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Three (or More) Is Company

June 2, 2021 @ 5:30 pm 7:00 pm PDT

$15 – $25
Stella Harris

This class will be held online via Zoom — you’ll receive an email with access information prior to the event. While classes are LIVE in nature and by default not recorded, some educators have chosen to offer recordings of their classes to pre-registered attendees; please inquire for specifics of this event. Registration deadline: 2:30 p.m. PST on the day of class. No day-of cancellations.

Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties.

Studies show that multi-partner sex is the number one fantasy among American adults. But how do you make it happen? People have a hard enough time negotiating sex or kink with just one person. Adding more people to the mix can complicate things exponentially. But that doesn’t mean it has to be a hassle, a headache, or a recipe for disaster. If your communication and negotiation skills are on point, you can have safe and fun play with as many people as your heart desires.

This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you’re confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences. Stella will cover everything from safety with multiple players, to threesome positions, to party etiquette, to asking for what you want. She’ll also discuss ways to simulate a threesome with two people + sex toys, and options for virtual threesomes.

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. As a speaker, Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, as well as at numerous universities and across various broadcast media. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more on her website or follow her on Instagram.

*At this time we encourage everyone to keep in-person contact within your negotiated pods. We know some people are currently living with, or in a pod with, multiple partners. For everyone else, we encourage you to use the information in this class to start thinking about your threesome fantasies, to start talking about them with existing partners, if any, and to lay the groundwork for meeting new people when it’s safe to do so.

We’re offering 2 free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Two people will be chosen randomly and contacted at least 2 weeks prior to class to confirm.