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    • Welcome!
  • Guides
    • How to choose your first vibrator
    • How to choose a rabbit or dual vibe
    • How to choose and enjoy a G-spot toy
    • Lube 101
    • Toy cleaning guide
    • How to choose an anal toy
    • Guide to masturbation sleeves
    • How to do kegels
    • How to use a cock ring
    • How to choose a harness
    • How to find and stimulate the prostate
    • How to pick out porn
    • Guide to STP (stand-to-pee) devices
    • Guide to sex toys during menopause
    • Traveling with toys guide
  • Q&A
  • She Bop’s Picks
    • Vibrators under $30
    • Valentine’s Day
    • Mother’s Day
    • Halloween
    • Holiday Gifts
  • Materials
  • Spotlight
    • Tristan Taormino
    • Erika Lust
    • Courtney Trouble
    • Shine Louise Houston
    • Candida Royalle
    • Carlos Batts
    • Joanna Angel
    • Madison Young
    • Buck Angel
    • Jiz Lee: Fisting Day interview
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  • F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk

    Amory Jane and Tuck Malloy present a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit…

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  • Am I Doing This Right?: Navigating Communication and Relational Trauma in Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Tuck Malloy

    Are you intellectually on board with non-monogamy but struggling to get your body and heart on the same page? Does the phrase "I want this but I feel like I'm going to die" (from Clementine Morrigan's zine Love Without Emergency) resonate with you? This is a class for the folks who really want…

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    Am I Doing This Right?: Navigating Communication and Relational Trauma in Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Tuck Malloy

    Wednesday, May 6th — 5:30 p.m. PST — $15-25 This class will be held online via Zoom — you will receive an email prior to class with a link. Are you intellectually on board with non-monogamy but struggling to get your body and heart on the same page? Does the phrase “I want this but…

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    Exploring Gender Identity: How Sex & Sensuality Affirms and Expands Gender Identity

    Saturday, April 4th — 3:30 p.m. PST — $15-25 This class will be held online via Zoom — you will receive an email prior to class with a link. How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck…

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    Exploring Gender Identity: How Sex & Sensuality Affirms and Expands Gender Identity

    Wednesday, February 5th — 7:30 p.m. — $25 How does gender identity inform our sex lives? And how can we bring more pleasure into gender transitions? In this class, queer, non-binary sex educator Tuck Malloy invites you to ask some big questions and offers some potential pathways for how to explore gender as…

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    Your Erotic Toolbox: A 101 Guide to Sex Toys

    Sunday, December 15th — 7:30 p.m. — $20 Join Tuck Malloy for an in-depth low-down on sex toys, lube, and much more! Solo or with a partner, sex toys have the capacity to stimulate all our senses, expand our pleasure, and help us realize our deepest desires – so come gather all the…

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She Bop is a women-owned sex toy boutique in Portland, Oregon specializing in body safe products and education. Our mission is to promote healthy and safe sexuality by offering quality products and educational workshops in a fun and comfortable environment. This is our blog!

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Get creative, get sensual, get down! 😏😘🤪 Get creative, get sensual, get down! 😏😘🤪 Banish boredom and bring creativity into the bedroom with tips and techniques from @lunamatatas to spice up your sex life. From roleplay to dirty talk to sex toys – the possibilities are endless for keeping it fresh and hot in bed. 🔥
To sign up, click the link in our bio and select "Take a Class." This is a presentation-style class and you do not need a partner to attend. All genders are welcome! 🏳️‍🌈
♐️ Oh dear Sagittarius friends, please forgive ♐️ Oh dear Sagittarius friends, please forgive us for this late post. Truth be told, no one could ever forget a Sagittarian! 😏🔥 For our fiery and adventurous pals, we suggest this Mini Crop. Don’t be fooled by its 17 inches, this crop still packs a punch and is perfect for traveling, which you love to do. ✈️ Pair the crop with this body-positive and inclusive sex position guide and your curious mind will always be stimulated.  Find both these in our shop!
Most people want to give sexual satisfaction... bu Most people want to give sexual satisfaction... but there's a difference between giving and giving to deny your own needs. 😌🌿😌 In this 45-minute QUICKIE class, Jessie Fresh will get you past people-pleasing to better reach the full enjoyment of your sex life. ✅ To sign up, click the link in our bio. All Sex Ed QUICKIE classes are only $10!
She Bop Online is seeking SEX EDUCATORS! 👀 Whil She Bop Online is seeking SEX EDUCATORS! 👀 While we miss hosting workshops in our Portland store, we are delighted we've been able to expand our offerings by hosting incredible educators from around the WORLD via Zoom. 💻 ✨ Our mission is to promote healthy and safe sexuality through inclusive and affirming education. If you are interested in teaching for us, please click the link in our bio to fill out an educator interest form. ✅ If you  know someone who’d be a great addition, please tag them in the comments! 👇 We are currently prioritizing trans folx and POC, though all who share our values are welcome to reach out. 🤗
Does the idea of restraint turn you on? Do you wan Does the idea of restraint turn you on? Do you want to learn the building blocks of rope bondage? If so, we welcome you to this intro class that combines some of the most popular content in Stella’s bondage arsenal! In this class you will learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation and ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you’re tying. 😘

