• Sex Ed QUICKIE: Love Notes & Dirty Texts!

    Whether you're spending more time these days flirting online or connecting with long distance loves, or you've always been a little nervous about putting your feelings in writing, this QUICKIE is for you! Professional sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris is hot for language, and thinks that words done right can be…

  • Roughhousing For Adults

    Stella Harris

    From hair pulling to being pinned down, from spanking to negotiated face slapping — there are dozens of ways to add intensity to your sex. But getting rough means a bit more planning and communication than you might be used to. This class will show you a variety of rough sex techniques you…

  • Communication in the Bedroom: Asking for What You Want

    Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. In this class Stella Harris will talk about styles of communication, ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try.

  • Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want

    Knowing what you want isn't as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work through, from messages implying that wanting sex…

  • Events

    Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want

    Wednesday, May 13th — 7:30 p.m. — $25 Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work…

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    Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want

    Wednesday, November 13th — 7:30 p.m. — $25 Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work…

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    STARS: Consent and Communication

    Thursday, May 16th — 7:30 p.m. — $10 In the age of #MeToo, consent has become a cultural imperative. While consent is essential for healthy sexuality, many of us have not been taught the skills to put it into consistent practice. Talking about sexual needs and desires is a challenge when we do…

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    Tongue Tied Book Launch, Reading, and Q&A with Stella Harris

    Thursday, September 13th — 7:30 p.m. — FREE (with option to pre-order Tongue-Tied at 10% off) Come celebrate the publication of Stella Harris’s first book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, an incredible guide full of exercises, tools, and personal experiences. There will be a reading and book signing as well as a chance to…

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    Communication in the Bedroom: Asking For What You Want

    Stella Harris

    Wednesday, April 11th — 7:30 p.m. — $15 Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds, and asking for it can be even trickier. Honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, opening us up to rejection or shame. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work…

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    Nasty Naughty Negotiation!

    Sunday, April 16th — 7:30 p.m. — $15 Are you looking for ways to have better sex? Do you feel like it’s hard to come to a good agreement about what you want to do without killing the mood? Want to learn how to talk dirty in delicious ways? Have your hottest sex and…