• Community

    We Give Back Wednesdays: Self Enhancement, Inc.

    We are pleased to announce our We Give Back Wednesdays organization for July: Self Enhancement, Inc.! For over 40 years, Self Enhancement, Inc. (SEI) has been a change agent in the City of Portland, striving to meet the complex needs of youth and their families by helping them to overcome cultural, educational and…

  • Femme for Femme Community Night (FREE in-person event)

    Femme for Femme Community Night

    Come celebrate Portland’s Femme for Femme community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for queer, lesbian, bi, and/or pansexual fem(me)s who love fem(me)s. Anyone who considers themselves fem of center is encouraged to join us. We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home!

  • Diving Deep into Muffing

    Lucie Fielding

    Muffing is a sexual activity that involves fingerbanging the "pockets" above and behind the testicles and scrotum. The term "muffing" was coined by Mira Bellwether in her foundational zine Fucking Trans Women. Join Lucie Fielding for this intensive, hands-on exploration of muffing.

  • Adaptable Aftercare for All

    Evie Lupine

    Aftercare is a common buzzword in BDSM circles, and many myths surround the practice. Is aftercare only for really intense kink scenes? Does it always look like cuddles? In this class with Evie Lupine, we'll be breaking down these stereotypes, as well as talking about ways to make an effective aftercare plan.

  • Love Hurts… but Sex Doesn’t Have To!

    Essie Neeway

    Any form of unwanted pain during or after sex can be challenging, and it impact our enjoyment and pleasure. Pain can run the spectrum from acute to chronic, localized to referred, and everything in between. Come join pelvic health specialist Essie Neeway as she talks all things 'sex pain relief.'

  • Sex & Psychedelics: Erotic Empowerment, Expansion, and Connection

    James Belle and Amory Jane

    Sex, BDSM, and psychedelics may all be used to help us tap into our erotic power and expand our sense of self and relationship with others. Combining altered states may accelerate or intensify effects and sensations. Join sex educators and legal psilocybin facilitators Amory Jane and James Belle for this exciting new workshop!

  • Community

    We Give Back Wednesdays: Q Center

    Q Center

    On each Wednesday in June, 10% of our sales will go to the Q Center, the wonderful LGBTQ community center just around the corner from our North Portland location. The Q Center is an absolute gem of an organization; here’s their description of what they do: Q Center serves as Portland’s LGBTQ2SIA+ (Lesbian,…

  • Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal and External Pleasure

    Stella Harris

    In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection, as well as how to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. This class is for anyone with a penis or prostate, or…

  • Gender Rebels Community Night (FREE in-person event)

    Gender Rebels Community Night

    Come celebrate Portland's non-binary, trans, gender fluid, and genderqueer communities at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for Portland's gender rebels! We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home! Guests will have the opportunity to mingle, ask questions, and enter to win some vibrators and goodies…