!
Fellatio 2.0: An Oral Sex Upgrade!
You know the basics: your hand-mouth coordination is on point, you've timed your breathing to a T, and you have an A+ in anatomy. Now's your chance to take things up a notch! Join She Bop educator Gretchen Leigh as she takes you through the ins and outs and ups and downs of advanced fellatio.
Dismantling STIgma: the Reassuring Truths About Herpes
Join Rae as she dismantles the herpes stigma through education and storytelling. She will be discussing transmission and testing, dating and disclosure, safer sex practices and protecting sexual partners. This will be a safe space to ask questions, share resources, and connect with others looking to learn more about life after herpes.
Keeping the Spark Alive for Long-Lasting Relationships
Learn techniques and strategies that help keep the “spark'' alive in long-term relationships. While bringing your partner flowers or cooking them a special dinner from time to time can be a wonderful treat or surprise, there is much more we can learn to do to truly fan the flames of our relationship!
Introduction to Rope Bondage
Learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You’ll also walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.