As a special bonus, with registration to this class you’ll also receive a free copy of Stella’s rope bondage e-book! 🖤 To sign up, click the link in our bio and select “Take A Class.” Get knotty with us next Wednesday.
10% Tuesdays are back for 2021! We're kicking off 10% Tuesdays are back for 2021! We're kicking off our donation program with Prism Health, Oregon’s first LGBTQ health center. Throughout the month of January, shop with us on any Tuesday and 10% of your purchase will go towards this amazing nonprofit that offers safe, welcoming, and knowledgeable primary and mental healthcare for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. To learn more about Prism Health, visit their website prismhealth.org, and don't forget to shop with us on Tuesdays to support them!
Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need t Are you a parent or caregiver who knows you need to go beyond "the talk," but just aren’t sure what kids need to know when, or exactly how to go about telling them? 🤔 In this class, you’ll build knowledge and skills that will help you talk about sexuality with the littles in your life with ease and confidence. 🐥🐝 Come with your questions and challenges so we can think through them together! ✅ Click the link in our bio to sign up.
Hello 2021 and to all our followers! We made it. 2 Hello 2021 and to all our followers! We made it. 2020 was without a doubt a year full of hardships, changes, and challenges but we at Team Bop are feeling hopeful. We’d like to express our gratitude. Thank you to everyone who has supported us throughout this pandemic, whether you liked a photo, shared a post, or purchased a toy; every little bit helps this small biz stay afloat. So grab your favorite toy and cheers with us. ❤️ With love, Team Bop.
This past year has been tough, to say the least. T This past year has been tough, to say the least. To send you all off with some positive vibes, we are doing a sitewide flash sale. 😉 Shop with us today and tomorrow to receive 20% off your order! (Some exclusions apply.) ✨ Use code FU2020 at checkout.✨ Farewell 2020; may 2021 be a better year for all. 👋
For those engaging in BDSM/kinky activities, this For those engaging in BDSM/kinky activities, this class is for you!⛓ Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another’s psychological, emotional, or physical needs. 😌💙 This 45-minute QUICKIE will be an in-depth exploration of what happens inside our brains during a kink scene and how that contributes to our need for aftercare. ✅ To sign up, click the link in our bio. All Sex Ed QUICKIE classes are only only $10!
Were you knotty or nice this year? 😏😇 We jus Were you knotty or nice this year? 😏😇 We just stocked this beautiful cranberry-colored hemp rope by Boss Bondage in our shop! ❤️ We’ll be offering curbside pick-up till 3pm on Christmas Eve if you’d like to purchase for a sensual night in your partner. ✨ Grab a rope bondage guide from our book selection for additional ties and tips, and find more rope color options online at sheboptheshop.com!
❄️Please note: our curbside pickup will close ❄️Please note: our curbside pickup will close early @ 3pm Thursday 12/24 and will be closed all day Friday 12/25. We will resume regular operating hours on Sat 12/26 (11am-6 pm). ☺️🤍
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  • Welcome to 2021! 🌤 Our shelves are stocked with steamy new erotica and limited edition toys, and upcoming class top… https://t.co/dDomBRALUx January 01
  • December's newsletter is out now! ❄ We've got a holiday gift guide, new toys galore, and classes on BDSM, sex magic… https://t.co/gCASaQAd1Y November 30
  • You can still shop online & support our 10% Tuesday organization @BrownHopeOrg ! 10% of all our sales today will be… https://t.co/HwNtQCmREG November 10
  • We are closed today while Team Bop participates in anti-racism training with @EmpressRulesEq. You can still shop on… https://t.co/w5WbXiYUX1 November 10
  • We will be closed this Tuesday 11/20 and Thursday 11/12 for anti-racism training with @EmpressRulesEq! You can stil… https://t.co/0qOs3ZvA1J November 08
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